Chalk up another W for ya mans out here in Germany. Just got it in with a Luxembourgian? Luxembouger? Idk all I know was that womb was in my top 5 lifetime wise.
Yambily.....for the first time in my life I can say I have a "roster." (Thanks be to TAY for it's wisdom and guidance).
It may be a roster of 2, but a juggling act none the less.
I have already decided who is "side" and who is "main."
Main knows she's main so she's good for now and knows about the other girl.
Side is unaware of main and from the tone of our conversation last night seems to be catching feelings.
How does one make a side chick aware she is in fact the side chick?
congratulations young Don... You've made great strides...
Now... When it comes to deciphering the side, like ol boy said... Your actions will decide.
Be careful because the side WILL try to flex on you... Complaining for time... Saying that you're not giving her enough whatever.
Don't let her flex on you.
Gotta maintain that she can easily be cut off. Can't be afraid to lose her... And I mean like not talking to her for a few weeks.
Now, once you establish this gangsta *** attitude... You're good.
Main comes first... Never lose sight of that. But at the same time , yiu can't be her stepping stool.
One thing that will keep you sane... Is the ability to say "eff this... I'm staying at home and rubbing it out"
Sounds lame... But those nights where they're clamoring for your time and you don't give it to them when they want it raises your value exponentially...
And from there... You can go more than a few days without kicking it...
And this will lead to more open time on your schedule...
Open time in which you can fill up with more side pieces...
You'll find your comfort level... I try to have 2 chicks I spend time with... A couple out of towners... And 3-4 chicks I can hit up for the yambs...
Seems like a lot... But those out of towners might come every other month for a weekend... And the smash buddies might get the d once or twice a month.
