TAY: thread about yambs...

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its her profession and one of the oldest professions in history.

not much different than any actor or actress if you consider kissing cheating in general..

and like don said let them be. no one has the right to judge them.
trust there are other females out here who have done a lot more for a lot less.

don't judge anyone though.

imo they're just like swingers. but if they're happy with eachother then that's all that matters
 
First thing try to lose the negative feelings bro. Then make short term, mid term, and long term goals for yourself. All levels of goals short, mid and long should be linked to each other. Start off by identifying what your long term goals are...then take the proper steps in achieving them which area here the short and mid term comes in.

I hate quoting rap songs but here I go anyway "The bigger the goals the harder the climb, but then the bigger the muscle the stronger the mind". Basically saying as a result of going after your goals you'll be stronger. People tend to only see the results but it's the journey where the lessons are learned.
I'm not sure if I'm with my yamb for the right reasons. Well, at least the same reasons she is.
 
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What are ur reasons and what are hers?
Mine:
  • I enjoy spending time with her, she's a great companion and my best friend.
  • She makes me laugh and smile and just genuinely happy everyday.
  • The yambs obviously.
Hers:
  • Marriage.
  • Kids.
Now those aren't her only reasons obviously but this just gets brought up more and more lately and honestly those thoughts NEVER cross my mind. She keeps bringing it up and putting pressure on me and even goes so far to say who her bridesmaids, my groomsmen are gonna be, planning stuff for a wedding when I have no plans of even being engaged to her yet. We're 23 and I'm only making 42K a year. No where even close to wanting to be married. It's just tough sometimes man I don't know...

And then today it's our 2 year anniversary and I find myself looking at pictures of my ex who's in Australia thinking what could've been if I didn't have to move back to the states and she didn't live overseas. Because actually, that's someone who I brought up the subject of marriage and kids once upon a time.

Then I think even though I have a great girlfriend now and honestly am very happy and even though I don't want to discuss it or think about it yet because it's too soon, but, she is definitely wife material. Would I be cutting myself short? Am I too comfortable and content? Could I do better? Or would I end up like all my other friends alone and miserable.
 
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Don't even get worked up about it.

My thing is live and let live.

If that man is accepting of her life let him be.

Focus on your money and your yambs, perhaps any children you might have, and keep smiling knowing you didn't bring home an O to mom.
I ain't tripping off him. he can date that **** if he wants, that's on him. 

I shake my head at the bigger picture -- and that's our society being so lost and having no sense of pride/dignity/integrity 

Who in the hell with any type of positive role models in life could think their relationship is some kinda Disney Pixar ****. 

These type of people walking the street effect all of our lives -- we have to deal with these ****heads in some form or fashion every day.

And yes, it's Christy Mack. I see some of yall be on her page too lol. 
 
 
 
Don't even get worked up about it.

My thing is live and let live.

If that man is accepting of her life let him be.

Focus on your money and your yambs, perhaps any children you might have, and keep smiling knowing you didn't bring home an O to mom.
I ain't tripping off him. he can date that **** if he wants, that's on him. 

I shake my head at the bigger picture -- and that's our society being so lost and having no sense of pride/dignity/integrity 

Who in the hell with any type of positive role models in life could think their relationship is some kinda Disney Pixar ****. 

These type of people walking the street effect all of our lives -- we have to deal with these ****heads in some form or fashion every day.

And yes, it's Christy Mack. I see some of yall be on her page too lol. 
It's the new generation bruh....perhaps you should start a thread on this.. I'd be interested to the responses. coughkekojonescough
 
I ain't tripping off him. he can date that **** if he wants, that's on him. 

I shake my head at the bigger picture -- and that's our society being so lost and having no sense of pride/dignity/integrity 

Who in the hell with any type of positive role models in life could think their relationship is some kinda Disney Pixar ****. 

These type of people walking the street effect all of our lives -- we have to deal with these ****heads in some form or fashion every day.



And yes, it's Christy Mack. I see some of yall be on her page too lol. 

I actually haven't been... Her and War are nuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuts tho.
 
Now those aren't her only reasons obviously but this just gets brought up more and more lately and honestly those thoughts NEVER cross my mind. She keeps bringing it up and putting pressure on me and even goes so far to say who her bridesmaids, my groomsmen are gonna be, planning stuff for a wedding when I have no plans of even being engaged to her yet. We're 23 and I'm only making 42K a year. No where even close to wanting to be married. It's just tough sometimes man I don't know...

And then today it's our 2 year anniversary and I find myself looking at pictures of my ex who's in Australia thinking what could've been if I didn't have to move back to the states and she didn't live overseas. Because actually, that's someone who I brought up the subject of marriage and kids once upon a time.

Then I think even though I have a great girlfriend now and honestly am very happy and even though I don't want to discuss it or think about it yet because it's too soon, but, she is definitely wife material. Would I be cutting myself short? Am I too comfortable and content? Could I do better? Or would I end up like all my other friends alone and miserable.

