TAY: thread about yambs...

[marcushatten]

This is one of the few things about "game" that I do not believe in AT ALL. I definitely will not try this approach on a girl that I think is worth pursuing. This isn't something that works every time, mainly only works with sloots imo.

THIS

 

[antidope]

Its probably been 100 pages since I posted in here, but I need some advice. I've been seeing a girl since late December, and things were going good, but then she started moving way too fast. She started talking about relationships, babies, marriage, moving in, all those sorts of things and it started to scare me. So I ended up telling her I didnt want a relationship and it hit her hard, she was crying, and I cant handle tears so of course I took it back and dove right back in with her.

Since that point I've been slowly trying to ease myself away from her becuase I dont want her to get in too deep when my hearts not in it, but she doesnt seem to be getting it. My birthday was last Friday and she got me a gift, then she got me another gift for Valentines Day so I know shes expecting something, but I dont want to get her anything for the simple reason that it gives the wrong impression. I dont feel I should take the gifts shes bought me either because that gives the wrong impression also.

How can I end this in a very nice way. I've already tried putting it all on me, saying things like I'm not ready for a relationship(which I'm not) and I'm not the guy for her (which I'm not), but to no avail. Advice?

PLS RESPOND

Stop giving her that good D, obviously she's hooked... How many times have you smashed?

How long did it take for you to smash?

Bruh, the truth hurts if you wanna get rid of her just hurt her damn feelings and stop being a wuss.

Around 15 times, took around a month, could have happened before that, but the opportunity didnt arise until the month. Cant do it, man I'm not that guy. I know how it feels, cant do it to someone else.

Its probably been 100 pages since I posted in here, but I need some advice. I've been seeing a girl since late December, and things were going good, but then she started moving way too fast. She started talking about relationships, babies, marriage, moving in, all those sorts of things and it started to scare me. So I ended up telling her I didnt want a relationship and it hit her hard, she was crying, and I cant handle tears so of course I took it back and dove right back in with her.

Since that point I've been slowly trying to ease myself away from her becuase I dont want her to get in too deep when my hearts not in it, but she doesnt seem to be getting it. My birthday was last Friday and she got me a gift, then she got me another gift for Valentines Day so I know shes expecting something, but I dont want to get her anything for the simple reason that it gives the wrong impression. I dont feel I should take the gifts shes bought me either because that gives the wrong impression also.

How can I end this in a very nice way. I've already tried putting it all on me, saying things like I'm not ready for a relationship(which I'm not) and I'm not the guy for her (which I'm not), but to no avail. Advice?

PLS RESPOND

You can never end things like this in a nice way. If you really want to end it, cut all communications and give it some time. She'll some how get the point.

 I'd rather her do this to me, then I wont feel bad. I want her to slowly start hating me or something.

 

[unsuited]

ur still hurting her if you dont let her go........know what i mean?

......you're just stretching it out........wasting both; your time, and hers.......

if she cant hear that you do not like her........i dunno......

maybe you're not being straight forward enough.

the only time i was in your position........there was no other way about it.....if you're honest with yourself, and her.......just do it

 

[moe szyslak]

break her heart on Valentine's Day; that will send the message loud and clear

 

[antidope]

ur still hurting her if you dont let her go........know what i mean?

......you're just stretching it out........wasting both; your time, and hers.......

if she cant hear that you do not like her........i dunno......

maybe you're not being straight forward enough.

the only time i was in your position........there was no other way about it.....if you're honest with yourself, and her.......just do it

IDK if this makes sense, but its too close to other events. My birthday was just last week and she got me stuff, then she got me stuff for Valentines Day and keeps asking me about it. I feel like I have to get her something now that shes already got me something and made it clear that she wants me to be her Valentine and what not. It just seems too wrong to do it now, when shes got her heart set out on this thing.

break her heart on Valentine's Day; that will send the message loud and clear

She keeps asking me what I'm doing for it, she just asked 5 minutes ago, and I said IDK. I honestly do hate Valentines Day, it never goes my way and this year will continue the trend. I might just take her for food and ice skating so at least I can get some enjoyment out of too, instead of buying meaningless gifts.

 

[gatorbeltsnpattiemelts]

you think chicks go all the way to the gym and workout, just to shut down guys?

they go to workout bro - they might be less receptive since girls don't feel sexy while they're all tired, sweaty n without makeup but tbh - just like everywhere, if youre good looking, they'll be interested. thats probably more important at the gym since youre surrounded by dudes in good shape. if youre not good looking, your swag better be on some next level stuff.

yeeeeaaaa NO; It def be some chicks in the gym tryna catch, trust me I ALMOST DID THAT ****.... it may be a small minority. But it's def some chicks there just to catch; mostly chicks who ALREADY look good/fit

 

[Peep Game]

^PattieMelts knows

 

[lavert24]

A thread about them "yambs" lol...I'm wit it.

