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Sounds like BM2 was a winner.
I have 2 BM
BM #1 -
Pros:
Cons:
- we have a brother/sister kind of relationship.. one minute we're best friends, the next we wanna throw hands
- she's a good mom, very responsible ... has her a nice place in a great school district.. handles her business
- has a good relationship with my family
- leaving it up to my son whether or not he lives with me full time.... ALLEGEDLY
- we stay at each other's houses when in town
BM #2 -
- rarely gives me updates on my son if it doesn't involve money
- pretends that i don't pay child support even though it comes out of my check every 2 weeks
- 50% of her phone calls to me are for money, the other 50% to tell me about all her social problems
- she's weird as **** ... my friends that meet her all like her, but wonder how much drugs shes on
- I have no relationship with her family what so ever
Pros:
Cons:
- keeps me updated on my daughter's day-to-day constantly ; if my daughter ties her shoe in a new way she'll call me to tell me
- GREAT mother ...I had my doubts but she proved me wrong
- makes sure im the most important man in my daughter's life even though she's married
- didn't want to go to court for child support ... if she needs something, she calls and I handle it
- let me rent her condo for the low after she got married and moved out
- we talk at least 4 times a week
- wouldn't be opposed to my daughter living with me full time if my daughter wanted to
- her family ***** with me
- her husband finally accepts the situation and we all go out together
- EXTREMELY emotional and irrational
- when she gets upset she threatens me with child support, as if it makes any difference to me whether she does or not... but i know she never would
- wants to kill me on monday, acts like it never happened on tuesday .. she goes 0-100 in an instant
- complains about me to my mom
- doesn't encourage my daughter enough to wear her hair out and embrace her bi-racial curls