soltheman
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Imagine:
-Your girl is easily offended.
-Your girl tries to change you. (Keeps you from drinking/smoking.)
-Your girl doesn't like to go to parties, and will infact act depressed when you go. (Even when you've tried to introduce her to friends on variousoccasions.)
-When your girl does indeed go to parties, she invites 3 or 4 of her (ugly/lame) friends with to "make her feel more comfortable."
-Your girl will readily go to a frat party with a friend. (And will become angered when you voice your concern.)
-Your girl is always busy and feels the need to study EVERY day.
-Your girl always hangs out with the same exact people, and becomes socially awkward in the presence of others.
-Your girl is okay with her best friends prying your hand away from hers (literally prying, without saying anything. Walk up, grab hands, being prying.)
-Your girl gets mad at incredibly petty things, and will refuse to kiss you or even give you a hug after an apology.
-Your girl never wants to go out. Even for lunch at local cafes/bars.
-When offered an outing on a weekend, your girl will claim to have plans earlier that day. And when she is finished, she leaves you hanging and offering amovie in her room in exchange. (Without the chance of smashing.)
-Your girl says that she only becomes physically intimate to "please" you because she's a "people pleaser."
Now Imagine:
-You're a 17 year old athlete, starting on the best rugby team in it's division in Minnesota.
-You go to one of the sluttiest universities in the midwest, and could be smashing pretty much every weekend (instead of twice a month. And getting sub-parhead.)
-You've received multiple texts and have been told by other girls that you should dump your girlfriend while they're still single.
-You're *decent* looking.
Realtalk, this is the happiest I've ever been in a relationship (which isn't really saying much, I've had 3 serious girlfriends. Serious meaninglegitimately caring for them and vice versa.) But, I feel like we have very few things in common. That often gets in the way of either of us having fun. Sometimes I think she's the real deal and that we have longevity, and other days I'm seconds away from telling her that I'm not really feeling therelationship. It varies pretty much every day, and I'm tired of having to compromise the way I've been living for 17 years so that she'll be happy
what would you do NT?
-Your girl is easily offended.
-Your girl tries to change you. (Keeps you from drinking/smoking.)
-Your girl doesn't like to go to parties, and will infact act depressed when you go. (Even when you've tried to introduce her to friends on variousoccasions.)
-When your girl does indeed go to parties, she invites 3 or 4 of her (ugly/lame) friends with to "make her feel more comfortable."
-Your girl will readily go to a frat party with a friend. (And will become angered when you voice your concern.)
-Your girl is always busy and feels the need to study EVERY day.
-Your girl always hangs out with the same exact people, and becomes socially awkward in the presence of others.
-Your girl is okay with her best friends prying your hand away from hers (literally prying, without saying anything. Walk up, grab hands, being prying.)
-Your girl gets mad at incredibly petty things, and will refuse to kiss you or even give you a hug after an apology.
-Your girl never wants to go out. Even for lunch at local cafes/bars.
-When offered an outing on a weekend, your girl will claim to have plans earlier that day. And when she is finished, she leaves you hanging and offering amovie in her room in exchange. (Without the chance of smashing.)
-Your girl says that she only becomes physically intimate to "please" you because she's a "people pleaser."
Now Imagine:
-You're a 17 year old athlete, starting on the best rugby team in it's division in Minnesota.
-You go to one of the sluttiest universities in the midwest, and could be smashing pretty much every weekend (instead of twice a month. And getting sub-parhead.)
-You've received multiple texts and have been told by other girls that you should dump your girlfriend while they're still single.
-You're *decent* looking.
Realtalk, this is the happiest I've ever been in a relationship (which isn't really saying much, I've had 3 serious girlfriends. Serious meaninglegitimately caring for them and vice versa.) But, I feel like we have very few things in common. That often gets in the way of either of us having fun. Sometimes I think she's the real deal and that we have longevity, and other days I'm seconds away from telling her that I'm not really feeling therelationship. It varies pretty much every day, and I'm tired of having to compromise the way I've been living for 17 years so that she'll be happy
what would you do NT?
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