So I was talking with my boy last night about.......

[retro707]

I'am 25yrs old and i've known my boy  since middle school... We were having dinner last night and talking old times.  I remember being about that life and stressing myself out trying to keep it legit with 3 different females.  All 3 within a 30mile radius.  I still don't know how I pulled it off for as long as I did but at one point I had an apt with one, at the same time I was staying at one's place and the third was rooming with me and my friend.... true story..  I was to the point where I couldn't handle the texts, calls and so on..  I let that "YOLO" type of lifestyle go and was wondering if you guys had/have similar stories ..being with multiple females at once....how you handle it? how you did/continue to pull it off?.  Obviously it's not worth it in the long run but at the moment it seems like it's great.  Til this day, all 3 females still don't have a clue.  I have cleaned my act and i'am on the steady serious relationship hype.

  Currently with my Boo and things are amazing, she is da bes.

Please share..


-UNDFT-

 

[fraij da 5 11]

You're story was of mild temperature, bro.

 

[megatron]

Originally Posted by Retro707

I'am 25yrs old and i've known my boy  since middle school... We were having dinner last night and talking old times.  I remember being about that life and stressing myself out trying to keep it legit with 3 different females.  All 3 within a 30mile radius.  I still don't know how I pulled it off for as long as I did but at one point I had an apt with one, at the same time I was staying at one's place and the third was rooming with me and my friend.... true story..  I was to the point where I couldn't handle the texts, calls and so on..  I let that "YOLO" type of lifestyle go and was wondering if you guys had/have similar stories ..being with multiple females at once....how you handle it? how you did/continue to pull it off?.  Obviously it's not worth it in the long run but at the moment it seems like it's great.  Til this day, all 3 females still don't have a clue.  I have cleaned my act and i'am on the steady serious relationship hype.

  Currently with my Boo and things are amazing, she is da bes.

Please share..


-UNDFT-

i few years ago I had to pull a 2nd phone line to keep my lives separate and stuff. but now ive realized its easier to just be real with those around you. eventually they all found out.

 

[finallyfamous]

Did dunkaroos get brought up?

 

[retro707]

eventually....in my case, still haven't.  I'am sure there's dudes out there doing what I did with 5+.  I can only imagine the stress hahaha.  I wouldn't feel comfortable anywhere thinking someone about to see me.  I got over it and dropped it all.  Now my phone is not vibrating 24/7 and my bank acc a lot happier

Sending roses to the wrong one at the wrong time FML

I started just not giving a dammmb anymore.

-UNDFT-

 

[datpiff110]

how do u want me to respond

 

[brooklynnyc3000]

my man... 

 

[Peep Game]

Originally Posted by fraij da 5 11

You're story was of mild temperature, bro.

 

[retro707]

Originally Posted by Peep Game

Originally Posted by fraij da 5 11

You're story was of mild temperature, bro.

trust me.. that's why I posted on NT because I know some of you dudes are 10x worse..

-UNDFT-

 

[brandon3000]

 

[ervinsb91]

humble brag?

 

[retro707]

Originally Posted by ErvinSB91

humble brag?

not at all man.  Just wanted to see if anyone else had a similar situation and how they got out of it without it getting out of control.  I admit it was wrong.... but already happened.


-UNDFT-
  

 

[franco23x]

Didn't just ask them for a 3 way?

 

[infyrno23]

I played very well in my days...
That's all ima say

 

[retro707]

Originally Posted by Franco23x

Didn't just ask them for a 3 way?

that would of been muerte for me bruh


-UNDFT-

  

 

[tony montana]

I had multiple girls before but it was never to the point where i lived in 3 different places lmao.. that %*@* must've been hella stressful

 

[retro707]

Originally Posted by Tony Montana

I had multiple girls before but it was never to the point where i lived in 3 different places lmao.. that %*@* must've been hella stressful

you have no idea..  My days off were really "catch up" days with the girlz

.  Texting and keeping my 3 separate lives intact without messing up was really hard but got through it.  On the pos side, it was 

 but the negs 

 .  I threw in the towel after my 1yr lease was up with the one I had an apt with...I randomly left the one I was living together with (her lease was about 2 months away and she had that place before me anyways) and the roomie girl stayed at the apt  for a week after I left..(my boy had 2 other roomies lined up )... I ended up getting a spot and just cutting all 3 within a week.  I had also just purchased a diff car, changed my Job and kept going... 

