Used to be with 2 very different women - not at the same time ^^ - one was lacking of self confidence and seemed to be clean and was way too jealous, she even made me a scene for a publicity for bra. One time she has taken a guy phone number. I didn't discover anything, she told me it by herself. So if she was cheating on me, quite a nice diversion to tell me
After her, I decided to never be again with a jealous woman.
I stayed single for about a year.
Then I met a new girlfriend. So, not a jealous one. At first I found that was fine. But being with someone who seems to do not care make you think about it. Then you realize not only the first one was lacking of confidence but also really loved you, and seemed to be loyal. It wasn't seem to be the one both jealous and cheating on you kind.
And you ask yourself : why the second one is not. She got confidence, for sure. But she also has a seductive side which can make you think about it...
So, not only she could maybe not love you but she could also beeing cheating on you, reason why she wouldn't be jealous, plus in some cases jealousy is a mirror of what we would do if we were the other one, so, quite clever to not be jealous here, or not, depends of the point of view. So jealousy can be a good thing. I would never had thought I will write something like that a few years back. And it's also a good thing if a man is seductive as her girlfriend does not own him like this. Because sometimes when we're in couple, we turn into non attractive creatures...
Both lack of confidence or confidence are dangerous. Someone who is lacking is unpredictable the day he acquired the confidence. And he may be with you by default.
But a woman with a lot of confidence knows way too well how she could have any men. So, if it's the hedonist kind, be careful. A lot of other details could lead you to the reality. Like being kept away from friends, family, acquaintance. A lack of sex, a not cuddly girlfriend. If she is easily agressive, or at the opposite, if she is too nice without reason...
A regulary person goes to different moods, but if she is always the same way I couldn't call that necessary constant. But playing a role. Keeping the control. And the control of what ? If you can not be natural in couple, what next ? Worst ennemies : women searching for a father figure and a dominant woman.
Important are the ages and who dredge or seduct the other one. Dredge and seduct are way different...Being with a woman younger than you, or older, can determinate the power relation sometimes...
Plus the way the woman treat us depends on how did we represent ourself to her. If we have flaws, maybe we would have to take time before leting her knows it...
