TAY: IT'S A MAN THING GINA

[mgrand15]

Yeah, her letting a guy take your seat while your gone is a little OD. Basically she's down to flirt and let someone blatantly hit on her unless you intervene? Pretty disrespectful that she'd do it RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU unless you physically stop the guy from doing so.

Hate that mentality from women. We're both adults. If you don't want to flirt with some dude right in front of me, you can easily brush him off or tell him your BF is right there. I shouldn't need to intervene unless someone is crossing a line or being disrespectful. She seems childish and attention seeking. I would've not responded to that last text from her.

 

[diego]

You can't really control the comments that another dude makes as he passes by your girl. Especially a drunk dude.

I do agree with other people in the sense that she shouldn't have even allowed herself to be in a position where a dude feels comfortable enough to take the seat next to her let alone buy her a drink.

I don't know where you're from but I can't imagine dudes being THAT ballsy if your girl let's the guy know she's
A) not interested
B) with someone

You might have one or two dudes with that much testicular fortitude but your posts implies it's happened more than once or twice.

 

[hennessy]

It has never happened with my current girl but I said it has happened in the past with my exes. In a jersey shore club. Go figure. This meat head actually had the audacity to tell me once that I wasn't really my gf's bf This was because we went out for my exes birthday and it was me, her, and three of her girl friends. This place had a line ONLY for guys to pay and it was like a half hour deep. Girls could get in free. My girl got the bouncers to let me in with them because I had 4 girls with me, said it was her birthday and I was her boyfriend. All the dudes saw me cut the line and one guy came up to me later, upset, and was like, "that's not your gf, I saw you cut the line and pretend." I was just

The messed up part though. Was that most of the females would ditch their man and make him wait in that line while they start partying in the club. My girl and her friends refused to leave me

 

[Betonblck]

It has never happened with my current girl but I said it has happened in the past with my exes. In a jersey shore club. Go figure. This meat head actually had the audacity to tell me once that I wasn't my gf's bf

Jersey meatheads are a whole different ballgame compared to the typical drunk dudes at clubs everywhere else.

 

[lamekilla]

^^ interesting you brought this up.

I've got 2 stories that happened last week pertaining to this. The first started earlier last Monday. My "FWB" and I put that in quotes because I don't know if she's just a friend anymore *sigh* anyway my girl I might as well say and I were chilling at her apartment. I roll up some green and for me this is my last time smoking for a while so I thought it'd be cool to enjoy one last session with her. She stays on the third floor but doesn't have a balcony and doesn't like smoking in her apartment so we step outside her apartment to smoke. As usual though, her neighbor who looks like bruh man heard us outside the apartment and comes out his apartment and asks to hit some. I'm chilled with sharing and met him a couple times so I don't mind. We're all chilling and vibing then the neighbors friend comes out the apartment and is like "man that thing smells loud, lemme hit that" I'm like yeah bro come join us. He gets the bud then looks at my girl. I'm just standing their with the high face and he walks over to her and he's like what's up girl you look nice in a smooth voice. My girl frowns up her face and says "thank you". He then tries to whisper in her ear and she pushes him back and points to me. Now mind you I'm watching all of this with the high face and the neighbor that looks like bruh man starts cracking up. Homeboy asks me "is this your girl?" Now at that point I could've made a scene and said no since we're still in the "FWB" stage and had her look at me crazy or claim her and deal with the questions from her later. I tell him "yeah that's my girl" and homie would not stop apologizing. He passed the smoke and went back inside and so did the neighbor. Me and her go back into her apartment and she then tells me thank you for not tripping over the situation. I knew I could've made a scene as soon as buddy tried to go for her ear but I wanted to see how she would handle herself in that situation in the very least if I'm standing next to her.

Fast forward later in the week, my ex has been hitting me up lately and she had a modeling shoot to go to. She asked me if I could accompany her to the photo shoot and I tell her yeah because I like seeing her all dressed up and I was gonna try and get some after anyway we get to the photo shoot and photographers eyes light up as soon as he sees my ex. He shakes her hand and then kisses it. I proceed to roll my eyes til they almost get stuck and on some funny girl **** she introduces me to the dude as her assistant I keep my cool and tell myself in my mind I'm doing her a solid. Now my ex would ALWAYS get hit on when we were together so I was used to it because I knew who was rearranging the guts at the end of the day but this photographer dude was OD corny trying to spit at my ex. She was looking crazy good at the photo shoot. Heels, hair flowing, plump *** the whole 9 so any straight guy is gonna look at her as insanely attractive. I'm just chilling in the background on my phone and giggling at some of the compliments he's giving to her but getting a little salty too cause my ex is eating it up. The shoot ends and my ex comes up to me and asks if I'm ready to go, "I'm like hell yeah, are you feeding me tonight?" then the photographer comes up to her and asks what she's doing tonight and if she'd like to grab dinner with him. She tells him that she's flattered but promised she would feed me tonight. Dude throws the salt sky high and says "you and your assistant must be really good friends". I'm ready to chump ol dude off but my ex says "he's actually my ex, he just couldn't act right" and grabs on my arm. The photographer is then on some oh you guys are rekindling something type deal or whatever he says and tries to be smooth over the fact he just got rejected like a chump. He shakes her hand and tells her it was his pleasure and then he shakes my hand and the smile I gave him was PURE GOLD. In the car ride back she mentions the photographer trying to hit on her and I brush it off and act like I didn't notice. She tells me how she always liked that I never made a scene when a guy tried to hit on her and that it made me seem so confident. We actually go out to dinner but I end up paying but I spent the night at her crib as well and was rewarded with doggystyle.

