jtmatic
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Read the original post but didn't have time on my phone to respond...
Order pizza or something and watch something good on TV like a football game (NFL seasons is coming up) or a good comedy (Don't watch a chick flick/drama/anything about relationships 'cause that will only make him think more about his ex and less, on you) and drink some brews. Or go out to eat. DO NOT cook for him right away. I know you're feeling him but I've only had THESE women in my life that have cooked for me - my mom, my grandma, my aunts, my ex-girlfriend that lasted 2+ years (She, started cooking for me after like a year or so) and my current girlfriend of 5+ years (She, started cooking for me later than 2 years into our relationship). I know because I've always seen it as a tendency for women to try to get into a man's body, eventually their mind, and finally, their heart. You don't want to seem like the type of girl that is too eager and is alright with being the rebound. It seems like you want a long term relationship so flirt with him but don't over do it - it makes you seem too easy if you over do it, (Dudes like attention and affirmation and get gassed up almost as worse as broads) DO NOT play games, (We HATE that - at least the dudes that have options) and see what your friends think about him - I've had many relationships fail because my boys don't like the female or vice versa, it really isn't healthy if you can't go out and have fun with your friends while he's around and while he's with his friends and your present. After some dates, ask him if he likes going out to eat or if he likes making food at home - that should be your cue. If he gives a vague answer, keep going out.
Do not have sex with him for at least like 3 months, I'm not trying to brag but I don't even want to think about how many broads I've deaded after one night stands and decided to have sex with me within 2 weeks. I always categorized them either as sorority type chicks that get passed around or chicks that are just simply ******. I still have jumpoffs that I visit here and there but that's because they at least kept it interesting and LET me smash within a respectable amount of time. If you eventually want a relationship with dude, you're gonna have to let him get the yambs. I can't stress this enough, us men nowadays are thirsty and most of us who aren't religious will dead a chick after 3 months of dating and flirting with no physical involvement. (I think I might have read that y'all have already smashed but you can still salvage his attention and respect - by NOT cooking for him. It doesn't matter what you cook, it can be a well cooked steak or grilled cheese sandwich, he will pick up on that and he'll assume you're trying to get into a relationship with him - and depending on what he's like, it can be a good or bad thing. If it's a good thing to him, he's not worth it - plain and simple. He'll use you as a rebound as many men have had in their lives and move on to the next one.
I could and most likely am wrong though - unlike most of y'all chicks, us men have personalities that vary.
Order pizza or something and watch something good on TV like a football game (NFL seasons is coming up) or a good comedy (Don't watch a chick flick/drama/anything about relationships 'cause that will only make him think more about his ex and less, on you) and drink some brews. Or go out to eat. DO NOT cook for him right away. I know you're feeling him but I've only had THESE women in my life that have cooked for me - my mom, my grandma, my aunts, my ex-girlfriend that lasted 2+ years (She, started cooking for me after like a year or so) and my current girlfriend of 5+ years (She, started cooking for me later than 2 years into our relationship). I know because I've always seen it as a tendency for women to try to get into a man's body, eventually their mind, and finally, their heart. You don't want to seem like the type of girl that is too eager and is alright with being the rebound. It seems like you want a long term relationship so flirt with him but don't over do it - it makes you seem too easy if you over do it, (Dudes like attention and affirmation and get gassed up almost as worse as broads) DO NOT play games, (We HATE that - at least the dudes that have options) and see what your friends think about him - I've had many relationships fail because my boys don't like the female or vice versa, it really isn't healthy if you can't go out and have fun with your friends while he's around and while he's with his friends and your present. After some dates, ask him if he likes going out to eat or if he likes making food at home - that should be your cue. If he gives a vague answer, keep going out.
Do not have sex with him for at least like 3 months, I'm not trying to brag but I don't even want to think about how many broads I've deaded after one night stands and decided to have sex with me within 2 weeks. I always categorized them either as sorority type chicks that get passed around or chicks that are just simply ******. I still have jumpoffs that I visit here and there but that's because they at least kept it interesting and LET me smash within a respectable amount of time. If you eventually want a relationship with dude, you're gonna have to let him get the yambs. I can't stress this enough, us men nowadays are thirsty and most of us who aren't religious will dead a chick after 3 months of dating and flirting with no physical involvement. (I think I might have read that y'all have already smashed but you can still salvage his attention and respect - by NOT cooking for him. It doesn't matter what you cook, it can be a well cooked steak or grilled cheese sandwich, he will pick up on that and he'll assume you're trying to get into a relationship with him - and depending on what he's like, it can be a good or bad thing. If it's a good thing to him, he's not worth it - plain and simple. He'll use you as a rebound as many men have had in their lives and move on to the next one.
I could and most likely am wrong though - unlike most of y'all chicks, us men have personalities that vary.
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