joepac12
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Damn man. Let's and gun range got u that outta character smh. On to the next one my man.
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SHE KNOWS THAT YOUR THIRSTY NOW. SO SHES JUST PLAYING HER ROLE. SHE MOST LIKELY PLACED YOU IN THE CATEGORY AS THE OTHER DUDES THAT TRY TO GET AT HER. OR SHE JUST GOT BORED OR SHE SEEKS ATTENTION....YOU CANT TELL WITH THESE FEMALES. BUT PLAY YOUR ROLE AND REMAIN COOL AND SEEK OTHER FEMALES. YOU WILL RUN INTO HER AGAIN. FEMALES LIKE GAMES.... SO PLAY IT.I messed up bros.
I just moved to this city, been here 5 months.
So I finally chopped some sweet south African thing after getting settled in. Got her number no problem and started texting. Random things I usually play it mad cool plus shorty is at least an 8, so I know type of attention she gets. So this goes on and on and then I got my opening:
Her:You'd also be making more sales with your smile.. ladies will be rolling in instead of those old folks you been hangin around lol
Me:
Haha yo my smile is reserved for those I likeI Dont use it for sales lol. But that kiosk is loosing money BTW.
Her:
Like me
Oopssmiley I meant lol
Me:
Haha u r in ur own class yo, can't put u wit the rest of the people..how can I see u and not smile.
Her:
Sounds like you are missing my smile already?
Hehe
Guess that means your coming to city center lol
Me:
Haha na not even I just meant u were funny lookin so u make me smile ... Lol na j/k..I do miss that cute smile still..
Her:
Haha.. Real cute, You got jokes
That made me smile
Aite aiiiiiiiiiiiite I'm getting mad geeked so I stopped and chilled. She hit me up on like Friday 9 am asking what I'm saying for the weekend, tried to play it like I do things solo anyway and had plans so I was like I'm hitting up this festival yada yaada yada. She tells me forget the festival and let's go to a gun range...
This is where I messed up bros..soon as she said "let's" and gun range I got mad thirsty and dropped all my teachings...I hit her with like 4 texts in a matter of 10 mins saying let's do it up and I'll pick u up and all types of lame stuff...shorty didn't even reply after that...been a week now!!!!!
Moral of story Dont let thirst cloud game, stay cool bros.
PS. If anyone knows how to salvage this situation lmk still lol.
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onthenephs
Young blood let that go and move on to the next. Any woman that plays the "thirst" game has no logic or reasoning. In all honesty you did nothing wrong because you showed interest. This is what used to perplex me about females when I was single. You say you want a good man/someone that is highly interested in you but you do the opposite to keep my attention. That's when I stop giving dambs and was straight from the hip" I don't play the text, no call game", that weeded out the real from the fake. Take it on the chin and let it be. Guaranteed when she is bored or when the next man does her dirty she will hit you with the famous,"Hey You" text, lol... Every OG in here has been hit with that one..lol
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Young blood let that go and move on to the next. Any woman that plays the "thirst" game has no logic or reasoning. In all honesty you did nothing wrong because you showed interest. This is what used to perplex me about females when I was single. You say you want a good man/someone that is highly interested in you but you do the opposite to keep my attention. That's when I stop giving dambs and was straight from the hip" I don't play the text, no call game", that weeded out the real from the fake. Take it on the chin and let it be. Guaranteed when she is bored or when the next man does her dirty she will hit you with the famous,"Hey You" text, lol... Every OG in here has been hit with that one..lol
This man knows.
Don't hit her up and at some point she will.
Honesty is the best policy as mugeb mentioned
nicofinessin
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You flipped the script and got geeked quick, but she's lame for breaking down your entire interaction down to that 10 mins. Falling back because someone is really into you is a stupid reason anyways. Still, gotta keep your cool and curb your enthusiasm. The game will never let you not play it. But she will eventually get back to you with the "hey" text. Up to you if you wanna ignore her cuz you're good or follow through.
36 ounces
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You was definitely shootin from the hip on that one...But like others said, move on, the ball is her court now
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Smh i Know I gotta keep it moving Its all good and things, just a girl. I just had to put the example out there for all the dudes that are relocating to new cities for employment etc.
And the convo went exactly like that. It's a mission to screenshot all of that lol, take my word bruh it's not like I bragged about nothing shh didn't even work out.
And the convo went exactly like that. It's a mission to screenshot all of that lol, take my word bruh it's not like I bragged about nothing shh didn't even work out.
joepac12
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I get curved all the time but I'm constantly getting new numbers so I could careless about the ones that don't act right. Take more shots get more buckets.
meek meals
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Went to one of my local Mexican spots to grab a meal to-go. As soon as I walk in the Mexican chick at the counter is smiling at me.
I took a Spanish class as an elective last semester, so I decide to try something different.
I dead *** ordered my meal in Spanish. I knew enough Spanish (or at least I thought I did) to tell her what I wanted off the menu.
She starts laughing uncontrollably at how bad I butchered it. Everyone in the place turns around. I whisper to her "chill, you're embarrassing us ha."
