the thread about nothing...

a coworker and I are hitting the TRX here at work with a different workout 5 time a day and a different workout each day, just do a set until exhaustion

she still goes to the gym afterwork too

i need to start something lol, this is better than nothing

one of the dudes at work can flagpole

Trx is a serious workout

So I just came back from visiting my mom over spring break. She fell and broke her hip and needed surgery. She's a heroin addict, so she had to do physical therapy at a place that would accept an addict, which was a very short list.

Anyways I've never known who my biological father was, and she always mentioned she didn't know either and that was that. I was raised by an adopted father, so I never pursued finding out. While I was visiting her, she dropped a bomb on me.

She told me whom my dad was, and that he died about 5 months ago. my biological father was her best friends husband at the time. He had an affair with my mom, she got preggo with me, and didn't want anybody to know. This is where everything gets bizarro crazy crazy.

Soooooo here goes. My mom couldn't take care of me when I was younger because of her drug use. Instead of getting put in foster care, her sister and husband took me in. So my aunt and uncle raise me for a few years until they got a nasty divorce. My aunt just left me to run off with another man, so my uncle raised me, then later legally adopted me. So my uncle by marriage, became my dad. It get stranger

My adopted dad was friends with my moms friend. He ends up meeting that lady's sister and they hit it off. They end up getting married. So all my life, this lady that used to be my moms friend is now kinda my aunt. But in actuality, she's the ex wife of my biological dad!

Over the years I've heard tons and tons of stories about my bio dad. He was putting up Antonio cromartie type children numbers through affairs. Apparently I have 20 or 30 half Brothers and sisters. The lady that my bio cheated on used to baby sit me allll the time growing up. She has 2 daughters that were like sisters to me, and I'm now finding out THEY WERE MY SISTERS! My mom said the lady pretty much knew I was that guys baby. Which is crazy because she was babysitting a reminder of her cheating husband. Like, what if she decided to up an murder me man?! Like, opps babysitter neglect, DIE BASTARD!

Not sure where to go from here. Do I tell that lady I know. Do I tell my half sisters we're related? Do I start looking for my half siblings out there? What would I even say? "Hi I'm your brother. Welp, talk to ya later."

Mi vida loca

Wow that's crazy bro. Something out a book or a movie
 
I want a camaro so bad (SS)
But i get turned away knowing that everyone has one.
I think the deisign is nice and im a fan of that american muscle.
Low key just thinking about getting a European
 
I want a camaro so bad (SS)
But i get turned away knowing that everyone has one.
I think the deisign is nice and im a fan of that american muscle.
Low key just thinking about getting a European

You ever notice when you get a car you start seeing that same car everywhere
 
Do you think it's possible for a girl with a boyfriend and a straight guy to be friends?

I did start interactions with this chick with the goal of trying to get with her but we continued interactions after I found out she had a bf

Still interested in being friends though. It seemed like it was going really well. Just puzzled by why her behavior changes when we're all in a group though. It's so much easier interacting with her one on one, can't put my finger as to why

Next time it's time for classes I'ma text her like always to commute to school with me. If she acts weird about it this time, I can take a hint.
yes you can be friends as long as both of you respect the friendship and don't cross certain lines.
no flirting or any of that ********
does this apply to your situation? i don't think so since you like her and most likely would take the chance to be with her if given the opportunity

i have a homegirl thats a part of my closest circle. we've been friends for like 12 years now and stay in touch weekly.
we never disrespected the friendship or any relationship either of us is in.
even with my lady now who i've been with for 2 years has become friends with my homegirl so much that she told me she would ask her to be her bridesmaid when we get married.


one rule i think that's really helped is that i never talk to my homegirl about me and my lady's relationship. that's our business and no one else's. especially another chick
 
yes you can be friends as long as both of you respect the friendship and don't cross certain lines.
no flirting or any of that bull****
does this apply to your situation? i don't think so since you like her and most likely would take the chance to be with her if given the opportunity

i have a homegirl thats a part of my closest circle. we've been friends for like 12 years now and stay in touch weekly.
we never disrespected the friendship or any relationship either of us is in.
even with my lady now who i've been with for 2 years has become friends with my homegirl so much that she told me she would ask her to be her bridesmaid when we get married.


one rule i think that's really helped is that i never talk to my homegirl about me and my lady's relationship. that's our business and no one else's. especially another chick
Trueeeee to all you said.

