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haha love this reply! well, he is just not the man for me if he cheated just because he got bored and wanted to seek thrill.you need to be a bit less self-centered i.e. his recent ****-slinging campaign has nothing to do with you at all. Fact of the matter is men can love and be in love with multiple women. To me, his actions reveal his natural masculine need for adventure, thrill, and novelty, which he was evidently lacking in your conventional relationship regardless of the effort you may or may not have put in. Familiarity leads to boredom and people need distance and fresh air which in this case was his co-worker. what you can do is either keep it moving and make it clear to him that you don't want to see him ever again or take him back, although he will cheat on you again, guaranteed, for the aforementioned reasons. And although they will never admit it, the latter is quite an attractive option for women from personal experience because it is emotion-driven and irrational, just like women..