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I've have full custody of my daughter since she was 2. Some might remember the thread I made on here a long time ago about all the struggles I was having with her trying to dominate and control my life. Luckily, I was able to prove to the courts I was a better fit. Get a good attorney and do ALL communication via email or text ONLY. I can not emphasize that enogh. No matter how cool with you they try to act.
At one point, when I didn't have any money she lied to the courts so that she could get $1,150 a month.
At one point, when I didn't have any money she lied to the courts so that she could get $1,150 a month.
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Just found out my BM has another kid...
My confession thread papi's know my backstory with her...
Shorty got with another dude last June/July (when she left me for good) & had a kid with him in April
Aside from my initial shock, I feel no negative emotions... Just free.
That was the final nail in the coffin of who I once was...
I've made so much progress in this past year & have finally realized my potential along the way.
Ol' girl done ****** her life all the way up & she knows it.
My confession thread papi's know my backstory with her...
Shorty got with another dude last June/July (when she left me for good) & had a kid with him in April
Aside from my initial shock, I feel no negative emotions... Just free.
That was the final nail in the coffin of who I once was...
I've made so much progress in this past year & have finally realized my potential along the way.
Ol' girl done ****** her life all the way up & she knows it.
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Flourish my man , never let the BM hold u back ...long as the kids are loved n taking care of, you gotta be out here livin too
I always go back to see my daughter in ATL since she young n can't travel up here like that , so she finally was able to come up here to see me n my fam for her bday last month ...the BM thought I wanted to see her too n we was gon be out on the town n all that **** , but guess she got salty after seeing how I'm livin n wasn't paying her any attention either cuz she been acting really funny/hostile ever since she went back ...I've been ignoring it and I know it's killin her cuz she trippin even more but ain't gon let it get to me tho
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Any of y'all do an at home DNA test? Finna start up this custody case as soon a lil papi touches down but my cousin who's my counsel says I need to establish paternity first. I'm not really doubting but I gotta do what I gotta do to see my son. Any recommended brands?
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Yup, you can officially wipe your hands clean and just focus on you and your seed.
My BM jokes about wanting another by me.
She says she's not doin the multi BD ********.
She said I can just give her the sperm, I told her she gone get this **** too.
I think we both know we'll eventually get to the point where we're back together.
I'm not holdin out hope but I'm not expecting anything.
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Don't ignore red flags folks. Stay safe.
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Yea, maybe im being naive, but I feel like there's almost always red flags. Especially if you've known them for a long time(years).
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Foundations don't all of a sudden crumble. They start with small cracks. You don't address the cracks, it turns in to an avalanche. Not saying addressing red flags should be an argument, just a simple discussion that could help you make a decision before it's too late.
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Like being the same race?
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If all you did was have sex and never really had a communicating relationship you won't see no signs
The main issue is 90% of the BM were just girls they were smashing. Some probably never even were official and if they were they smashed knowing it would last forever.
For the ones who actually were in a relationship, signs were there they just don't want to admit it and look stupid
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Makes sense.
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"Who say he going through a thang, when y'all ain't never lied
I gotta baby, but his mama act like he ain't mine
Wicked women, using children to live on
Wanna hurt and try to hate, cause she know the thrill is gone"
- Pimp C
I gotta baby, but his mama act like he ain't mine
Wicked women, using children to live on
Wanna hurt and try to hate, cause she know the thrill is gone"
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swear i was just listening to that
Sir San Diego
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Classic song on a classic album, Diamonds & Wood, Ridin Dirty.
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wavy daddy
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Album been out for 20 yrs this past weekend. Crazy.
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It's funny, most of these cases the BM is the cause of the rift, but then she realizes she's not done with you yet, but you've moved on so she decides to make your life hell.
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Me and my bm been split I think a year and a half or two I'm not sure. But things have been going pretty well. We got a nice set schedule and no child support since our time with him is basically 50/50 I buy what he needs here and she does the same living with her moms. I pray it stays this way but at any moment she could **** everything up so I'm trying to stay on good terms.
Kind of in the same boat as kingkoopa with eventually probably end up together because even though I've banged some disgusting/regrettable women this past year or so me and her are still close like before iono I wish we didn't have a kid so I could just never talk to her even though we get along 
Kind of in the same boat as kingkoopa with eventually probably end up together because even though I've banged some disgusting/regrettable women this past year or so me and her are still close like before
iono I wish we didn't have a kid so I could just never talk to her even though we get along
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Sir San Diego
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Me and my bm been split I think a year and a half or two I'm not sure. But things have been going pretty well. We got a nice set schedule and no child support since our time with him is basically 50/50 I buy what he needs here and she does the same living with her moms. I pray it stays this way but at any moment she could **** everything up so I'm trying to stay on good terms.
Kind of in the same boat as kingkoopa with eventually probably end up together because even though I've banged some disgusting/regrettable women this past year or so me and her are still close like before
Go with your gut. I've seen many men that stayed because of the child or the whole "cheaper to keep her" philosophy live miserable lives.
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This is happening to my boy right now.
Like it's seriously terrible
Like it's seriously terrible
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I smashed my BM last week
Even after everything she's done, I still have feelings for her...
Wtf is wrong with me View media item 2135781
Even after everything she's done, I still have feelings for her...
Wtf is wrong with me View media item 2135781
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wavy daddy
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Whats the story on yall 
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Rob I just want you to know im in labor & delivery right now holding back tears knowing how you & shorty went back and forth 
don't she have a bf & a brand new baby? Savage
don't she have a bf & a brand new baby? Savage
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Check my post history in the confessions thread for the 411.Whats the story on yall
Then the rest of it continues in this thread if we getting chronological with it.
LMAO yesRob I just want you to know im in labor & delivery right now holding back tears knowing how you & shorty went back and forth
Was a low key **** you to that new cat if we keeping it funky
EDIT: Btw, thank you for reacting that way, fam... I needed that
You say you're in labor & delivery
Little gamble on the way already???
I'm gonna go ahead & assume it's so & tell you congrats, fam.
I know you got it rough with your BM too but we're going to make it out just fine, man.
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