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aight NT, I have a dilemma right now.
This girl in my French class and I have partnered up for in-class practice conversations. We were pretty cool and talked about our weekends and how our classes are going. I always participate in speaking in class to get proactive class participation points, and I've said comments in class that have made her laugh and smile. So after about a week or two of sitting and talking next to each other in class, I decide to just go for it and ask her out. I decided to ask her out after class one-on-one in the hallway to see if she wanted to get coffee some time soon. I asked her where she was headed, and then after that, asked her if she wanted to get coffee sometime. She said "I don't know" with a sort of awkward laugh and the
kind of face. I was a bit hurt but I played it off like, "Alright, see ya then!" as I headed into the bathroom. Immediately I thought I failed because I slipped up on the delivery sounding hella anxious or something.
Since that time I asked her out she still gives me side-convo and I'm not sure if she's just talking to be not awkward, or if she really didn't know if she liked me then and is subtly giving me a second opportunity to ask her out. She still sits next to me and we still are speaking partners.
NT, is it worth trying?
Cliffs:
-Asked a girl out after class, I personally felt my message wasn't confident enough, likewise I get shy "IDK" as a response
-she still talks to me in class, I'm not sure if we're both set on being just classmates
-Do I take a L or should I try asking her out again?
Here's her FB pro pic. Not FB friends btw.
always appreciate the knowledge NT
This girl in my French class and I have partnered up for in-class practice conversations. We were pretty cool and talked about our weekends and how our classes are going. I always participate in speaking in class to get proactive class participation points, and I've said comments in class that have made her laugh and smile. So after about a week or two of sitting and talking next to each other in class, I decide to just go for it and ask her out. I decided to ask her out after class one-on-one in the hallway to see if she wanted to get coffee some time soon. I asked her where she was headed, and then after that, asked her if she wanted to get coffee sometime. She said "I don't know" with a sort of awkward laugh and the
Since that time I asked her out she still gives me side-convo and I'm not sure if she's just talking to be not awkward, or if she really didn't know if she liked me then and is subtly giving me a second opportunity to ask her out. She still sits next to me and we still are speaking partners.
NT, is it worth trying?
Cliffs:
-Asked a girl out after class, I personally felt my message wasn't confident enough, likewise I get shy "IDK" as a response
-she still talks to me in class, I'm not sure if we're both set on being just classmates
-Do I take a L or should I try asking her out again?
Here's her FB pro pic. Not FB friends btw.
Spoiler [+]
always appreciate the knowledge NT