TAY: IT'S A MAN THING GINA

[mugen81]

Asian shorty from history class is lowkey warming up to a G....I hit her up last night & she saying she's all stressed and she could cry, she's arguing with her guy & I'm like "interesting ...." Not really into home wrecking but it opens an interesting opportunity. She started going "I would call you but I don't think you wanna hear me crying" & in my head, I'm like "you're right to think that." But I say it's cool, I just call her anyway. "I'm in the shower, I'll call you back" ok then.

Then she gets caught up in school work & never gets around to calling me back, today's a new day. Sends me a good morning text, we chop it up a little bit & as of my last text I asked what she was doing tonight.

What does TAY think? Am I wasting my time? Lol

Let that be brethren....
Even if she is feeling you and wants you to be her "*****"( word to the late Tupac), this screams " I need attention from somebody to make me whole"...
One minute she will be "hot" to your advances and the next she will be "cold"because her man will start doing better by her again..
Women crave attention to the extent that they will ruin a happy home over the most minuscule problem that could have been avoided with communication and life experience on their end...
Even if she becomes your "jump", always remember " the same way you met her, will be the same way you lose her", also understand she could have a plethora of other dudes playing the "knight in shining armor" role for her without even letting them smell the draws...
When you know it's truly clear, I say proceed, because in the long run it will save you the headache and drama this "young" woman might potentially pull you into...
Yeah I know NT take on "karma" but I can attest from experience, the bad ****, dirt and energy you put out ALWAYS finds its way home...
ALWAYS...

 

[lovehateself]

What r good date ideas?

people wrap them w/bacon...i dont like them though

srs though

depends on the person.

active - go for a hike, walk her/your dog

intellectual - museum/ gallery

outgoing -concert/festival / bar or lounge

chill - lunch/dinner

 

[fontaine]

so youre telling me youve never got a text from someone saying " meant for someone else" 
it happens 

while i do agree with you. sometimes you do have to leave them hanging 
this dude needed to say something like that to pull some type of reaction to see where they stood

they ended making up so im sure that text lead to some type of conversation and now they have a bettter understanding

i'm sorry famb... but no...

if you have to coax and trick a chick into engaging in conversation with you, then you dont need to be reaching for her conversation.

she sent him a text. he CLEARLY knew she was about those games.

not trying to be on no alpha male stuff... but you have to nip stuff like that in the bud. you have to be able to slow the games down because games = very blurred lines.

and if there's a response needed, then just come out and say what's good.

"ay. not sure if you trying to play games or not. but i'm tired of arguing. waddup"

or

"look sweetheart. you aint gotta play games. i want to talk and you want to talk. so lets talk"

or

"seriously? smh"...

but to send a "tester" text to see after she sent a "tester" text... that's high schoolish to me.

less words are always more powerful. but if you feel compelled to respond and you CLEARLY know its a game... call it out..

that FIRST INSTINCTUAL thought is pretty much accurate... and when you get that gut feeling that she's thinking about you and finding a way in... make it easier on both parties.

 

[Kaleo15]

Damn bruh... I wish I could neg!


You just set the man up for failure.

One thing I've learned about "yambz"... they know EXACTLY who they're texting.


No such thing as "Oops... I meant to text the other Tyrone"

so youre telling me youve never got a text from someone saying " meant for someone else" 
it happens 

Ofcourse it happened to me. Which falls back into my statement.

Girls know exactly who they're texting.

 

[ddh1122]

Random: Just saw a beautiful lady at work. Was putting my food in the fridge and walked around the corner and we made eye contact. All I said was "Hi". Should've said "forget that I'm on the clock" and attempted to say more than "Hi". She looked like an older lady (over 25) but that's the type you only see one time were I'm at.

 

[lovehateself]

i'm sorry famb... but no...

if you have to coax and trick a chick into engaging in conversation with you, then you dont need to be reaching for her conversation.

she sent him a text. he CLEARLY knew she was about those games.

not trying to be on no alpha male stuff... but you have to nip stuff like that in the bud. you have to be able to slow the games down because games = very blurred lines.

and if there's a response needed, then just come out and say what's good.

"ay. not sure if you trying to play games or not. but i'm tired of arguing. waddup"

or

"look sweetheart. you aint gotta play games. i want to talk and you want to talk. so lets talk"

or

"seriously? smh"...

but to send a "tester" text to see after she sent a "tester" text... that's high schoolish to me.

less words are always more powerful. but if you feel compelled to respond and you CLEARLY know its a game... call it out..

that FIRST INSTINCTUAL thought is pretty much accurate... and when you get that gut feeling that she's thinking about you and finding a way in... make it easier on both parties.

but he is "tyrone" though

aint no blurred lines

but i get where youre coming from

 

[surgev1]

You gotta quit it with the passive aggressiveness and launch a full on assault IMO. It's now or never for them buns my dude

Hell yeah, I feel it now more than ever. It's funny that Fontaine made that comment about a no-response because after she replied, I said **** it & went "well after class, swing by so we can kick it." No beating around the bush, all cards on the table my g....

