TAY: thread about yambs...

[Peep Game]

Speaking of simping, saw Best Man Holiday on Friday, and the dude who married the stripper, and all the scenes involved with that, screamed NT so much

 

[solegit08til]

Fam I got a problem on my hands but IDK what to do.

I was using the homies computer and his email was open. I was about to close it but I saw something. It was a response to a craigslist personal ad. He said he wanted to experiment with them(it was a couple looking for a dude I guess). He always says fa99ot too, which is sketchy to me.


Should I ever bring it up?

I've ran trains with this dude when we were in high school so this kinda has me weirded out. If he is gay or bi though I would support him and not judge him because that's just how I was raised.

 

[suberzat1]

Fam I got a problem on my hands but IDK what to do.

I was using the homies computer and his email was open. I was about to close it but I saw something. It was a response to a craigslist personal ad. He said he wanted to experiment with them(it was a couple looking for a dude I guess). He always says fa99ot too, which is sketchy to me.


Should I ever bring it up?

I've ran trains with this dude when we were in high school so this kinda has me weirded out. If he is gay or bi though I would support him and not judge him because that's just how I was raised.

If you think he is bi or gay then let him come out to you. Dont jump to conclusions

 

[solegit08til]

If you think he is bi or gay then let him come out to you. Dont jump to conclusions

Knowing his family, I don't think he'd ever come out though. He's had a few girlfriends though so maybe it's just a phase or something. I feel hella guilty for even knowing though.

 

[joepac12]

Dam sole. That's sketchy. I wouldn't even wanna know honestly if they didn't tell me out right

 

[suberzat1]

Knowing his family, I don't think he'd ever come out though. He's had a few girlfriends though so maybe it's just a phase or something. I feel hella guilty for even knowing though.

I have a real good friend that is gay and like maybe your friend his family is not for it(still havnt told them). It took him a while to tell me he was gay. Dude text me one day saying I need to talk with you. Said he been wanting to tell me for a while but was scared to tell me because it may change our friendship. Told him that day we been friends since freshmen year of high school so it wont change anything, Been cool since he told me and still one of my better friends in life.

It could be a phase but I to did see some signs while he was in college I just ignore them.

 

[36 ounces]

Fam I got a problem on my hands but IDK what to do.

I was using the homies computer and his email was open. I was about to close it but I saw something. It was a response to a craigslist personal ad. He said he wanted to experiment with them(it was a couple looking for a dude I guess). He always says fa99ot too, which is sketchy to me.


Should I ever bring it up?

I've ran trains with this dude when we were in high school so this kinda has me weirded out. If he is gay or bi though I would support him and not judge him because that's just how I was raised.

Just be sympathetic towards his situation, empathetic to his feelings, and apathetic towards his preferences.....

.....If thats your homie be cool about it.

 

[slicknick951]

I mean I did almost about everything y'all told me to do to acquire yambs when talking to this bi shorty. But everything was getting shot down so went to my old route. Got to know her and she got to know me. Told me that I was different from any cat she met but of course that gets thrown around a lot. But at the end of the day, she really like hanging/being around me (this maybe be because 1) I'm her only friend around these parts and 2) maybe she really likes the person I am).

My question is if none of my money is spent on shorty, what's wrong with continuing to be friends with her? I'm showing her around the area which benefits her and having fun while doing it.

Now don't worry, I have not lost the knowledge y'all passed to me. I, simply, took the L with this shorty, but continue to keep her around for company and have moved on to find other targets to get at and use the tactics y'all taught me.

If you're not simping then nothing is wrong. Having friends is cool .. some people think the opposite sex should never be friends but I don't think that.

Just be careful not to get too attached because eventually she will find a guy she wants to be with and he wont like you hanging around with his girl. But have fun while it last she might be a great wing woman if you play it right

 

[mugen81]

I mean I did almost about everything y'all told me to do to acquire yambs when talking to this bi shorty. But everything was getting shot down so went to my old route. Got to know her and she got to know me. Told me that I was different from any cat she met but of course that gets thrown around a lot. But at the end of the day, she really like hanging/being around me (this maybe be because 1) I'm her only friend around these parts and 2) maybe she really likes the person I am).

My question is if none of my money is spent on shorty, what's wrong with continuing to be friends with her? I'm showing her around the area which benefits her and having fun while doing it.

Now don't worry, I have not lost the knowledge y'all passed to me. I, simply, took the L with this shorty, but continue to keep her around for company and have moved on to find other targets to get at and use the tactics y'all taught me.

If you can't recognize the game coming out here mouth...
Yep Men and Women can be Great Buddies with no attachment, lol

 

[ofreshone]

See now don't give up on a brethren. Idk I'm just saying, I have four really nice homegirls. Always ride for me, even more than my homeboys. Pays for me more than I pay for them type ish. Even got matching tattoos with two of them. Bring the heat fam.

 

[slicknick951]

See now don't give up on a brethren. Idk I'm just saying, I have four really nice homegirls. Always ride for me, even more than my homeboys. Pays for me more than I pay for them type ish. Even got matching tattoos with two of them. Bring the heat fam.

you went way too far now with the tats

 

[bostoiah]

See now don't give up on a brethren. Idk I'm just saying, I have four really nice homegirls. Always ride for me, even more than my homeboys. Pays for me more than I pay for them type ish. Even got matching tattoos with two of them. Bring the heat fam.

that's some feminine ish bruh

 

[mugen81]

See now don't give up on a brethren. Idk I'm just saying, I have four really nice homegirls. Always ride for me, even more than my homeboys. Pays for me more than I pay for them type ish. Even got matching tattoos with two of them. Bring the heat fam.

