TAY: thread about yambs...

[gatorbeltsnpattiemelts]

"Django1911"




YA'LL GOTTA CHILL.

 

[youngdoc]

I generally have the same response rate for generic messages vs specific ones. If a female is feeling you I feel like it doesn't matter what you say in the first message as long as it's normal

 

[gatorbeltsnpattiemelts]

Its probably been 100 pages since I posted in here, but I need some advice. I've been seeing a girl since late December, and things were going good, but then she started moving way too fast. She started talking about relationships, babies, marriage, moving in, all those sorts of things and it started to scare me. So I ended up telling her I didnt want a relationship and it hit her hard, she was crying, and I cant handle tears so of course I took it back and dove right back in with her.

Since that point I've been slowly trying to ease myself away from her becuase I dont want her to get in too deep when my hearts not in it, but she doesnt seem to be getting it. My birthday was last Friday and she got me a gift, then she got me another gift for Valentines Day so I know shes expecting something, but I dont want to get her anything for the simple reason that it gives the wrong impression. I dont feel I should take the gifts shes bought me either because that gives the wrong impression also.

How can I end this in a very nice way. I've already tried putting it all on me, saying things like I'm not ready for a relationship(which I'm not) and I'm not the guy for her (which I'm not), but to no avail. Advice?

PLS RESPOND

you just gotta be honest.... man up and fight through the tears.




Psh, see how I can understand why a girl would pull away from a chick like that. But why pull away and you have a chick who is NOT like that.... My Ex got some issues, man.

 

[216301baller]

As much as I am an advocate for tellin the truth in this situation I think my best bet is being quiet n goin with the flow..Ive been messing around with this chick for two years..she's cool as hell..our whole relationship was built off sex..she had a guy first time we hooked up Smh..I usually took her to the movies n lil stuff like that..I took her out Friday now she's acting different saying I'm glad you want more than me just sex..should I be honest n tell her our relationship was built on it..so let's keep it that way or just dnt even acknowledge those comments...

 

[216301baller]

As much as I am an advocate for tellin the truth in this situation I think my best bet is being quiet n goin with the flow..Ive been messing around with this chick for two years..she's cool as hell..our whole relationship was built off sex..she had a guy first time we hooked up Smh..I usually took her to the movies n lil stuff like that..I took her out Friday now she's acting different saying I'm glad you want more than me just sex..should I be honest n tell her our relationship was built on it..so let's keep it that way or just dnt even acknowledge those comments...

 

[Rootin4EverybodyBlack]

As much as I am an advocate for tellin the truth in this situation I think my best bet is being quiet n goin with the flow..Ive been messing around with this chick for two years..she's cool as hell..our whole relationship was built off sex..she had a guy first time we hooked up Smh..I usually took her to the movies n lil stuff like that..I took her out Friday now she's acting different saying I'm glad you want more than me just sex..should I be honest n tell her our relationship was built on it..so let's keep it that way or just dnt even acknowledge those comments...

Ya dun goofed!

But seriously, your FWB situation is coming to a end man You done flipped the switch on her "feelings/emotions" and there's no way to turn those back off. Either you get in a relationship with her (which I dont recommend, considering how y'all started) or you ignore what she said and keep smashing until she stops f'in with you cuz you won't commit.

But unless she's that .1 percent of females, telling her "our relationship was just built on sex" will result in a instant loss of yambs, tears, and possibly some property damaged depending on if she's crazy or not.

Good luck tho.

 

[216301baller]

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[216301baller]

I see that now..but I believe I know where the comments stem from..in the 2 years I've only hit her twice its been strictly top..either because she was on her period or I just didn't..before October the last time I saw her was august of 2011..she flew to dc to get smashed..thats the beautiful part of the situation I live in md/dc now n she lives in Cleveland..I go to Cleveland prob three times a year..I would be mad too if I only ate the box n never smashed on a chick..which happened in hs Smh lol

 

[216301baller]

I'm tired of these multiple post

 

[ricky409]

Just got shut down.

#feelsbadman

 

[royal assassin]

Just got shut down.

#feelsbadman

on to the next!

 

[miamib30514]

Dead some chick last night due to the upcoming V-day.

Shorty was expecting gifts and weekend getaway.

Dodge.

 

[furiousstylez23]

Dead some chick last night due to the upcoming V-day.

Shorty was expecting gifts and weekend getaway.

Dodge.

How long ya'll been dating for shawty to get an idea like that? You must of been spoiling her pretty good already. 

Or you been lying to her like a dog.

 

[rell]

i need some advice here

im on pof as well & sometimes i have no idea what to message these chicks initially. most of them have in there profile "if you say hey or whats up or some cheesy pickup line or something creepy then im not gonna respond to you...i want a detailed message" I'm like wtf   

What would be a good detailed message? Im guessing she wants effort put into it but alot of these chicks have biographies on there profile & I'm stuck on what to message them. 