I like to think I went out of my way not to flirt. But maybe I did flirt without knowing I did.
 
Trueeeee to all you said.

I like to think I went out of my way not to flirt. But maybe I did flirt without knowing I did.
if you like her, it's going to really be hard to just be friends.
feels will be felt. it happens all the time. you may be cool now...but what would you do if she started sending you hints or starts leading you on?
hate to say it but you might be in the friendzone already. people are naturally selfish and women use men(and vice versa) all the time to boost their self esteem.

a lot of people on here don't have female friends or believe they can be because they prolly tried to smash them all.
 
if you like her, it's going to really be hard to just be friends.
feels will be felt. it happens all the time. you may be cool now...but what would you do if she started sending you hints or starts leading you on?
hate to say it but you might be in the friendzone already. people are naturally selfish and women use men(and vice versa) all the time to boost their self esteem.

a lot of people on here don't have female friends or believe they can be because they prolly tried to smash them all.

True,
You can't be friends with someone you have feelings for or like.
 
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if you like her, it's going to really be hard to just be friends.
feels will be felt. it happens all the time. you may be cool now...but what would you do if she started sending you hints or starts leading you on?
hate to say it but you might be in the friendzone already. people are naturally selfish and women use men(and vice versa) all the time to boost their self esteem.

a lot of people on here don't have female friends or believe they can be because they prolly tried to smash them all.
I hear you. I'm going to keep it to just school. I want to keep our commutes to school together going though cuz it makes the one hr commute to school go by fast.

The pattern has been. We commute to school together (we live close together and school is an hr away). We go to classes together. And then after classes we do our own thing.

I'm good with just that.
 
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I haven't yet. Gonna talk to him soon. Like I said, he adopted me and raised me so I consider him my dad. He knew my biological father, I remember him telling me stories. "boy you look and act just like Earl. You better not turn out like that piece of ****." Of course his name would be Earl :lol:

I have a feeling most of my family knew deep down, but never wanted me around dude so kept it from me? Guess he never had a job, was a junkie, but was blessed with the gift of gab.
Well I think it turned out well for you not to find out all this information at a young age. IMO, that could have been way too much for you to process while growing up. Hopefully you find a way to move forward and possibly meet you siblings.

I LOL'd when you referenced his actions to Antonio Cromartie :lol:
 
They made the questions on Who Wants to Be a Millionaire so easy now. I'm sure everyone here could win at least $5,000 if they went on the show lol.

The $50,000 question was basically asking which emoji is the most commonly used one on Twitter. And the answer choices were the tears of joy crying face, the monkey, the purple devil, or the OK sign. And not only did this dude have to ask the audience, but a majority of them said the tears of joy and he STILL chose not to answer and walked away... and he was a college student so it's not like it was an older dude. Of course they ended up being right, but that's such an easy question for $50,000 smh
 
Bruh, half a billion dollars :sick: i might just buy two tickets and I have NEVER played the lotto :lol:
How do I go about playing this lotto?

Do I just go to a gas station and ask for tickets? Also, how much is a ticket? And when/where do I tune in to find out if I win? :lol:
 
They made the questions on Who Wants to Be a Millionaire so easy now. I'm sure everyone here could win at least $5,000 if they went on the show lol.

The $50,000 question was basically asking which emoji is the most commonly used one on Twitter. And the answer choices were the tears of joy crying face, the monkey, the purple devil, or the OK sign. And not only did this dude have to ask the audience, but a majority of them said the tears of joy and he STILL chose not to answer and walked away... and he was a college student so it's not like it was an older dude. Of course they ended up being right, but that's such an easy question for $50,000 smh
I would've felt that was a hard question
 
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