the thread about nothing...

[Sumrndmdude!]

Serious question:

Is it impossible in today's society for a girl and a guy to be just friends?

i'm open to being friends...

 

[Sumrndmdude!]

 
It's you

talk that **** grizz! Broliccember around the corner tho!

 

[sb]

digimon tri is on crunchyroll 

only digimon acknowledged is og season 1 and 2.

Serious question:

Is it impossible in today's society for a girl and a guy to be just friends?

nah

 
I am a chick dude.

All guys act like they want to be "friends" and then try to put it on me like... ugh I ain't trying to bang you.
I just want to kick it

Human beings are still just animals, even if we have heightened sensibilities and moral disambiguation. In my opinion, the idea that we're any different than any other creature on this earth whose nature is simply to copulate and continue the species, is naive.

Guys talk to women they're attracted to, unless they absolutely have to talk to the ones they're not attracted to (at work, during retail interactions, out of pure social politeness, etc.). I'm sure most women will only give more than a cursory amount of attention to guys they too find attractive in one way or another, as well. When a guy reads these cues of shared interest, or vice versa, the belief of mutual attraction is generated in his/her mind. It's just nature. I do a dance, you do a dance, we like each others' dances so, hey, let's get together.

Honestly, I think it's actually somewhat deceitful for a male to exhibit "friendliness" beyond mere politeness to a woman to whom he's not attracted, and for a woman to do it to a guy she's not attracted to, especially if they're over the age of 18 or so.

I've been "very good friends" with at least four women in my adult life, all of whom I had been with at some point in some capacity (BF, FWB, random hookups, etc.). When I was "friends" with them, and I got together with my now-long-time GF, then they told me they wanted to either get back together or that "if things didn't work out with my GF/their BF, we should get back together." On of these instances is unfortunate, twice is coincidence, and 3x-plus is just some BS, and leads me to believe women are just as bad as guys in messing with the other sex to get an upper hand in the mating dance.

So yeah, I think meaningful conversation = a sign you're attracted and interested in the other party. Does that mean it should lead to "meaningless copulation?" No, but only because I don't think "copulation" is meaningless. It's fun, it feels really good, it's relaxing, and it's no different to me than going bowling, to a movie or going to a concert. And the only reason it's made to seem like it's the most holiest of holies is because of conservative religious conditioning and patriarchal overlording that's led to millennia of fathers trying to control what their daughters do with their bodies.

Just mah 2 cents.

great post.

 

[andretti]

Got mad sick yesterday after I left from this job interview (I basically got it)

Went home to take a nap and woke up vomiting like three times (dry heeves :x wouldn't wish on my worst enemy man )

Then I had to wake up and go to my moms school to unlock her car while sick .cant believe I made it there. Didn't have enough energy to drive back so I had to take a nap in the van so I can up my strength. When I did drive again I didn't make it 200 feet before I had to pull over and throw up out the window again .

Got home and took some medicine,I'm Ok

 

[mwalker]

Serious question:

Is it impossible in today's society for a girl and a guy to be just friends?

Of course not

 

[skylondiggs]

Just came back from my 2nd contacts appointment. Still couldn't get them in, fingers just kept sliding off when I tried to hold my eyes open, lashes kept getting in the way.. Just said **** it and left. Jeez man |I

 

[broncos19dm]

Any plans for the weekend y'all? 

 

[andretti]

Any plans for the weekend y'all? 

Acquire curren$y ticket for monday concert

 

[beh235]

We byke! ayyeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

 

[andretti]

We byke! ayyeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

 

[benzilla427]

New Bieber bumps. idc idc

 

[jjs]

No music talk.

But you aint ever lie.


I dont know what to do with my saturday

 

[tommyicerocking]

 

[andretti]

Same . I have some tree but I don't even feel like smoking

 

[natrix916]

acquiring money during the week.

spending it on the fam on the weekend.

sup tan

wheres ryda wit dem pics

 

[MetalMario]

Brother turned 32 today. He's an OG NTer that showed me the ways

 

[andretti]

Brother turned 32 today. He's an OG NTer that showed me the ways

Tell em happy b day.

 

[grimeyy]

Everyones getting sick. Only a matter of time before I catch it too

 

[sb]

acquiring money during the week.

spending it on the fam on the weekend.

sup tan

wheres ryda wit dem pics

@Ryda421

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Everyones getting sick. Only a matter of time before I catch it too

Buy some chewable Vitamin C

Buy some ginger root, throw in some drinks

Tea

Think positive. If you are telling yourself you will be sick then you might get sick

Pray

 

[bayyrd]

acquiring money during the week.

spending it on the fam on the weekend.

sup tan

wheres ryda wit dem pics

You've been away for a while...

Ryda was banned

MJwizkid took his place

 

[mjwizkid]

 

[skylondiggs]

 

[Roderick Kingsley]

it feels nice to have someone actually take care of you & hold you when you're feeling sick.

got me feeling like a princess, simpin and ****. 

 

 

[natrix916]

acquiring money during the week.

spending it on the fam on the weekend.

sup tan

wheres ryda wit dem pics

You've been away for a while...

Ryda was banned

MJwizkid took his place

ryda banned

ok...come on MJwizkid.......