the thread about nothing...


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I was in my early 20s working front desk at a YMCA. The locker room was closed for a few days to retile it. Some old lady asks as she scanning in if the locker rooms are open yet, I absent mindedly say, "not yet soon, just waiting for the caulk to get hard. " Couple of 16 year old coworkers I'm working with just bust out laughing. I walked away and didn't scan anybody else in the rest of the day😂
 
It’s crazy being in your 40’s, happily married, out of the game for 15 plus years, and not having a single sneaky link/sidepiece/friendswith Bennie’s in your contact list or life in general.


Just feels weird. I don’t know why I’m thinking about this, but even if I wanted to, I don’t have a single person I could “hey big head, you up?” In my life. Can’t remember the last time I did have someone like that in my contacts. It used to be so so so so easy.
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It’s crazy being in your 40’s, happily married, out of the game for 15 plus years, and not having a single sneaky link/sidepiece/friendswith Bennie’s in your contact list or life in general.


Just feels weird. I don’t know why I’m thinking about this, but even if I wanted to, I don’t have a single person I could “hey big head, you up?” In my life. Can’t remember the last time I did have someone like that in my contacts. It used to be so so so so easy.
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NIKE RETRO DIVISION:
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I really could eat a Jamaican smoked jerk chicken chopped over rice and peas covered in brown stew with cabbage and mac sides and fried plantains for dessert everyday for the rest of my life. Perfect combination of African seasoning/flavor paired with western soul food culture. One day I wanna try a Brazilian version of this plate since they grow some spices that we don’t get further north.
 
It’s crazy being in your 40’s, happily married, out of the game for 15 plus years, and not having a single sneaky link/sidepiece/friendswith Bennie’s in your contact list or life in general.


Just feels weird. I don’t know why I’m thinking about this, but even if I wanted to, I don’t have a single person I could “hey big head, you up?” In my life. Can’t remember the last time I did have someone like that in my contacts. It used to be so so so so easy.
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first I didn't know you were in your 40s, you age well papi

all those girls aren't available anymore anyways for me or just foul. if things went sideways with my marriage I'd have to start from scratch. I don't think it would be hard though really. if I look around at most the guys my age I'm doing pretty well. :lol
 
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