Cliffs
- smoked with FWB
-she got hit on. I chilled and she handled the situation.
-she thanked me for keeping cool.
-went to photo shoot with ex
-photographer hit on her. I couldn't say anything because she is an ex.
-she curved photographer while acknowledging I still have the keys to the box.
-she thanked me for always keeping cool in those type situations.
-I got some ex yambs

 

[fourtyeight48]

I'll never fight over a girl. She doesn't value you if it's that easy. She wants you to fight over her lol.

 

[Brownstone]

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[keel252]

Same dudes hollering bout **** shaming whatever that's supposed to mean probably the first dudes to ask a chick her body count & cry in a corner when
the number isn't acceptable for you. Anybody dealing with women should know the thots out here taking off like no tomorrow. Not to mention homie said he lives in Sin City. Give it the monkey see monkey do **** a break.

stop it

 

[ddh1122]

She would gladly take a drink from a dude and talk to him if you let him slide up and buy her a drink??? 

 

[lamekilla]

Yeah hennessy I didn't like that last text she sent. I know you said she's a little younger so she might still be in a young lady frame of mind but def check her on that. That's disrespectful for her to text you some trash like that.

 

[hennessy]

^You know I already handled it. She was just being sassy in response to me saying I'd let a guy cop her a drink then slide up. I just wanted to hear your guys perspectives and stories.

 

[keel252]

i shouldnt have to check my girl bc a dude is buying her a drink, thats her job.


now if dude is being extra and too aggressive to were shes feeling uncomfortable. then its time to step in.

 

[hennessy]

i shouldnt have to check my girl bc a dude is buying her a drink, thats her job.


now if dude is being extra and too aggressive to were shes feeling uncomfortable. then its time to step in.

Agreed.

 

[HankHill]

An old fling from before has been sent drinks across the bar while I wasn't there. She would just give them an awkward "thanks but no thanks face" and pass the drinks to me when I show up. Someone actually sitting down next to her to spit game would get curved immediately.


Most awkward experience has been when I was heading home from my sis birthday outing. I was walking with some of her friends since I came in their car. Random ****** asking me "aye one of them your girl?". In my head I'm like no, but then I'm thinking how dumb I'd feel waiting here while ****** are rapping to them. So I just had to hit the cock block move and say "yeah".

 

[iamdef]

Why is your girl letting other guys occupy your seat when you're gone in the first place?
 

This is the only issue, my girl would never let anybody sit in my seat and she'd prob fight a man if he wouldn't get up. But she's the hot head and I'm cool under pressure.

In a bar type situation I would have handled it the same though no need to get into a fight with a non-competitor but if I had any brown liquor (Makers Mark specifically) I mighta fought him for getting sassy with me

 

[joepac12]

Henny ya girl should have put dude in check by saying this seat is taken. Still u handled the situation well. I never had a situation like that but I do see guys checking my shorty out when we together but they never said no slick stuff.

 

[penny1folarin]

so my job just moved to a new location building , so while im tryna hit on the new yambs in the suite next door ex gf from hs pops outta no where 2nd day in a row running into ex yambs 

 

[ballinsam23]

Cosign to what young doc said, a girl i was messing with before would flirt with a dude for literally 5 seconds, have a drink bought for her then give them the bathroom excuse and bring me the drink. Straight schemin . I miss her though

But Hennesy you did the right thing. There's a silver line in that situation, and even though some drunk dudes will approach I think for the most part their intentions arent bad once they find out she's taken. More of a "i need to get the last word" alpha male type BS instead of the "imma take your girl" attitude.

 

[fourtyeight48]

If my girl ever said that, I'll tell her to go away.

 

[awwsome]

One of my exes would let the guy buy her a drink and then just give it to me

Did this all the time when I was under 21.


I've never bought a drink for a girl I wasn't taking on a date, don't understand it.

 

[Betonblck]

One of my exes would let the guy buy her a drink and then just give it to me

Did this all the time when I was under 21.


I've never bought a drink for a girl I wasn't taking on a date, don't understand it.

It depends on how long you talking to her and of course she isn't another guys girl. If y'all talking for like a half hour and really vibing and you about to order yourself a drink I'll buy her a drink too. But I would never just walk up and buy a girl a drink right away.

 

[mgrand15]

Stripper made me buy her a drink after like half an hour and I still was salty about it later. I don't get how dudes just go up to random people and buy them a drink.

 

[3stheluckynumbe]

Stripper made me buy her a drink after like half an hour and I still was salty about it later. I don't get how dudes just go up to random people and buy them a drink.

How did she MAKE you buy her a drink? Srs question

 

[spizike231]

Been friends w/ this chick for years.. like 4-5 years. She's a model and she's a good solid 8-9. Long legs, fit, etc. I usually send her pics of bad chicks that send me pics (explicit pics) for her to check out or judge or whatever.

Well lately, I send her someone, she says they're hot and then she asks me if I think she can do better. I say "Go ahead and try. Let's see it." and she'll send me a picture of her doing the same pose / wearing the same amount of clothes that the chick in the pictures are doing / wearing. I know she's doing it for attention, has no intent on sleeping with me, but is it bad that I don't mind at all?

 

[JL415]

^ smash that.