road to resurrection...
1 for 2... first chick was hook line and sinker. confident yambs will be had. not a cutie... but the rump was semi serious and I needed to start from somewhere.
when I missed... I missed bad.
second girlie seemed very classy. 31, no kids, very in shape, mixed.
me: I would like to exchange numbers, so we can talk some more
her: hmmmm... no thank you.
me: is there a reason why?
her: because I don't want to...
in the most sincerest and politest way possible...
it was so straight to the point in a nice way...
when I walked away, I thought DAMB... shorty was brutally honest... I could have used that for some brutally honest feedback.
should have asked "well, its clear your being honest and I respect that... so I think you'll be truthful when I ask this: when I walk away, I'm going to go holla at another cute chick I see. and you're gonna get approached... so let me know how I can improve for the next time" or along those lines.
you'd be surprised how many chicks respect that... I've done it several times, and often times, it results in us being cool or yambs being had
seems kinda lame, but its worked... and when you find a girl that turns you down but is real cool about it, take that time to get honest feedback. its made me better when dealing with women.