the thread about nothing...

[kobeafro]

so just ended my relationship with my girl. we had just hit the 1 year mark and 1 day.
now 3rd date we had in the beginning, there was some red flag that i ignored.
after doing my research, looks like she has this thing they call. "daddys issue"
So she was verbally and emotional abuse by her dad. and also been physical abuse by previous EX.

Now she brought all this baggage into this relationship. I tried everything to make her happy.
My mistake is I paid for all the trips and restaurant . from Thailand- New york - Vegas - Philippines - Malaysia - and Korea.
Now i did all that in 1 year. i spent all this emotion and time to the wrong, what is ******* me up is that
what if i spent all those time with the right one, i could've had a great one.

just venting guys. sorry I'm realy hurt. i did everything to make this work.
all i got was, great sex and arguments.
Accusing me with ****.
gets mad at me for no reason.
Always moody. can't make her happy.
i use to be so free, now i can't even look at female the same.
so Manipulative, always trying to control me.
i can't talk to my friends, can't play ball whenever i want , otherwise she would get mad.
its always about her.
gave me an ultimatum between my friends and brother vs her but i spend 6 days a week with her.
i bring her food at her job.
im 25 and she's 21.
people around me and people at the gym would say that dude change this and that.
i buy her shoes, clothes, give her money and all that nothing seems to make her happy.

Lesson learned. for those of you who are in the same situation. please i advice you to get out asap. cause it will make you go crazy and lose everybody around you.

 

[noblekane]

got damn b you took ol girl around the world in only a year

 

[GrizzlyAnimal]

you gon see suge wgen i snap your neck

 

[gentrification]

Even a mediocre meal costs $12-$15 these days.

So true smh

 

[jjs]

kobeafro You live and you learn.

Now you know what to look for in a woman. And you know what to avoid.

We have all been there, it will pass and you'll get over her.

 

[GrizzlyAnimal]

pics

 

[kobeafro]

this is probably my longest relationship .
i actually tried and put everything on this one. smh...

 

[freakydestroyer]

Pro-tip when you get food at a restaurant like Chipotle, try to go to a heavy woman. I noticed they always give me more.

 

[GrizzlyAnimal]

Wow

 

[noblekane]

 

[LebronHasMoreFinalsMVPs]

this is probably my longest relationship .
i actually tried and put everything on this one. smh...

Seems like yall took a fast approach and got caught in flames

 

[Ube]

Damn I want her to sit on my face.

 

[maq25060]

Now i did all that in 1 year. i spent all this emotion and time to the wrong, what is ****ing me up is that
what if i spent all those time with the right one, i could've had a great one.

The pain sucks man. Sorry about that.

But I'll be real with you. If you were with "the right one" all that time, you probably would have ****** it up too.

Just reading through your post man, I see a lot of blaming her, but nothing about what you did or could have done differently. I mean you literally typed your mistake was taking her around the world in 1 year lmao.

Take some time for yourself man...you young as ****. Learn from this experience...learn that a relationship is work. Learn that people will be irrational at times (I wanted to type chicks, but I didn't want to offend). Go smash some other tang without regret in the means.

 

[freakydestroyer]

Damn I want her to sit on my face.

She used to date Austin Mahone. That lucky SOB.

 

[everysingletime]

She used to date Austin Mahone. That lucky SOB.

Lol I double tapped on this pic forgetting that I'm not on instagram

 

[freakydestroyer]

Lol I double tapped on this pic forgetting that I'm not on instagram

I'm legit pissed that I cannot sing.

 

[beh235]

kobeafro you outchea on that 90 day fiance, please don't make the same mistake twice

 

[Roderick Kingsley]

Lol I double tapped on this pic forgetting that I'm not on instagram

 

[everysingletime]

You know. I wasn't great at basketball. I was just ok. But I was quick. But at 32 years old I don't even have that anymore. Feelsbadman

 

[freakydestroyer]

You know. I wasn't great at basketball. I was just ok. But I was quick. But at 32 years old I don't even have that anymore. Feelsbadman

I was Steph Curry before Steph Curry, but that style of basketball wasn't sexy during the Iverson era.

 

[alchemist]

so just ended my relationship with my girl. we had just hit the 1 year mark and 1 day.
now 3rd date we had in the beginning, there was some red flag that i ignored.
after doing my research, looks like she has this thing they call. "daddys issue"
So she was verbally and emotional abuse by her dad. and also been physical abuse by previous EX.

Now she brought all this baggage into this relationship. I tried everything to make her happy.
My mistake is I paid for all the trips and restaurant . from Thailand- New york - Vegas - Philippines - Malaysia - and Korea.
Now i did all that in 1 year. i spent all this emotion and time to the wrong, what is ****ing me up is that
what if i spent all those time with the right one, i could've had a great one.

just venting guys. sorry I'm realy hurt. i did everything to make this work.
all i got was, great sex and arguments.
Accusing me with ****.
gets mad at me for no reason.
Always moody. can't make her happy.
i use to be so free, now i can't even look at female the same.
so Manipulative, always trying to control me.
i can't talk to my friends, can't play ball whenever i want , otherwise she would get mad.
its always about her.
gave me an ultimatum between my friends and brother vs her but i spend 6 days a week with her.
i bring her food at her job.
im 25 and she's 21.
people around me and people at the gym would say that dude change this and that.
i buy her shoes, clothes, give her money and all that nothing seems to make her happy.

Lesson learned. for those of you who are in the same situation. please i advice you to get out asap. cause it will make you go crazy and lose everybody around you.

I’m not sure if you’re trolling or not but you never get in a relationship with a girl with no father figure. Those chicks are crazy.

 

[freakydestroyer]

I’m not sure if you’re trolling or not but you never get in a relationship with a girl with no father figure. Those chicks are

I think you misread, her father was in her life but was abusive. But either way it probably has a major impact on her life.

 

[freakydestroyer]

kobeafro your situation reminds me of this story I shared last week

Storytime
A man I know, let's call him Carl. Carl was courting this woman for six months, who I will call Julie. Carl runs a business and performed 30k worth of services for Julie's sister successfully. Julie met Carl's parents and everything seemed on the up and up, at least from Carl's perspective. Then a month later Carl was supposed to travel with Julie and meet her parents who are in another state. The week of the trip, Julie was very wishy washy in communication and was taking much longer than usual to respond. She was the one who booked the flight and hotel but was acting funny by ignoring him for an entire day when he requested the ticket and details. Eventually he got a response a day and a half later. So they fly to the vacation spot and that's when Julie broke the news to Carl that her parents do not approve of him. Did Carl get finnessed? I think that he got used and played, but don't want to tell him in a way that makes him feel foolish or naive.

 

[promac]

Dang, I think I made this Mexican chick stop liking black dudes.

Could be worse. Could’ve made her stop liking dudes period

 

[skylondiggs]

I really gotta find some passion or hobby other than buying stuff learning the piano would be nice but I ain't ready for all the years of practice. Honestly I'd probably be okay with anything.. **** could be painting grass lmaoo

this is probably my longest relationship .
i actually tried and put everything on this one. smh...

At least you know now b, all you can do is try. Sucks atm, but you're gonna eventually appreciate the experience and know what's up for next time. Hang in there