43 a year at 23 years old is good man, there are people older making less and living just as fine/happy.


What I underlined is what gets us all. Life is a game of black jack. You can have stay and possibly win, or gamble, take a hit and either win big, or blow it.

23-26 is a very tricky age for most women (I've had this discussion with many of them )
This is where the fantasy fairy tale is suppose to become real for them of white picket fence with a dog and 2 kids

You just have to reiterate that' you're not ready and then throw all the statistical data at her of why it's not ideal
then hit her with what she wants to hear on how you want to make this magical for her (only if you need to buy time... i dont recommend it if its not necessary)
 
 
I ain't tripping off him. he can date that **** if he wants, that's on him. 

I shake my head at the bigger picture -- and that's our society being so lost and having no sense of pride/dignity/integrity 

Who in the hell with any type of positive role models in life could think their relationship is some kinda Disney Pixar ****. 

These type of people walking the street effect all of our lives -- we have to deal with these ****heads in some form or fashion every day.

And yes, it's Christy Mack. I see some of yall be on her page too lol. 
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I actually stopped following her a while back because she kept talking about her relationship instead of posting ******* and ***.

And to each their own, but anyone with pride as you said knows they can find someone better than a porn star. Would never be able to accept that part of her life.  Gotta be a real ****ball to introduce them to your parents.
 
I'm still laughing at this. 

Son looks like he ain't got it all together upstairs tho. 

I will not front, she is a beautiful piece of woman. 
lol that quote is hilarious
I prefer her without the tats and skillrex hair personally, use to watch a Video or 10 of her.
now it's a turn off for me personally.

AWG with nice cheeks

she's cute. Full teeth can't complain lmao.
 
just wanna say this is my fav thread on NT. Ima lurker errday in here n i love it. Im 25 and married so I dont really have a lot to say plus elder and mugen are always on point with the advice. But just wanted to come n say this is def the best thread and i see yaw.

Get the yambs mane
 
So, one of my boys is seriously addicted to porn and/or masturbation. He'll watch it all day if he could. I don't think he's an ugly guy, but I think he does think he's ugly or not good enough. Folks always ask him why he doesn't have a girl, so I think others see the potential in him especially the females. Yeah, he's been rejected and played a few times and I think that took a toll on him in his younger days and affects him today (he's 28). The only time he gets a chick is if she makes the initial approach and in the chance he may have sex with a chick he can't get it up, which I told him because of the amount of porn he watches. It pretty much has corrupted his brain imo.

Is there another answer other than stop watching porn?
 
I love her tatts and beaver teeth. 

Her dude got "MACK" tatted across his neck smh. It aint the fact that he got her name, across the front of your ******g neck bro? 

And it looks like she has a tatt on her back that says "Property of War Machine" --- i know the "actors" she performs with laugh like hell when they're banging her out and see that ****. 
 
So, one of my boys is seriously addicted to porn and/or masturbation. He'll watch it all day if he could. I don't think he's an ugly guy, but I think he does think he's ugly or not good enough. Folks always ask him why he doesn't have a girl, so I think others see the potential in him especially the females. Yeah, he's been rejected and played a few times and I think that took a toll on him in his younger days and affects him today (he's 28). The only time he gets a chick is if she makes the initial approach and in the chance he may have sex with a chick he can't get it up, which I told him because of the amount of porn he watches. It pretty much has corrupted his brain imo.

Is there another answer other than stop watching porn?
This is the best post I've ever read on NT in a long time. The opening line was GOAT. LOL. 

What makes it so funny is that I can tell this dude is really your boy and you got love for him -- you really wanna help him with his problem of being a serial masturbator. 

I can't stop laughing. 
 
So, one of my boys is seriously addicted to porn and/or masturbation. He'll watch it all day if he could. I don't think he's an ugly guy, but I think he does think he's ugly or not good enough. Folks always ask him why he doesn't have a girl, so I think others see the potential in him especially the females. Yeah, he's been rejected and played a few times and I think that took a toll on him in his younger days and affects him today (he's 28). The only time he gets a chick is if she makes the initial approach and in the chance he may have sex with a chick he can't get it up, which I told him because of the amount of porn he watches. It pretty much has corrupted his brain imo.

Is there another answer other than stop watching porn?

telk him to go watch the movie Don Jon.

(being honest)
 
Heard about the Don Jon movie might have him check it out. I think his porn addiction stems from fear of rejection, approach anxiety, the safety and fantasy of porn, and boredom. Will try to work with him tho
 
And 43 a year is cool, pretty much what other people around that age are making fresh outta college. I had a full time and a part time and still made less than that at 23.
 
Ok guys I feel like I'm starting to improve on my conversation skills.
My only issue is being funny around girls..
I have a huge dry sense of humor but I feel like girls don't find that attractive..
any advice?
 
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