Look I might come off judgmental or even as a bully sometimes but it's all because I have been through the ish some people post and I remember that pain bro. I was young messing up and doing the same stuff you were doing. I know this is an "Internet" forum and everybody grows at there own pace in "Real" life but some of this stuff resonates powerful in me because as sweet as women can be(and they are the greatest thing god/whoever up gave to man), they also can be treacherous and down right demon like, lol.
Once again you are grown and you can decide to be friends with women but for me I don't need that in my life(got my lady for that) and before her I had the homies.. For me personally a woman can't give me any insight on life unless its my mom,sister in law or my nieces, not trying to sit with a woman listening to her talk about mundane things or men of none of my concern. I have only one true female friend but we went to HS together...
But even with her I distance myself because sometimes I think about what if we got together.. We can all sit here and say we have female friends we will not touch but in your heart you a damn fool and lying to yourself, especially if you got friends that look like Nia Long, Angela Bassett, Jennifer Lawerence, Jennifer Lopez, etc... Lol
Look fam you are your own man, just like everybody else in here and my "long *** posts" are out of passion and "Real" life experiences and I get long winded only on situations I have lived through.. So keep stumbling and keep trying ish(Katt Williams voice), that's the only way to learn...
Just keep your head up during the process..
Enjoy your Sunday Folks

 

[Mark Antony]

My dude just does not get it yet. I hope he does. He's made himself into a sexless unattractive homegirl. Like I said female friends are cool, but you're not anywhere near the level of self understanding and manliness to control that.

 

[ofreshone]

I def hear you mugen81 . My bad for making you keep coming out your bat cave. I'm trying y'all way and slowly picking up on things. I may be tiptoeing to this change but at least I know I'm doing it. Def feels out of my element but can see the great feel that comes with it.

Wasn't really looking for advice when I posted the last time, just wanted to update you guys that's all.

 

[heliumclinton]

Idk man I think you should have a balance in your life. You can't have 10 male friends and only female friend is your lady. Then when y'all break up no longer friends so she wasn't really your friend to begin with Maybe it's different because most of my female friendships were formed when I was like 10 years old they're practically my sisters, #nonewfriends

 

[joepac12]

Matching tats. No thanks bruh

 

[slicknick951]

he is going to learn

Im taking his post as asking for advice and the best advice for you right now is to remain friendly but also spend time with your male friends. Dont become too attached to them because liek i said when they get in a serious relationship its over for you. Ive seen dudes feel some type of way because they friend got with a girl and stopped hanging out with them imagine how u gonna feel when the girl u got a matching tat with never talks to you again cause her man is jealous

 

[ofreshone]

Well my homegirl usually has her targets or whatever meet me. And 100% time, me and the dude ends up being cool. Idk how they feel, but our friendship has yet to change. Homegirl is def a rider and stays fighting for me.

 

[ecruteakcityboy]

brought a girl that i've been talking to my friends house last night
we got trashed
woke up this morning
caught them ******g

idk what to do.

my friend keeps denying it

which he could possible be true because they were at a weird angle

i left

asked a girl if she could help me get over this.

we're getting a hotel tomorrow

 

[ofreshone]

And check, me and homegirl been friends since 9th grade. And like I said, she more of my manz than half of my boys. Whole time, had to hide her and all my homegirls when I was with my ex but they still around. She been shown her colors so getting a Tatt with her ain't no problem. And to add wood to the fire, the Tatt is small and behind the ear.


At the end of the day bros, just know I said I was a lost cause when I first posted in this thread.

 

[youngdoc]

So I met this chick at a bar through mutual friends a few weeks ago and we clicked but we haven't kicked it yet

Last night I'm out with my roommate and this other chick and I run into her. She gives me a hug but sees the other girl and makes a face and bounces.

I'm thinking about just hitting her up next week or later and just don't bring it up

 

[Mark Antony]

And check, me and homegirl been friends since 9th grade. And like I said, she more of my manz than half of my boys. Whole time, had to hide her and all my homegirls when I was with my ex but they still around. She been shown her colors so getting a Tatt with her ain't no problem. And to add wood to the fire, the Tatt is small and behind the ear.


At the end of the day bros, just know I said I was a lost cause when I first posted in this thread.

Damn, that's kinda one of those female locations bruh.

brought a girl that i've been talking to my friends house last night
we got trashed
woke up this morning
caught them ******g

idk what to do.

my friend keeps denying it

which he could possible be true because they were at a weird angle

i left

asked a girl if she could help me get over this.

we're getting a hotel tomorrow

Cold world.

 

[niquefreak94]

And check, me and homegirl been friends since 9th grade. And like I said, she more of my manz than half of my boys. Whole time, had to hide her and all my homegirls when I was with my ex but they still around. She been shown her colors so getting a Tatt with her ain't no problem. And to add wood to the fire, the Tatt is small and behind the ear.


At the end of the day bros, just know I said I was a lost cause when I first posted in this thread.

i know your type

Spoiler: Warning: Spoiler!

no offense though

 

[ofreshone]

Damn, that's kinda one of those female locations bruh.

Lol I know *kanye shrug*. I did say to add wood to the fire.