Man I send the same, base message to every single chick. I just tweak it to fit the info on their profile (or even lack thereof). It has about a 75% success rate at starting a convo, and a 100% success rate at getting a profile view. And if they weren't interested after reading my profile... then oh well, copy/paste and on to the next lol.

I'm usually sending the message first, I mean if I see a cute chick, i'm not gonna act like im too cool to throw her a message lol...

 

[rell]

***In all seriousness, they need to let us delete our own posts...***

 

[sohoguy]

On okc I use a simple " hey how you doing? My name is etc and you are". If I get no response oh well I ain't writing no chick a top notch message if she wants to speak she will reply.

 

[joshuatree2192]

Dead some chick last night due to the upcoming V-day.

Shorty was expecting gifts and weekend getaway.

Dodge.

 

[moe szyslak]

Just got shut down.

#feelsbadman

Forget that harlot Yambonious. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. On to the next one. There's 7 billion people on Earth. Half of them have vaginas. It's all a numbers game. Pimpin wont never die so keep doing your thug. 

 

[Mark Antony]

Just got shut down.

#feelsbadman

This is where i'm good at, I never feel bad getting shut down by a stranger/new chick. Matter fact got shut down by a chick I kinda knew, shrugged it off then kept it moving. 2 weeks later she asks me out on a date of the blue.

 

[timelessflight]

hit 2 yambs tonight


im tired

 

[cacique]

This seems like the right place to put this as opposed to making a thread about it.

Interpret this dream:

So I was taking a quick nap and I dreamt that I was with my female friend and one of her friends that I used to talk with (really wish something could have developed there).  Anyways we're just talkin about what I dont remember.  Then out of nowhere the girl I used to chop it up with, her bra falls off from under her shirt and she pulls me in and in a sultry voice asks me to put it back on her.

What do it mean!? (Prophetic hopefully...

)

 

[wisepharoah]

A mormon, blonde, hazeled eyed model from Utah just chose me today randomly while talking to her friend. She just straight up told me, "I was raised a Mormon and super strict so I've never been with a guy "like you" or many guys period for that matter and I want to know if you would be interested in dating because I think you're good looking and I like the way you think?" Translation: "Ive never been impaled by BBC and i strongly desire for you to vigorously pound my petite frame into a sweaty mess because I am curious to what it might be like." This chick is about to seriously get gangster ******. Joseph Smith himself couldn't save her from the utter **** terrorism I'm going to unleash. My attack will be unconventional and asymmetrical.

 

[mdwst9]

A mormon, blonde, hazeled eyed model from Utah just chose me today randomly while talking to her friend. She just straight up told me, "I was raised a Mormon and super strict so I've never been with a guy "like you" or many guys period for that matter and I want to know if you would be interested in dating because I think you're good looking and I like the way you think?" Translation: "Ive never been impaled by BBC and i strongly desire for you to vigorously pound my petite frame into a sweaty mess because I am curious to what it might be like." This chick is about to seriously get gangster ******. Joseph Smith himself couldn't save her from the utter **** terrorism I'm going to unleash. My attack will be unconventional and asymmetrical.

 

[ricky409]

Forget that harlot Yambonious. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. On to the next one. There's 7 billion people on Earth. Half of them have vaginas. It's all a numbers game. Pimpin wont never die so keep doing your thug. 

i know...

look at yambs as a risk free asset...

but for some reason... that thump in my chest never seems to go away when i strap up my boots and approach...

if i could get all the way over that, please believe i would have yambs for every day of the week...

This is where i'm good at, I never feel bad getting shut down by a stranger/new chick. Matter fact got shut down by a chick I kinda knew, shrugged it off then kept it moving. 2 weeks later she asks me out on a date of the blue.

i dont know famb...

it just been bothering me... ya boy havent got a new yamb in a minute... i been getting numbers left and right...

but i'm like... 0 for my last 7 in the past couple months...

plus, everybody in TAY gettin yambs but me.

 

[SneakerProSr.]

Forget that harlot Yambonious. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. On to the next one. There's 7 billion people on Earth. Half of them have vaginas. It's all a numbers game. Pimpin wont never die so keep doing your thug. 

i know...

look at yambs as a risk free asset...

but for some reason... that thump in my chest never seems to go away when i strap up my boots and approach...

if i could get all the way over that, please believe i would have yambs for every day of the week...

This is where i'm good at, I never feel bad getting shut down by a stranger/new chick. Matter fact got shut down by a chick I kinda knew, shrugged it off then kept it moving. 2 weeks later she asks me out on a date of the blue.

i dont know famb...

it just been bothering me... ya boy havent got a new yamb in a minute... i been getting numbers left and right...

but i'm like... 0 for my last 7 in the past couple months...

plus, everybody in TAY gettin yambs but me.

Thats why you need to stop ************ and make this trip to Houston. Clubs are maybe double of a regular Dallas weekend.

Find you a room to crash in and you good.