so just ended my relationship with my girl. we had just hit the 1 year mark and 1 day. we got into an argument over snapchat message cause my friend mention bout brazillians our hot. even though i didnt reply to the message she thinks iam associated to my friends making me a ****boy lookalike. i went to the bathroom and took a piss, when i comeback, she was all over my phone yelling at my ***.
now our 3rd date we had in the beginning, there was some red flag that i ignored.
after doing my research, looks like she has this thing they call. "daddys issue"
So she was verbally and emotional abuse by her dad. and also been physical abuse by previous EX.
Now she brought all this baggage into this relationship. I tried everything to make her happy.
My mistake is I paid for all the trips and restaurant . from Thailand- New york - Vegas - Philippines - Malaysia - and Korea.
Now i did all that in 1 year. i spent all this emotion and time to the wrong, what is ******* me up is that
what if i spent all those time with the right one, i could've had a great one.
just venting guys. sorry I'm realy hurt. i did everything to make this work.
all i got was, great sex and arguments.
Accusing me with ****.
gets mad at me for no reason.
Always moody. can't make her happy.
i use to be so free, now i can't even look at female the same.
so Manipulative, always trying to control me.
i can't talk to my friends, can't play ball whenever i want , otherwise she would get mad.
its always about her.
gave me an ultimatum between my friends and brother vs her but i spend 6 days a week with her.
i bring her food at her job.
im 25 and she's 21.
people around me and people at the gym would say that dude change this and that.
i buy her shoes, clothes, give her money and all that nothing seems to make her happy.
Lesson learned. for those of you who are in the same situation. please i advice you to get out asap. cause it will make you go crazy and lose everybody around you.