.  A NEW Me , started over

-UNDFT-

  

 

[classy freshman]

If you keep it 100 with women, you won't have to play those games, and there wont be a limit to the amount of women you can have at one time.

The "extras"will like you and mess with you just on the strength of you having a girl... all while not saying a word and playing their part.

Trust me I know.

 

[cap1229]

Originally Posted by Retro707

Originally Posted by Tony Montana

I had multiple girls before but it was never to the point where i lived in 3 different places lmao.. that %*@* must've been hella stressful

you have no idea..  My days off were really "catch up" days with the girlz

.  Texting and keeping my 3 separate lives intact without messing up was really hard but got through it.  On the pos side, it was 

 but the negs 

 .  I threw in the towel after my 1yr lease was up with the one I had an apt with...I randomly left the one I was living together with (her lease was about 2 months away and she had that place before me anyways) and the roomie girl stayed at the apt  for a week after I left..(my boy had 2 other roomies lined up )... I ended up getting a spot and just cutting all 3 within a week.  I had also just purchased a diff car, changed my Job and kept going... 

.  A NEW Me , started over

-UNDFT-

Dirty. 

 

[retro707]

Originally Posted by Classy Freshman

If you keep it 100 with women, you won't have to play those games, and there wont be a limit to the amount of women you can have at one time.

The "extras"will like you and mess with you just on the strength of you having a girl... all while not saying a word and playing their part.

Trust me I know.

i believe it.  I was too far into those females (literally

) to think about this.  One of my boys has a lady and like 2 on the side who know the deal and dont even care.  But , like I mentioned  it all seemed great and than you get too far into it to backtrack and make it a different way.  My mistake. YOLO

-UNDFT-

  

 

[retro707]

Originally Posted by cap1229

Originally Posted by Retro707

Originally Posted by Tony Montana

I had multiple girls before but it was never to the point where i lived in 3 different places lmao.. that %*@* must've been hella stressful

you have no idea..  My days off were really "catch up" days with the girlz

.  Texting and keeping my 3 separate lives intact without messing up was really hard but got through it.  On the pos side, it was 

 but the negs 

 .  I threw in the towel after my 1yr lease was up with the one I had an apt with...I randomly left the one I was living together with (her lease was about 2 months away and she had that place before me anyways) and the roomie girl stayed at the apt  for a week after I left..(my boy had 2 other roomies lined up )... I ended up getting a spot and just cutting all 3 within a week.  I had also just purchased a diff car, changed my Job and kept going... 

.  A NEW Me , started over

-UNDFT-

Dirty. 

I know.  Very.    But trust when I say I would NEVER put myself in that type of situation again. 

-UNDFT-

 

[stillin729]

do you own UNDFTD or something?

 

[retro707]

Originally Posted by StillIn729

do you own UNDFTD or something?

no sir. But I do wear it A LOT.

-UNDFT-

 

[yeah]

Originally Posted by Classy Freshman

If you keep it 100 with women, you won't have to play those games, and there wont be a limit to the amount of women you can have at one time.

The "extras"will like you and mess with you just on the strength of you having a girl... all while not saying a word and playing their part.

Trust me I know.

Took this mindset in 2010. Never looked back.

Some women play that "If I'm not the 1 and only, don't bother" nonsense. Some keep true to that.

A lot don't though.

 

[retro707]

Originally Posted by Yeah

Originally Posted by Classy Freshman

If you keep it 100 with women, you won't have to play those games, and there wont be a limit to the amount of women you can have at one time.

The "extras"will like you and mess with you just on the strength of you having a girl... all while not saying a word and playing their part.

Trust me I know.

Took this mindset in 2010. Never looked back.

Some women play that "If I'm not the 1 and only, don't bother" nonsense. Some keep true to that.

A lot don't though.

my situation was back in 2007-2009 FML

2012 tho

I can sleep my full 8hrs

-UNDFT-