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The other night, a female friend (A) told me she was having a party, and one of the things she said was that I could invite whoever I wanted so I brought a friend (T). At some point my friend that I brought found a bag of green and we didnt know whose it was. Used some of it, he kept it, and I forgot about it...until today.
Today The girl who invited me told me she lost the green and she's really bummed about it because she knows someone took it. I asked T about it and he refuses to give it back even though we know whose it is. And I feel bad knowing that she's sad about looking for it when I know who has it.
I am not as morally conflicted about whether or not to tell her or to protect my friend. But I'm more concerned that this friend T would keep holding onto something while knowing that it's not his and whose it is. especially when the person who it belongs to was nice enough to have you over for a party and let him drink for free even though she didn't know him.
I plan on asking him again to give it back and if he doesn't I won't tell. But is it extreme to consider not keeping up with this guy T as a friend if he keeps the sack? To me it's like stealing and it makes me think if he'd stab me in the back in similar fashion.
tldr female friend lost something and I know who has it, but he won't give it back even he knows it's hers.
Today The girl who invited me told me she lost the green and she's really bummed about it because she knows someone took it. I asked T about it and he refuses to give it back even though we know whose it is. And I feel bad knowing that she's sad about looking for it when I know who has it.
I am not as morally conflicted about whether or not to tell her or to protect my friend. But I'm more concerned that this friend T would keep holding onto something while knowing that it's not his and whose it is. especially when the person who it belongs to was nice enough to have you over for a party and let him drink for free even though she didn't know him.
I plan on asking him again to give it back and if he doesn't I won't tell. But is it extreme to consider not keeping up with this guy T as a friend if he keeps the sack? To me it's like stealing and it makes me think if he'd stab me in the back in similar fashion.
tldr female friend lost something and I know who has it, but he won't give it back even he knows it's hers.