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I can kinda relate, but for me it's more so that I have baby envy. I can't log onto Facebook without seeing a gazillion pictures of my friend's children. It's ridiculous and kind of alarming to me. I feel like I'm doing everything the right way. If there truely is a "right way". I dated a man, got married, moved in together, and it's gotten to the point where it's like "what now?" While all my friends accidentally got pregnant by a guy and he ends up not even being in the picture anymore.
I want to have kids and we haven't really tried but we're not really using any protection so if it happens it happens. We've always talked about wanting to wait until we're financially secure and done with any crazy lifestyle changes that we may be going through but I can't think of a better time than now. My husband is very analytical so he thinks about things way too much. Having a child isn't something I want to have to plan for and put on a calendar. I want it to just happen.
I want to have kids and we haven't really tried but we're not really using any protection so if it happens it happens. We've always talked about wanting to wait until we're financially secure and done with any crazy lifestyle changes that we may be going through but I can't think of a better time than now. My husband is very analytical so he thinks about things way too much. Having a child isn't something I want to have to plan for and put on a calendar. I want it to just happen.