......no reply yet. Definitely having a Knicks season with Yambs so far

 

[surgev1]

Let that be brethren....
Even if she is feeling you and wants you to be her "*****"( word to the late Tupac), this screams " I need attention from somebody to make me whole"...
One minute she will be "hot" to your advances and the next she will be "cold"because her man will start doing better by her again..
Women crave attention to the extent that they will ruin a happy home over the most minuscule problem that could have been avoided with communication and life experience on their end...
Even if she becomes your "jump", always remember " the same way you met her, will be the same way you lose her", also understand she could have a plethora of other dudes playing the "knight in shining armor" role for her without even letting them smell the draws...
When you know it's truly clear, I say proceed, because in the long run it will save you the headache and drama this "young" woman might potentially pull you into...
Yeah I know NT take on "karma" but I can attest from experience, the bad ****, dirt and energy you put out ALWAYS finds its way home...
ALWAYS...

Repped & noted, OG. If she flakes by not replying to this, then it's a wrap.

 

[curbsideprophet]

Question:

I've been a relationship dude for the past few years so the random couple dates then smashing is relatively rusty for me at this point ( though i'm only 22)

My only issue is that I hate breaking it off with a chick you've hit a few times or more...

How do you guys communicate properly that you're just ready to keep it moving, no hard feelings? Straight forward approach or the neglect until they never hit you back up? Lie and say i'm moving or my doctor won't permit me to have sex for 3 months routine? 

 

 

[htownshoefiend]

^ Tell her straight up how you feel or stop talking to her and she will eventually get the message.

But if it were me I'd just tell her I'm looking for a relationship and not just yambs so it wouldn't work out anymore

Easy enough

 

[アミーゴ]

Just be honest man. Tell her ur not looking for anything serious right now... Pretty simple.

 

[301216baller]

fontaine your second response is basically what I said when we resolved it

 

[tmso]

Hell yeah, I feel it now more than ever. It's funny that Fontaine made that comment about a no-response because after she replied, I said **** it & went "well after class, swing by so we can kick it." No beating around the bush, all cards on the table my g....

......no reply yet. Definitely having a Knicks season with Yambs so far

Referring back to what @Fontaine said, no response is the only way sometimes. Women sometimes use this technology as a handicap to see who they can't entangle in their web. When it comes to shorties with dudes, I definitely don't respond to drama that doesn't concern me via text. In fact, let her have an iPhone, she is going to see that I aint have nothing for her concerning that. Brush that off and ask like you never saw it and be normal in person in those situations. If she asks why you didn't respond then you're doing it right.

I usually hit them with a, "I don't think I could have offered any real comfort or insight via text, but check this out, later we should hang and order (whatever food YOU like). That sound like a plan?" or something along those lines. I always bring through the Pinot Noir because you really cant go wrong with that. (I'm part Japanese so you can't be sliding through without bearing the gifts). Shorty been put the ball in your court Surge, sometimes you gotta force her hand and get a concrete answer.

Just know what ifs only lead the flapping.

 

[awwsome]

A lot of y'all have to be more blunt with women, there's no point in beating around the bush, ever.

This is all a numbers game, quicker you make your intentions known, quicker you either reach fruition or know to move on.

That passive aggressive **** is purgatory

 

[surgev1]

Repped again, definitely listening to what yall are saying. I rather make my intentions known & get curved than to be in this "will we or won't we" stage. TMSO, I like that Japanese culture flow w/ bringing gifts, I could adopt something like that. It's funny that you say she's put the ball in my court, I actually feel like she's been weaving through my attempts

 

[awwsome]

I got two Japanese women right now (1 half 1 full)

I must be ******* up, I ain't even know about that gift culture

That submissiveness though

 

[tego calderon el abayarde]

Have em do some 2 girls 1 cup type stunt, film for nt, release and profit.

 

[tdogg2k]

Ya, girls don't like effort. Esp. guys that make over the top effort. It shows neediness and desperation to them. .

you should always put in effort if you want quality. girls love effort. I dont think that was the right word.
its unwanted persistence they hate
showing a girl you care is top notch. its the side joints you give no dambs about. they eat that up. but girls you want and that want you , you dont play no games with that ill hold off from messing with you

 

[301216baller]

Welp me n ol girl fell out again lol..were just not compatible...were both aggressive **** talking people..but not talking about y'all but I need to stop taking advice on females from the people I do

I don't get it I kinda hate this chick yet Ive never been so attracted to someone in a minute...she got me I'm not even gonna front but it is what it is

 

[bendover]

^maybe the sex?

 

[Kaleo15]

Welp me n ol girl fell out again lol..were just not compatible...were both aggressive **** talking people..but not talking about y'all but I need to stop taking advice on females from the people I do

I don't get it I kinda hate this chick yet Ive never been so attracted to someone in a minute...she got me I'm not even gonna front but it is what it is

PIcs?

 

[301216baller]

^maybe the sex?

Naw it's not the sex..she knows how to make you feel good. But she's crazy as hell

 

[ddh1122]

Anybody got any experience with Brazil girls (and girls here from other countries in general) and how they act, flirt, show signs, etc? Noticed foreign people are touchy sometimes and real nice and it's hard for me to differentiate between flirting and just being cordial/friendly

 

[checks mcgee]

I got two Japanese women right now (1 half 1 full)

I must be ******* up, I ain't even know about that gift culture

That submissiveness though

My *****.



I got a Japanese chick and it is some of the best yambs I've ever had.

From the tightness to the loud screams to her knowing how to get off 10+ times within a sesh.


They just get it.

 

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