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[mugen81]

How important is sex in your relationships?

Gf works a lot I work also. Little time we spend together she wants to sleep. My bday is today . I had her take the weekend off.
I had sex once yesterday before going out and that's it. 2 time in the past 2 weeks. I'm getting fed up.

Like I said before, you have to inject some type of romance into your life in order to have more sexual pleasure from your female counter part. Yeah the sex maybe in an abundance for 6months to a Year but eventually people start "working" more and other things we deem important(which are really trivial in the end) take over our lives(excluding guys with kids)...
You have to still show your girl you see her more then just a walking "vagina"..
Sometimes you still have to "warm" her up. Do the little things, write romantic texts, send her a surprise gift to her job to make the other false jealous, be more spontaneous and not just have intercourse in bed, learn tantric(it will open your eyes my dudes)...
A woman works on a different wavelength when it comes to sex, the little things you do always equals to more sex...

 

[championboyz7]

How important is sex in your relationships?

Gf works a lot I work also. Little time we spend together she wants to sleep. My bday is today . I had her take the weekend off.
I had sex once yesterday before going out and that's it. 2 time in the past 2 weeks. I'm getting fed up.

Like I said before, you have to inject some type of romance into your life in order to have more sexual pleasure from your female counter part. Yeah the sex maybe in an abundance for 6months to a Year but eventually people start "working" more and other things we deem important(which are really trivial in the end) take over our lives(excluding guys with kids)...
You have to still show your girl you see her more then just a walking "vagina"..
Sometimes you still have to "warm" her up. Do the little things, write romantic texts, send her a surprise gift to her job to make the other false jealous, be more spontaneous and not just have intercourse in bed, learn tantric(it will open your eyes my dudes)...
A woman works on a different wavelength when it comes to sex, the little things you do always equals to more sex...

Been there done that.i do all that and more.
Had her back from the jump romantic dorky stuff.
She's like tired from working 2 jobs and I understand. But at the same time. Dog. It's MY birthday. I shouldn't have to jump through hoops and ****. For some sex. Let's be real. Even her aunt asked her and she said not much I've been tired and she looked at her with the wtf face.
Everybody knows even she knows and she apologizes but that can only last for so long till I start looking for it elsewhere.

 

[Mark Antony]

2 jobs is tough on your body and libido. Any plans on getting rid of one anytime soon?

 

[daddyrabbit251]

I pulled the girl from NC aside and told her that I'm not gonna cuff. Told her that I work two gigs and I'm doing school and that I wanted her to enjoy college, network, and continue to build relationships outside of me. She agree when I initially told her but u know how women are especially since i had gave her that eggplant two times b4 the talk (one of which she str8 took it from on some rape stuff ). But my homie is tryna talk to one her homies and she basically told him what I told her and how it's better to not be cuffing in college


She sent me a video of her mom blowing kisses to me when she touched down for spring break. Said her mom was thirsting over me low key

 

[awwsome]

Hold up bruh, you're girl wasn't tryna give you box on your birthday?

That's unacceptable

There's greener pastures cause that's crazy.

I like to smash all the time when I'm in a relationship idk how you couldn't when you really feel the female you're with.

Plus sex gets better the more you have it with one person, you have a better feel for each other. Some of the best sex I had is with girls I've been with multiple times instead of just a couple

 

[championboyz7]

2 jobs is tough on your body and libido. Any plans on getting rid of one anytime soon?

She owe 3k on her car. so hopefully by June she's done with that and she can get less hours in the 2nd job. This is what I understand and which why I've been cool about it but it really frustrates me.

 

[daddyrabbit251]

She owe 3k on her car. so hopefully by June she's done with that and she can get less hours in the 2nd job. This is what I understand and which why I've been cool about it but it really frustrates me.

If u love her and she's a good woman... deal with you'll be happier in the long run.


Other than that.... Getcha something on the side to dabble in

 

[championboyz7]

She owe 3k on her car. so hopefully by June she's done with that and she can get less hours in the 2nd job. This is what I understand and which why I've been cool about it but it really frustrates me.

If u love her and she's a good woman... deal with you'll be happier in the long run.


Other than that.... Getcha something on the side to dabble in

I guess fam. Thanks fambs.

 

[Mark Antony]

Atleast there's an endgame y'know? Just figure out how to express your frustration so she doesn't turn it on you and spazz out that she's tired and you don't understand.

 

[ballinsam23]

Pretty much. If you see a long term future with her you're gonna have to sacrifice. Some head here and there still should be had though.