She puts my order in and I get a drink and sit down while I wait. We're making eye contact the whole time. As my food comes out I come to the counter and say
ME: "Thank you, what's your name?"
HER: "Brenda"
ME: "Ok then Brenda, can I get a refill?"
HER: "It's a dollar."
ME: "That's fine, I know you got me."
HER: (laughs) I would but I'd come up short."
ME: "It's cool. Thank you tho, I'll see you next time."
When I get home and pull my food out the bag a number was written on top of the styrofoam box. I text her and say, "I see you don't play games, giving your # out before you know my name."
She responds with "You're slooow, your name was on your credit card."
My point of this post is that I took a witty approach w/o the intent of bagging, and she responded with something clever herself. Had I not attempted to order my meal in Spanish it would have turned out different.
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at the Baby and Khaled gif
meek meals
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BRUH IM CRYING
But
Bruh exactly lol. Listening to rap with a girl ain't that smart unless it's Drake or some **** lol. Rappers be
Quote:I think I'm done asking girls for numbers, I'm going to jump on the give girls my number team.
So do I write it down on a piece of paper or put it in her phone?
Tips from the giving girls your number gang
Put it in her phone. Puts the ball in your court when she texts you.
"Yo you should text me"
meek meals
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Hahahaha yall were not lying
Beyonce about to inspire women to get their slurp on nationwide and I aint even mad
mr marcus
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Was telling this chick Saturday how my girl and I broke up...25 mins later she dm me on twitter and said "you can stop being a stranger now" 2 years ago we both admitted we were feeling each other but we both were in relationships....think ima pursue her but I need to make sure I'm done with my gf of 6 years
....just tired of the disrespect and her wanting me to be some extroverted guy when that's never been me...doesn't help we have a kid together ...turned a story into a rant lol but yea**** turned sour once she pushed the engagement thing a year ago and I straight up told her I'm not entertaining marriage until I'm 32-35 (I'm 26 now) ....nothing was the same after that
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301216baller
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thanks beyonce
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Still waiting on EWD to write an erotic novel.
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Still waiting on EWD to write an erotic novel.
keel252
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Was telling this chick Saturday how my girl and I broke up...25 mins later she dm me on twitter and said "you can stop being a stranger now" 2 years ago we both admitted we were feeling each other but we both were in relationships....think ima pursue her but I need to make sure I'm done with my gf of 6 years
**** turned sour once she pushed the engagement thing a year ago and I straight up told her I'm not entertaining marriage until I'm 32-35 (I'm 26 now) ....nothing was the same after that
Idk who are telling these women to put pressure on a man and that will determine when the marriage will happen. You can't rush a man, and if a man caves to the pressure it will only end badly. A woman will end up losing a good man that has her back through thick and thin bc her clock is ******* with her. My ex decided our situation was driving her crazy, and felt like moving out into different apartments would fix the problem. I was tired of her trying to dictate the situation and relationship and thought it would be best we go our separate ways. O well guess it's a blessing in disguise. I have this new engery and met another young lady who is so dope it's crazy.
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I will play devils advocate with that topic.
women have Disney pipe dreams imbedded in their systems. so when us as dudes get with them. and we are stagnant on fully committing girls get impatient.
and tbh they have a right especially the situations when you're with a chick over 2 years and you barely say the L word to her. 2 years in a steady non long distance relationship is enough time to figure out if you want them long term or not.
(now for financial reasons I can understand not wanting /being able to do it)
but in their eyes its like poop or get off the pot. honestly I agree with that. this is why I say. if you want to be single be single. but don't play that break up to make up game. and don't sit and whine about u don't know if u want this or not (after 2 years ) because you're bullcraping yourself as well waiting for diamonds in a volcano.
this is why I've always been an advocate of if you're not happy walk away.
too many people out here and you're not only doing her a favor but yourself.
now I only really say this for dudes atleast out of college. and from personal experience.
but just saying if you're wondering why girls put the squeeze on you that's why..
now I also understand this saying
women love fast but men love hard.
but you always have to be honest and stop stringing along these women because you want to hablve your cake and wat it too.
it borderline disgust me the situations I hear of people in 4+ year relationships over the age of 25 and the dude can't get committed to awesome girls. and ill admit some of the situations I know its because of the girl. but with that being the case. let her go. it much harder for a dude to mold a girl to the way they want them
over how girls get their little ways. a lot of you dudes out here living pipe dreams also and not even able to be bill bellamy (word to how to be a player)
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women have Disney pipe dreams imbedded in their systems. so when us as dudes get with them. and we are stagnant on fully committing girls get impatient.
and tbh they have a right especially the situations when you're with a chick over 2 years and you barely say the L word to her. 2 years in a steady non long distance relationship is enough time to figure out if you want them long term or not.
