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Hi everyone, so I have been a lurker for awhile on these forums and I have probably posted like 2-3 times.
I have been thinking about posting about this very personal topic and finally decided to do it!
So basically, my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years cheated on me with his coworker.
I found out by randomly just checking his email one day and there were emails between them and later on found out that they actually slept together. The first time they slept together was when I had a celebration for my acceptance into dental school, which was the most effed up part in my opinion.
Their fling was going on for a month and a half until i found out.
So anyways, I found out and caught him on multiple lies after that because he tried hiding the fact that they actually slept together at first.
I found out, smacked him, left him, ignored him and started talking to someone.
But lately he has been going above and beyond to try and get me back. The other day I told him we need to not talk at all and that I have given up on us he had a full on breakdown and started crying... which i am not going to lie, broke my heart even though i have all that anger and hate for him.
I just don't know if he deserves a second chance... i just look at him differently now, kind of like i lost respect? maybe love. I don't know if i can ever fully move on from this.
so my question is, what do i do? Any men in here cheated on the girl they love and regretted it? did you regret it? do men cheat because they don't love their women? why did you cheat? tell me your story.
also for the women in this forum...did your man ever cheat on you? did you take him back?
oh and it's been a month ever since i found out and he hasn't given up trying for a month.
I have been thinking about posting about this very personal topic and finally decided to do it!
So basically, my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years cheated on me with his coworker.
I found out by randomly just checking his email one day and there were emails between them and later on found out that they actually slept together. The first time they slept together was when I had a celebration for my acceptance into dental school, which was the most effed up part in my opinion.
Their fling was going on for a month and a half until i found out.
So anyways, I found out and caught him on multiple lies after that because he tried hiding the fact that they actually slept together at first.
I found out, smacked him, left him, ignored him and started talking to someone.
But lately he has been going above and beyond to try and get me back. The other day I told him we need to not talk at all and that I have given up on us he had a full on breakdown and started crying... which i am not going to lie, broke my heart even though i have all that anger and hate for him.
I just don't know if he deserves a second chance... i just look at him differently now, kind of like i lost respect? maybe love. I don't know if i can ever fully move on from this.
so my question is, what do i do? Any men in here cheated on the girl they love and regretted it? did you regret it? do men cheat because they don't love their women? why did you cheat? tell me your story.
also for the women in this forum...did your man ever cheat on you? did you take him back?
oh and it's been a month ever since i found out and he hasn't given up trying for a month.