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[COLOR=#red]When the deep dark and damp tunnels in life become too much to handle, there's always a buddy around to help you through it. TB4LYFE!!![/COLOR]
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[COLOR=#red]When the deep dark and damp tunnels in life become too much to handle, there's always a buddy around to help you through it. TB4LYFE!!![/COLOR]
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simply put you talk to much, Try to be aggressive next time and it's clear what she came over for and not a tour of your house either
It was a quick tour of the house ending with my room, took literally 60 seconds. I assumed we'd be kicking it in there, but her quick departure caught me off guard. I assumed if she was bout it then she woulda stayed in the room, no?
She took notice of the stuff in my room, I kinda just told her about it. I have about 10 pairs lined up against my wall, so its pretty difficult for anyone to miss.
I'll just chalk this one up to an L if she doesn't respond. Other than that, not gonna ponder too much on her, she's missing out.
Just gotta learn from the mistakes, and its on to the next one.
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soleking
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any advice on how to get the yambs without a whip (im 1
need help in high school it was acceptable now im in college i dont know what to do.
need help in high school it was acceptable now im in college i dont know what to do.
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Not too late to join No Fab Feb
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soufside
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U gotta be that one guy who dresses different and is wild.... **** will come to you if u dress with them tight pants and scarfs... Lol
any advice on how to get the yambs without a whip (im 1
soleking
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go head with that ****
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any advice on how to get the yambs without a whip (im 1
what year and are you going to college in an urban setting? Like NY, DC, etc. If the public transit is cool/acceptable man don't sweat it. Stick to freshmen chicks, most of us didn't have cars at the time either so we weren't too uppity when it came to guys who didn't have cars. Work on your mouth piece, stick to dates that are possibly walking distance.
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Gatorbelts- you back on the market?!?! can I get the scoop
whips are overrated in the grand scheme of life, seriously if you in a major metropolis, utilize public transport for as long as possible.. Hell, I've always had a car, but rode my bike to school everyday and would have rode it to work too, but that was 30 mins out of the way.
After I graduate, I refuse to relocate to a city that doesn't have great public transit. I can do without a car, car note, and insurance for a couple more years.
whips are overrated in the grand scheme of life, seriously if you in a major metropolis, utilize public transport for as long as possible.. Hell, I've always had a car, but rode my bike to school everyday and would have rode it to work too, but that was 30 mins out of the way.
After I graduate, I refuse to relocate to a city that doesn't have great public transit. I can do without a car, car note, and insurance for a couple more years.
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man... if somebody ain't willing to invest in the relationship ain't no use in it. We had a long talk about it and he's got a lot of personal issues he needs to work out before he gets into relationships. Creates anxiety and pressure about moving the relationship and moving it the next level but it's like geez we was only together 6 months, why create problems when there's nothing there?? He just kinda changed from the fun happy guy I knew in the beginning. It's Impossible to hate him tho. I left my phone at his place last night and he drove it back to my house.... which is about an hour away.... and he's been having truck problems. Really great guy honestly but he just ain't ready. Plus he wasn't into me like that, but I think he was just being nice and wanted to see if he could go along with it.
Felt bad yesterday and this morning, today I'm feeling a lil' better. Finna see what these dating websites is hittin' 'fo
This **** kinda fun/funny
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Whoa, I seriously didn't think you were appreciative of US good guys from your earlier posts in the thread..
(you would've had to come and get your phone, tho)
let my man sort himself out..
let my man sort himself out..
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Got sum guts last nite only because i wanted it and she is cling on a ***** wanting to be my girl and all (feelsbadman)
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Whoa, I seriously didn't think you were appreciative of US good guys from your earlier posts in the thread..
(you would've had to come and get your phone, tho)
let my man sort himself out..
what earlier posts? I always believe everyone deserves a fair shot if you're a good person, pretty sure (or I tried) for that to come through in my posts
of course I would've had to come get my own phone
He ain't like most.
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Must be breakup season. Just broke it off with my girl of two years. Feels really bad man. Regretting the decision already.
furiousstylez23
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Anybody in SC wanna run a train on some freaks 2nite?
hmu.
$200 at the door
hmu.
$200 at the door
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man... if somebody ain't willing to invest in the relationship ain't no use in it. We had a long talk about it and he's got a lot of personal issues he needs to work out before he gets into relationships. Creates anxiety and pressure about moving the relationship and moving it the next level but it's like geez we was only together 6 months, why create problems when there's nothing there?? He just kinda changed from the fun happy guy I knew in the beginning. It's Impossible to hate him tho. I left my phone at his place last night and he drove it back to my house.... which is about an hour away.... and he's been having truck problems. Really great guy honestly but he just ain't ready. Plus he wasn't into me like that, but I think he was just being nice and wanted to see if he could go along with it.
Felt bad yesterday and this morning, today I'm feeling a lil' better. Finna see what these dating websites is hittin' 'fo
Trust, it's gon hit him, and hit him hard. He prolly has that mindset where he's not mature enough or clear minded enough for a relationship, not completely against it, but it would have to find him instead of him seeking it. What he doesn't realize yet is it just did.
