Maybe, if I didn't **** it up.
So me and this chick had been seeing each other for about 3 weeks. Things were looking pretty good. We go to the gym last night to take, what I was told was a kickboxing class. Turns out it was more aerobic, had me in there looking like..
So we get done, we kicking it in the parking lot and she asked if I wanted to go grab a bite to eat. At first I was like, "Naw I'm good...", but I did want to spend some more time with her. We end up going to Wing Stop. She talking about getting something light and a 6 piece is like the smallest thing you can get. I tell her I'm gonna get a 6 piece, she say, "Ok then I'll get the 8 piece.." It didn't even register she did that till I got home. For the last 2 dates(that went to multiple locations) I paid. I don't know what the **** came over me to believe a black woman was going to pay for her own meal, but I ordered my food, the cashier ask me if that was all, I said yea. Boy that chick got heated. Started talking about I'm the type to leave her stranded somewhere, how am I supposed to be showing that I can provide for her if I don't want to pay for her meal yadda yadda. I was upset she kinda pushed the issue but had no intent of paying for herself. She going on and on about how I'm not "courting" her correctly. I say this shows she's not trying to meet in the middle 50/50. She looks disgusted, talkin bout, "Over a chicken dinner?!?" So now its JUST a chicken dinner. From that point she started referring to me as "friend". I texted her later saying I usually don't have a problem paying I just misunderstood the situation, even apologized. She has yet to text me back. Oh well....
Sometimes I feel like I'm just not cut out for relationships.