 

[davedaze]

Eh

 

[ricky409]

^PattieMelts knows

yeah... homey is bugging talking about girls don't go for attention

Why do you thunk they take pictures of themselves?

A results tracker that only provides intrinsic value because its for their eyes only and will get them 0 likes on instagramb?

#attentionhoorsaintgottimefadat

 

[216301baller]

Dope I'm disappointed just tell her dude...it won't kill her man lol..never lead.a chick into thinking It's goin somewhere if you dnt plan on it..establish what yall title is n then just play yall roles

 

[216301baller]

Dope I'm disappointed just tell her dude...it won't kill her man lol..never lead.a chick into thinking It's goin somewhere if you dnt plan on it..establish what yall title is n then just play yall roles...is secretly why you won't tell her is because she's your only constant source of yambs?

 

[gatorbeltsnpattiemelts]

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[gatorbeltsnpattiemelts]

yeah... homey is bugging talking about girls don't go for attention

Why do you thunk they take pictures of themselves?

A results tracker that only provides intrinsic value because its for their eyes only and will get them 0 likes on instagramb?

#attentionhoorsaintgottimefadat

yea man; my lil' work out class I go to--- we all serious. Ain't nobody up in that ***** taking pictures cuz we putting in work Chicks who are serious about training will get a personal trainer, or join a class. Otherwise you just out and about, don't know what you doing... have no concept of reps etc. You just doing a **** ton of squats



Movie date in a few FYI, finna go see what Identity Thief hit for.



And one dude on POF, I gave him my number (I give these ****** my google voice number as a preliminary trial period---much easier to block them once it don't work out, then you don't have a whole bunch of people having your number) Right, so I gave this ***** my number in the morning and he had already called me twice by the time I got off work Ok, now THAT is not being eager... that is being thirsty. If you know I'm at work, I told you I was at work, told what is a good time to call, why would you call twice before that? Homie seems way insecure and he already dug himself into a hole I doubt he'll get out of.


And to answer Ricky, man I never really was into going out... I don't like getting dressed up, putting on make up, etc. Meeting guys while I run errands isn't ideal either because I usually just dress super, extra chill. My sis told me I need to step that up but eh... the few times I have attempted to do it I didn't see any returns. I don't go to starbucks Or anything places people my age like to go and do things. I don't want to meet any guys through my circle of friends anymore because I don't want to come off as "THAT" friend. Can't be out here lovin' the crew. Online is ideal cuz it's on my terms and I can do it in my PJs while I'm on the couch

 

[JVII]

^ I see on that Google Voice. ALL the internet chicks (and one nighters) I talk to get the Voice number.

Much easier to filter broads AND disappear in the shadows.

Can't be giving out my real number like that. Though I do miss the ability to receive raunchy photos though. :\

 

[hebgbz]

Bros, I has a question. How do you go about asking your girl to shave? Should I just come right out and say it? I already gave her the "I'll go down on you if you shave" talk, but no dice (she thinks it's gross

).

hairy cat they can keep that...won't touch that thang when it's a bush down there...but when it's shaved

Man my girl keeps it waxed. Dat Feel 

 

[sfc415]

Sometimes when it's not shaved, you feel like a caveman or some @#$% smashing his woman in the wilderness idk

 

[gatorbeltsnpattiemelts]

^ I see on that Google Voice. ALL the internet chicks (and one nighters) I talk to get the Voice number.

Much easier to filter broads AND disappear in the shadows.

Can't be giving out my real number like that. Though I do miss the ability to receive raunchy photos though. :\

yea man GV on that bushoi with that--- however! Talkatone DOES allow for you to receive and send MMS (but it goes to your email)


But yea man, they are so behind the curve with this. Hurry up and allow for MMS plz My e-hand ain't as strong if I can't get in the moment photos of these jigs. I ain't gettin' catfished

 

[ricky409]

Look at approaching girls like a risk free investment ...


Finance heads know waddup.

 

[rell]

I too admittedly jumped on the POF/OKC train... but I will say I have been running into a plethora of quality chicks...
(a TON of single mothers on there though, I will say that lol)

Like YambPatty said its something mad conveinient about being able to pick up potentals from the comfort of your PJs lol
Yall gotta school me on this Google Voice game though, while my MMS has been on FIRE since I joined a few days ago, GV seems like the safe route for this stuff


But I gotta get my face-to-face game up to par, I dont take nearly enough shots... unless I have some drink in my system. Online is cool but theres no substitute for face-to-face...

