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I hate to scar this beautiful thread I have taken part in myself but I want to post this as a reminder to all my NT brethren to make sure you PROPERLY INVESTIGATE and sit down and INTEROGATE who your child's mom moves on to if things don't work out and you end up co-parenting.
For 2 weeks now I have been dealing with the horrible fact that my daughters moms babyfather murdered my 1.5 year old daughter. She was on life support for 3 days and we decided to take her off after the declaration of brain death. We decided to donate her organs to other children and she saved lives. It's unreal even typing this right now but all I have is vegence in my heart about this whole situation.
I was an extremely active father in my child's life, despite the fact her mother lived in Dallas and I in NYC. She moved on extremely quick and had a child with this 19 year old kid before my child could even reach 6 months. I made sure I traveled to Dallas 4 times last year and she even let me take my daughter for a good part of the summer. This kid sat down an BBQ'd with me for my child's birthday and showed no reason I couldn't trust him around my kid. Every time I met him he seemed like a quite soft kid just stuck in my ex's whirlwind of BS.
I say don't ever trust anyone around your kid that's not you in my eyes. If your co-parenting literally sit down with the new dude and put the fear in him to never touch the mom or your child. I couldn't trust her mother to tell me she had been leaving my child with this guy to go out of state along with her 2 other children. She wasn't there during the murder but I begged her to get a baby sitter if she ever left the house. Screwed up part in all this is the kid has my last name and there is 0 relation.
Pray for my family NT brethren. I am going to be setting up a fund at a child abuse prevention/awareness charity where people can donate to her name.
He is facing capital murder in Texas however I don't want him to get the death penalty. He shouldn't get to go out easy and calm after violently throwing my daughter and leaving her in her crib unresponsive for 6 hours before calling the cops. Not to mention picking up the phone for me 2 times and lying to me calmly telling me she had a seizure from a fever and that she will be fine. He needs to spend 60 years in gen pop. Not 10 years in isolation on death row until he gets to go to sleep peacefully F that.
Olivia Daddy Loves You
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I hate to scar this beautiful thread I have taken part in myself but I want to post this as a reminder to all my NT brethren to make sure you PROPERLY INVESTIGATE and sit down and INTEROGATE who your child's mom moves on to if things don't work out and you end up co-parenting.
For 2 weeks now I have been dealing with the horrible fact that my daughters moms babyfather murdered my 1.5 year old daughter. She was on life support for 3 days and we decided to take her off after the declaration of brain death. We decided to donate her organs to other children and she saved lives. It's unreal even typing this right now but all I have is vegence in my heart about this whole situation.
I was an extremely active father in my child's life, despite the fact her mother lived in Dallas and I in NYC. She moved on extremely quick and had a child with this 19 year old kid before my child could even reach 6 months. I made sure I traveled to Dallas 4 times last year and she even let me take my daughter for a good part of the summer. This kid sat down an BBQ'd with me for my child's birthday and showed no reason I couldn't trust him around my kid. Every time I met him he seemed like a quite soft kid just stuck in my ex's whirlwind of BS.
I say don't ever trust anyone around your kid that's not you in my eyes. If your co-parenting literally sit down with the new dude and put the fear in him to never touch the mom or your child. I couldn't trust her mother to tell me she had been leaving my child with this guy to go out of state along with her 2 other children. She wasn't there during the murder but I begged her to get a baby sitter if she ever left the house. Screwed up part in all this is the kid has my last name and there is 0 relation.
Pray for my family NT brethren. I am going to be setting up a fund at a child abuse prevention/awareness charity where people can donate to her name.
He is facing capital murder in Texas however I don't want him to get the death penalty. He shouldn't get to go out easy and calm after violently throwing my daughter and leaving her in her crib unresponsive for 6 hours before calling the cops. Not to mention picking up the phone for me 2 times and lying to me calmly telling me she had a seizure from a fever and that she will be fine. He needs to spend 60 years in gen pop. Not 10 years in isolation on death row until he gets to go to sleep peacefully F that.
Olivia Daddy Loves You
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Congrats!!!NT Bros!!!!
My wife just told me yesterday she was pregnant with our #2!!!!
We haven't told anyone yet because we think she's a month into it but i can't keep it in anymore! We want to wait until after the first trimester before we officially tell people.
Both the pregnancy tests and blood test came out positive.
I'm so elated right now, but also so scared.
Can we handle two kids? What's the financial situation going to be like?
My daughter will be 4 in May, is the age difference going to be a problem?
Also, what's the adjustment from having 1 kid to 2?
Tell me we'll be good- my mind is racing right now......
one is like none, two is like tenNT Bros!!!!
My wife just told me yesterday she was pregnant with our #2!!!!
We haven't told anyone yet because we think she's a month into it but i can't keep it in anymore! We want to wait until after the first trimester before we officially tell people.
Both the pregnancy tests and blood test came out positive.
I'm so elated right now, but also so scared.
Can we handle two kids? What's the financial situation going to be like?
My daughter will be 4 in May, is the age difference going to be a problem?
Also, what's the adjustment from having 1 kid to 2?
Tell me we'll be good- my mind is racing right now......
That was us until a week and a half ago^co-sleeping?
Yo, props to parents who enjoy co-sleeping but this right here is the reason for my sanity. When we first had our son we just did whatever was easiest, which led to alot of bad habits that we are still paying for, but once we had our second we were much more strict and stuck to a routine that includes both kids being in their own beds by 7:30pm every night. The only time we have tried co-sleeping is when we've been in a hotel that only had 1 bed. Worst night sleep ever! I definitely look forward to 7:30 when we put the kids to sleep and have a few hours of adult time to do whatever it is that we feel like doing.Now we're sleeping better, can have intimacy at night, can have a drink or watch a show together before bed, she's in a better mood during the day, the baby is better rested
the only thing i don't like about my son sleeping in the bed with us are the kung fu kicks to the face and kidneys
other than that, he's a super heavy sleeper at night and pretty much nothing can wake him up