(now for financial reasons I can understand not wanting /being able to do it)
but in their eyes its like poop or get off the pot. honestly I agree with that. this is why I say. if you want to be single be single. but don't play that break up to make up game. and don't sit and whine about u don't know if u want this or not (after 2 years ) because you're bullcraping yourself as well waiting for diamonds in a volcano.
this is why I've always been an advocate of if you're not happy walk away.
too many people out here and you're not only doing her a favor but yourself.
now I only really say this for dudes atleast out of college. and from personal experience.
but just saying if you're wondering why girls put the squeeze on you that's why..
now I also understand this saying
women love fast but men love hard.
but you always have to be honest and stop stringing along these women because you want to hablve your cake and wat it too.
it borderline disgust me the situations I hear of people in 4+ year relationships over the age of 25 and the dude can't get committed to awesome girls. and ill admit some of the situations I know its because of the girl. but with that being the case. let her go. it much harder for a dude to mold a girl to the way they want them
over how girls get their little ways. a lot of you dudes out here living pipe dreams also and not even able to be bill bellamy (word to how to be a player)
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mr marcus
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like I said it's a kid involved and she's now trying to change me from who I am to who she wants me to be (and I was committed the past 3 years as far as not cheating...I think lol ...just maybe innocent flirting but thats it)
and most marriages that happen in people's 20s don't stick long term......I'm 26 and she's 24
plus another aspect is she's from an African family.......they are demanding and if I marry her they'll never let her go enough where she can be a true wife (with all us staying in the same city)....It's hard to explain but her mom and aunt are demanding
just think we both need a break......if it's meant to be then it's meant to be......she just need to stay cool and don't turn into a scorned bm.....it's not even about me wanting to **** other females .....I'm going back to school and I don't need pressure from a relationship
4-5 days a week listening to a woman nagging about you is stress you'll never understand......I've asked her plenty of times "why are you still with me" and she can't even answer the question.......that **** brings you down and with a kid or not I can't continue to stay in some **** like that.....It got so bad that I didn't even care to **** her anymore....just sad she changed up on me the past year cause we were good before then.......guess everybody reaches a limit and I've reached mines
and most marriages that happen in people's 20s don't stick long term......I'm 26 and she's 24
plus another aspect is she's from an African family.......they are demanding and if I marry her they'll never let her go enough where she can be a true wife (with all us staying in the same city)....It's hard to explain but her mom and aunt are demanding
just think we both need a break......if it's meant to be then it's meant to be......she just need to stay cool and don't turn into a scorned bm.....it's not even about me wanting to **** other females .....I'm going back to school and I don't need pressure from a relationship
4-5 days a week listening to a woman nagging about you is stress you'll never understand......I've asked her plenty of times "why are you still with me" and she can't even answer the question.......that **** brings you down and with a kid or not I can't continue to stay in some **** like that.....It got so bad that I didn't even care to **** her anymore....just sad she changed up on me the past year cause we were good before then.......guess everybody reaches a limit and I've reached mines
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keel252
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we will agree to disagree bc that whole 2 years you know what you want is nonsense. In my situation I was so financially channelled I wasn't comfortable. Then i got a great job and just didn't understand the rush. Lets stack, travel and enjoy this new found financial freedom. Then worry bout a wedding and marriage later. Speaking with older heads they always say young folks nowadays rush rush rush and then walk away. Take your time and enjoy each other first. Point expressed in the divorce numbers. I didn't want another women or had the desire to chase women outside my relationship. I was fully committed to her, loved every piece and inch of her. She had the mindset "let's just do it, we doing everything else marriage people do." She was so naive to think it was that easy when in reality marriage is not just that simple. Idk maybe you personally haven't seen the uglies of marriage people creeping or nonsense. **** is scary man, and divorce is easier said then done.
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ive been with my girl for 5 going on 6 and i cant see myself getting married till i am truly 10000% financially stable. At the moment im grinding at my company trying to move up as fast as possible and i see the people who are married/ have kids/ baby daddy or momma issues/ relationship issues etc. Dont get as far or simply dont care to move up.
I want my kids/wife to have a good life and wont settle for anything less. Add to that im only 24 so whats the rush. Everyone i know that is married or have kids already is either struggling or having issues in their household. We are GOOD and i would hate to mess up what we have just to say oh we married.
I want my kids/wife to have a good life and wont settle for anything less. Add to that im only 24 so whats the rush. Everyone i know that is married or have kids already is either struggling or having issues in their household. We are GOOD and i would hate to mess up what we have just to say oh we married.
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I wasn't really speaking like yall need to get married after 2 years, but I feel you should atleast be like hey girl I Love you and I know you're what i want.
but we have dudes being like.. man i can't take this chick crap.. why am i dealing with this.. but then still deal with it.. 2 years you should know what you want. and how or if things will get better..
The simplest rule is What you see is what you get. .. You can stack, you can travel with your significant other.
I understand not getting married, I don't understand the dudes who cheat and claim being miserable but still keep chick around.
(same goes for women also.)
As for wanting to be 1000% stable once again I understand. but you've been with the girl for 5/6 years and you know she is who you want and yall are doing nothing yall wouldn't do married so whats the difference really, if you plan on getting married anyway..
I mean as long as your commited and you not creeping around Its cool but if your girl got a problem then thats a problem
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