 

[gatorbeltsnpattiemelts]

I too admittedly jumped on the POF/OKC train... but I will say I have been running into a plethora of quality chicks...
(a TON of single mothers on there though, I will say that lol)

Like YambPatty said its something mad conveinient about being able to pick up potentals from the comfort of your PJs lol
Yall gotta school me on this Google Voice game though, while my MMS has been on FIRE since I joined a few days ago, GV seems like the safe route for this stuff


But I gotta get my face-to-face game up to par, I dont take nearly enough shots... unless I have some drink in my system. Online is cool but theres no substitute for face-to-face...

man... honestly, those are the best ones. I don't like guys who have mirror shots or all the pics are ones they took of themselves Action shots are good.


Just make sure your face ain't blurry or far away so chicks don't get mislead. I'm still hot over dude for that Man he KNEW he was ugly!

 

[r-man jam]

man... honestly, those are the best ones. I don't like guys who have mirror shots or all the pics are ones they took of themselves

Action shots are good.


Just make sure your face ain't blurry or far away so chicks don't get mislead. I'm still hot over dude for that

Man he KNEW he was ugly!

i need some advice here

im on pof as well & sometimes i have no idea what to message these chicks initially. most of them have in there profile "if you say hey or whats up or some cheesy pickup line or something creepy then im not gonna respond to you...i want a detailed message" I'm like wtf 

 

What would be a good detailed message? Im guessing she wants effort put into it but alot of these chicks have biographies on there profile & I'm stuck on what to message them. 

 

[Rootin4EverybodyBlack]

i need some advice here

im on pof as well & sometimes i have no idea what to message these chicks initially. most of them have in there profile "if you say hey or whats up or some cheesy pickup line or something creepy then im not gonna respond to you...i want a detailed message" I'm like wtf   

What would be a good detailed message? Im guessing she wants effort put into it but alot of these chicks have biographies on there profile & I'm stuck on what to message them. 

Take 30 seconds...look thru their profile, comment on something in it that yall have in common or that's funny.

 

[25thhour]

Tbh when I was on POF I didn't send messages at all. Imo it's pointless to send messages, chicks get thousands of them daily and you really expect her to sift through and find you? I just sat back & peeped cause women will choose what they want. Hella AWG's sent me messages, a bunch of those swag chicks that think every black guy wears a snapback and dances like chris brown, and of course the thirsty fatties. Only found 1 quality yamb on there, shorty messaged me, we chatted for a bit then I gave her my number. Been going good so far, so I guess there's hope on there

Oh yea and a bunch of them just use that meet me function. Had a bunch of those too.

 

[gatorbeltsnpattiemelts]

i need some advice here

im on pof as well & sometimes i have no idea what to message these chicks initially. most of them have in there profile "if you say hey or whats up or some cheesy pickup line or something creepy then im not gonna respond to you...i want a detailed message" I'm like wtf   

What would be a good detailed message? Im guessing she wants effort put into it but alot of these chicks have biographies on there profile & I'm stuck on what to message them. 

that's me! man I look at my profile and I be like "wtf" , Too late now though, rather put too much than to little. but honestly, it doesn't have to be detailed---- open up with a compliment and just take it from there. Or open up talking about something on their profile. Guys who use "boo" or "sexy" I respond to be polite but that's generally it. Had a white dude call me "ma".... for real? Is this 2002??

Tbh when I was on POF I didn't send messages at all. Imo it's pointless to send messages, chicks get thousands of them daily and you really expect her to sift through and find you? I just sat back & peeped cause women will choose what they want. Hella AWG's sent me messages, a bunch of those swag chicks that think every black guy wears a snapback and dances like chris brown, and of course the thirsty fatties. Only found 1 quality yamb on there, shorty messaged me, we chatted for a bit then I gave her my number. Been going good so far, so I guess there's hope on there

Oh yea and a bunch of them just use that meet me function. Had a bunch of those too.

every guy says that... honestly, you don't get thousands of messages daily. Sometimes I get a lot from new people, but I think the most was in the beginning when I first joined--- and that was 3-5. I don't use the "meet me" thing anymore. If I see a guy I dig I just view his profile... cuz they can see that. If he's feeling then he'll view me back. But these days I don't even do that, I just screen who ever messages and views me. My google voice inbox is poppin' and I need it to slow down; so I gotta weed out some prospects I already have.



Ricky whatever happened to ol' girl!!! We still ain't got no updates....