 

[daddyrabbit251]

Also if u see yourself being with her in the long run don't eem trip off the yambs right now... If she working two jobs just do little simple things to make her feel good and help her thru her grind.

She'll make up it to u if u put the time in pimp

 

[mugen81]

Delete statement...
Going to keep my jewel of advice for once...
As you were...

 

[yeezusdisciple]

Question dis chick used to talk to me all the time. Like all day. Now she talks to me only a couple times a day. We went out a couple times too.
So what do u think changed?

 

[certifiedflyboi23]

Question dis chick used to talk to me all the time. Like all day. Now she talks to me only a couple times a day. We went out a couple times too.
So what do u think changed?

Her interest in you. Go ghost on her for awhile.

 

[timelessflight]

Question dis chick used to talk to me all the time. Like all day. Now she talks to me only a couple times a day. We went out a couple times too.
So what do u think changed?

She got a new man in her life.

lol you tripping because she's hitting you up only a couple times a day? well damn do you want her to hit you up every minute of the day? People have lives too, let her do her thang and you do your own thang. Don't sweat it man.

 

[Retto]

yeezusdisciple

How long have y'all known each other/been talking?

But, personally, I think it's a case of her entertaining someone else and/or her feeling like she has you all figured out. You may have been making yourself too available for her based on how much it sounds like y'all talked at one point, && she now feels like she needs a new challenge, so to speak. Wants to eat her cake && have it too...like Certified && Timeless said...don't trip...disappear for awhile...she'll end up hitting you up again before long.

 

[yeezusdisciple]

Question dis chick used to talk to me all the time. Like all day. Now she talks to me only a couple times a day. We went out a couple times too.
So what do u think changed?

Her interest in you. Go ghost on her for awhile.

good idea

Question dis chick used to talk to me all the time. Like all day. Now she talks to me only a couple times a day. We went out a couple times too.
So what do u think changed?

She got a new man in her life.

lol you tripping because she's hitting you up only a couple times a day? well damn do you want her to hit you up every minute of the day? People have lives too, let her do her thang and you do your own thang. Don't sweat it man.

i was just wondering why the change

Retto good advice think ill do that and see what happens

 

[ballinsam23]

I think you liked the attention she gave you, made you feel wanted. Nothing wrong with that, but yes she definitely has someone else there now that gives her the same attention she gave you.

 

[tdogg2k]

Thanks for the advice fellas
rep to all I can today i'll get the rest tomorrow.

as far as sex goes in a relationshiop, my old head told his old lady this.
"I will never cheat on you, I will treat you like the queen you are to me, but all I am a man, I have needs and I get horny. I like sex and when I want it I expect it. I love you with all my heart but thats the one thiong i require from you"

She seemed to understand. that. especially since she knew his ways back in the day. They have been haing sex almost everyday for the past 20 years.

Intimacy is an important part of a relationship but at the same time you gotta understanding stress is kicking in for her so she legit not in the mood
give it some time first

 

[ddh1122]

I choked. 

 

[suberzat1]

 
I choked. 

How?

 

[ddh1122]

 
How?

I tried to set something up with her yesterday but she said she couldn't. She hit me back like 30 minutes later and set a date to reschedule so I'm getting there.

But today I just choked when I saw her. (not choked completely) I just get in these moods sometimes where I don't feel like talking to anybody at all, no matter who it is. No words at all.

Spoiler: Warning: Spoiler!

You probably don't understand. It's hard to explain lol

 She was walking outside with me today and I didn't really say anything to her - that was my chance. 

 

[suberzat1]

Na son I understand I have some of those days myself. Females sending all types of signals and just look at them with move I need to get to class.

But you still have a chance with her dude if she likes you. Never know, you may see her later on today and just tell her you was spaced out or something because of the long Spring break.

 

[ddh1122]

 
Na son I understand I have some of those days myself. Females sending all types of signals and just look at them with move I need to get to class.

But you still have a chance with her dude if she likes you. Never know, you may see her later on today and just tell her you was spaced out or something because of the long Spring break.

I'll just try and re-coup on Wednesday. I gotta ask her when the re-schedule date is for going out anyways so I'll just base some convo around that and get back in the game. Should've just forced the convo out though instead of being like I was lol

 

[suberzat1]

 
I'll just try and re-coup on Wednesday. I gotta ask her when the re-schedule date is for going out anyways so I'll just base some convo around that and get back in the game. Should've just forced the convo out though instead of being like I was lol

Cool beans bro dont sweat the L just go in for the kill next time to put her on the team.