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V-day is coming up....breakup season/ end the end of cuffing season lol
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Was bored so decide to burn some time on pof got 2 chicks number and one of them I'm supposed to go out to lunch with one on Thursday.
Chick A is light skin 5 foot 8 just moved from Ohio. She offered me her number without asking. We were messaging back and forth. Then she was like I'm about too call it a night, Take in mind this was around 8pm But here is my number you should put it to use. I messages her a few minutes later and I said good night and I look to forward to speaking to you soon. She responded good night Hun I will save your number.
Chick B is 5 foot 2 dark skinned who i had to coerce in too getting her number. we set up a date first through messaging then I said we should exchange numbers to confirm. Then she gave me her number, so I texted her to confirm the date and say hi. she responded and was like i will call in a few Hun.
Already got a girl I'm beginning to get serious with her but want a sidepiece for now. Which girl do you'll think would be easier to get them yams from. Keep in mind girl A is probably a solid 8 who has ddudes hitting on her a lot, meanwhile girl B is a 6 at best. So she probably gets overlooked
Chick A is light skin 5 foot 8 just moved from Ohio. She offered me her number without asking. We were messaging back and forth. Then she was like I'm about too call it a night, Take in mind this was around 8pm But here is my number you should put it to use. I messages her a few minutes later and I said good night and I look to forward to speaking to you soon. She responded good night Hun I will save your number.
Chick B is 5 foot 2 dark skinned who i had to coerce in too getting her number. we set up a date first through messaging then I said we should exchange numbers to confirm. Then she gave me her number, so I texted her to confirm the date and say hi. she responded and was like i will call in a few Hun.
Already got a girl I'm beginning to get serious with her but want a sidepiece for now. Which girl do you'll think would be easier to get them yams from. Keep in mind girl A is probably a solid 8 who has ddudes hitting on her a lot, meanwhile girl B is a 6 at best. So she probably gets overlooked
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Trust, it's gon hit him, and hit him hard. He prolly has that mindset where he's not mature enough or clear minded enough for a relationship, not completely against it, but it would have to find him instead of him seeking it. What he doesn't realize yet is it just did.
I doubt it, prior to me he's had at least 4 serious girlfriends, one I knew he lived with. He said two he broke off with because it wasn't "perfect". He was raised in a church where people didn't date really. Like, you went off to college, came back and you courted for a few months and then you got married. From the outside looking in, and especially as a child, I'm sure that kinda alters your ideas and expectations of how relationships are supposed to go. You would think it's perfect and instant, and if you don't feel it instantly then something is wrong.
His idea of a long term relationship is 8+ months. If it was gonna hit him it would've hit him with one of those past GFs I'm assuming. When i was getting dressed ready to walk out the door he made zero attempts to try and stop me. He just stood/sat there. Weekends are going to go back to being boring and lonely, rah rah rah and blah blah blah.
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maaaaan I'm apprehensive about POF. From a male perspective, guys really only go on there looking to find ppl to smash, right? I mean, they not on there tryna find a real connection.... say vs. match or eharmony.
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Trust, it's gon hit him, and hit him hard. He prolly has that mindset where he's not mature enough or clear minded enough for a relationship, not completely against it, but it would have to find him instead of him seeking it. What he doesn't realize yet is it just did.
I doubt it, prior to me he's had at least 4 serious girlfriends, one I knew he lived with. He said two he broke off with because it wasn't "perfect". He was raised in a church where people didn't date really. Like, you went off to college, came back and you courted for a few months and then you got married. From the outside looking in, and especially as a child, I'm sure that kinda alters your ideas and expectations of how relationships are supposed to go. You would think it's perfect and instant, and if you don't feel it instantly then something is wrong.
His idea of a long term relationship is 8+ months. If it was gonna hit him it would've hit him with one of those past GFs I'm assuming. When i was getting dressed ready to walk out the door he made zero attempts to try and stop me. He just stood/sat there. Weekends are going to go back to being boring and lonely, rah rah rah and blah blah blah.
Damn that's a waste of both ya'lls (and his ex's) time.
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just glad we got it out the way 6 months in, as opposed to a year or years.
rocky437
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I just took a huge L. Went on a second date with this girl and it turned out awkward as hell. smashed on the first date, we established it was gonna be nothing serious. this date I figured I would tell her my real age and who I actually am. bad move. Soon after I froze up, mad awkward silences all the time I didn't know what to say to her a bunch of times, I had the worst date ever. I just texted her an hour ago since I got home and shes not answering. She's real pretty too. I dunno what to do now, I don't wanna lose her, I think ill hit her up in a couple days see if she wants to talk.
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Why'd you come clean about your secret identity if nothing serious was going to develop?? And you hit it on the first date?? You hustling backwards bruuuh. Wait for her to talk to you. If she never does, take the L.
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