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It's my fault I respected the fact that she told me she had a boyfriend? Ok then...Ok, the part that makes it crazier is this. I'll give cliffs since it's kind of long. Keep in mind, she's my friend, claimed to have a bf, and we were just chillin' that day.I actually had a similar situation happen to me when I was younger. I told myself I'd never let it happen again. Told shorty I can't be cool with her anymore. I deaded her immediately. I ignored her calls, but when I finally picked up she kept asking for a reason why I couldn't be friends and I told her we just couldn't. She kept asking for a reason and I kept it real and told her. She still didn't understand why. I got so annoyed I hung up on her mid sentence.
The dynamic of it is just useless. I can be friends with a girl...if she is cool and can hook me up with some of her friends. But what is the point of being friends with a girl that likes you to a point....won't let you pipe....and won't hook you up with any of her friends because she low key likes you?
No one on planet earth got time for that.
-had a free crib for the weekend, we made plans to go to the movies during the day
-she makes excuses of things to do that pushed it until night time
-gets to the house late (we wound up going to a 11:00pm show)
-go to the movies, get out late. I expected her to continue home from the movies (she's my friend, right?)
-She comes back to the crib, we eat and kick it to 3am
-me respecting her "bf", I don't let her stay
-walk her to the bus stop, it's cold (Feb), so we actually cuddle at the bus stop (wtf? I should have brought her back to the house)
-next time we chill, tell her how I feel. She pulls the bf card. I get mad and tell her we can't be friends like that anymore.
Then its your fault. What do you mean we can't be friends?? Why?? I don't understand??? Women always play the victim card. Why can't we be friends....because no one needs a flirt buddy....who you just hang out with have sexual tension with...then goes home.
The girl told my friend that she didn't spend the night because it didn't seem like i wanted her to.....i guess "don't drive home its late just stay here" = get out i don't want you here.