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If she dropped the panties would you smash?
My best friend is really paranoid vol. C'mon son (female related)
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A lot of people have hit it on the head in this thread. You are in the wrong, sorry. You don't feel guilty even an ounce? And how does your girl feel? If your girl feels nothing, there's a chance she's probably got a guy on the side. I'm not saying that's definite, but most women would not like the loss of attention ...
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That's what bothers me more than anything.
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If push came to shove I would chose his friendship over hers. But I'm not gonna make that choice over something as dumb as him thinking I'm gonna smash his girl. And the fact that he thinks I'd do him like that makes me wonder just how much of a friend he sees me as.
That really isn't that dumb of a concept to be pissed over.
And despite what you may think people have been played out like this before. "Oh we are just friends i swear...." It has happened a million times.
The bottom line is:
Your boy isn't going to change even if you say o we are just friends and she even says it. A jealous person is jealous. And if a jealous man sees any man (even if it is a friend of his) hanging around with his girl and texting with her on the regular he is going to be jealous (and imo for good reason)
You know how to solve this...fall back a little bit and stop talking to the girl
You said you don't think you can...which is understandable....so just deal with it as it comes. Eventually it will have to boil over and sometihng will be resolved. The resolution will be ultimately you will have to pick one over the other
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I'd be salty just based on that if I was him. That means (to me, at least) that there's something hidden between the two of you.
EDIT: I've been in your boat before OP. Trust that even if you're not aware of it yet
[Jay-Z]Hov did that, so hopefully you won't have to go through that...[/Jay-Z]
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I'd be salty just based on that if I was him. That means (to me, at least) that there's something hidden between the two of you.
Yeah not the best thing on my part.
For me it's basically if he can't trust me are we really best friends?
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i dont know what happened cuz u had this long *!$ post about 2 posts up like 5 mins ago and i tried quoting it but it's gone.. did u really say "she told him to deal with it, so if i change she'll know i 'took his side' and it'd be a wrap"???
i'm sorry man... you're !$$#%!* up your dude's situation. you already have, it sounds like. you've already made her think dude has trust issues when in actuality his "friend" just put him in an awkward *!$ situation.
the worst part is you're saying that if you dont stop talking to your dude's girl way more than you should be, she'll get annoyed with YOU, and THEN it'd be a "wrap"??... a wrap for who? I'm sorry to say it man, but you're bein mad selfish. let your dude have his girl and u have yours.
i'm sorry man... you're !$$#%!* up your dude's situation. you already have, it sounds like. you've already made her think dude has trust issues when in actuality his "friend" just put him in an awkward *!$ situation.
the worst part is you're saying that if you dont stop talking to your dude's girl way more than you should be, she'll get annoyed with YOU, and THEN it'd be a "wrap"??... a wrap for who? I'm sorry to say it man, but you're bein mad selfish. let your dude have his girl and u have yours.
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Imagine him doing all of this with your girl. Imagine that when you're with your girl, he texts her about work then while you're not with her, he asks personal questions.
In my opinion, he's not paranoid at all. Instead of talking to her about it like a lot of people of saying, talk to him about it.
Don't go into the situation thinking its all black and white with you being right and him wrong, go into it understanding it from his point of view.
In my opinion, he's not paranoid at all. Instead of talking to her about it like a lot of people of saying, talk to him about it.
Don't go into the situation thinking its all black and white with you being right and him wrong, go into it understanding it from his point of view.
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The best thing you can do is talk to your homie about it. He will trust you more if you would just tell him that you guys are just friends and nothing else. Also, If you guys were friends before they hooked up then he should understand that bro.
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I agree that this should be talked out.
He's never said anything to my face. How am I supposed to bring this up, I found this out from her. That'd just cause a huge fight between them.
And to the dude asking about my girl. As much as I talk to my friend, I spend way more time talking to and with my girl.
He's never said anything to my face. How am I supposed to bring this up, I found this out from her. That'd just cause a huge fight between them.
And to the dude asking about my girl. As much as I talk to my friend, I spend way more time talking to and with my girl.
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Just back off and then you won't have to have the conversation, which isn't going to help, with him. He's just not comfortable with it and when it comes to girls rationality often goes out the window.
I've always made sure to have no relationship with my friend's girls and when I know the girl beforehand I ALWAYS change the relationship.
I've always made sure to have no relationship with my friend's girls and when I know the girl beforehand I ALWAYS change the relationship.
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Yo that's your homie, and in my opinion your taking it too far...a gift? taking her down to your car? If I was that other guy you would've been confronted already. I think you should back off you have your girl and just keep your friends girl as a classmate.
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Here's a better question: Do you trust yourself?
If you "just happened" to be alone with her and she straddled you and offered you that P, would you take it?
He may have all the trust in the world in you, but maybe he knows his girl better than you/she thinks he does.
What he, you and me all know is that human nature will inevitably win in this case and if things keep going the way they are, you are gonna smash his girl. If it's worth losing a friend over, then more power to you.
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No pics?
You're not a king you serf.
You're not a king you serf.
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she's your friend, right?
he's your supposed best friend, right?
so she should know this fact.
so this is what you do. Tell her you're going to talk to him about it, note...not confront.. but talk.
Say you value his friendship and don't want this to blow up into something even worse... so while it's new... you're going to squash any issues that he may have...or at the very least...address them so he can say his side and you can get a better grasp on how to respect their relationship.
she says no?...too bad. you're his friend too.
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IDK you should back off a little damn man go chill with your girl.
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This love triangle is not gonna work. Listen, OP, I know you're probably gonna read this and just brush it off like all the other GOOD advice everyones given, but you can't be doing this. I understand why your boy is skeptical about you and his girl. It's obvious that either you like her, or she likes you, or both. The reason why I think it's both is because neither of you are trying to let this go. I mean, you don't want to confront him because you don't want your friendship with her to end/be awkward. She's telling him to get over it, but if she really cared or if the bond between you and her wasn't anything serious it wouldn't be a big deal. You don't want anything to go wrong because your setting yourself up for next year, when he's gone and it's just you two with no distractions so you can smash before, during, and after studying.
This dude has a girl, doesn't give a #$%@ about his "best friend" and how he feels, and he's trying to keep things cool with his future #$%@ buddy. Then he comes on here for what? So we can give you props? You are being ridiculously selfish. If I were your boy, I would drop you and the chick immediately.
This dude has a girl, doesn't give a #$%@ about his "best friend" and how he feels, and he's trying to keep things cool with his future #$%@ buddy. Then he comes on here for what? So we can give you props? You are being ridiculously selfish. If I were your boy, I would drop you and the chick immediately.
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Before I comment or waste looking over four pages ... did OP provide pics of bf's girl?
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Yo... One of you are gonna catch feelings for each other, if you keep this "talking" up.. REAL TALK
Your homie thinks it's suspicious that u guys talk all the time, so why don't u have a talk with him telling him that u don't want anything to do with his girl
besides being "best friends"
Your homie thinks it's suspicious that u guys talk all the time, so why don't u have a talk with him telling him that u don't want anything to do with his girl
besides being "best friends"
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From the story you posted... you need to respect his relationship and the friendship.
Somethings you just don't do... it's sort of a grey area, but you know what you should/shouldn't do... and you're doing all of them.
Somethings you just don't do... it's sort of a grey area, but you know what you should/shouldn't do... and you're doing all of them.
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so youre the gay bbf that every one girl has
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You should have no contact with her hahaha.. I don't even care to know anything about my friends girls or study with them or give them hugs, or give them gifts, or go out to eat with them, c'mon %!%*$ +$! are you doing?
