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I always argue that people were born gay
You can't help the way you feel or who you like
You can't help the way you feel or who you like
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thats exactly what i meant. ask the people of concern the question rather than a message board full of prepubescent virgins that have a multitudeof biases. or do a pubmed, ovid, medscape search for any of the hundreds of peer reviewed scientifically supported articles on the matterOriginally Posted by F A Y B A N
Originally Posted by TypeRPinoY
what i say is dumb but comparing homosexuality to sexual deviants and criminals is a proper comparison? you my friend are ******ed. how is it beside the point to ask members of the population of concern the question? it's like asking white people about the struggles of growing up blackOriginally Posted by F A Y B A N
Originally Posted by TypeRPinoY
ask 100 homosexuals if they chose to be homosexual and i am absolutely sure not a single one would say they chose to be gay.
That's the dumbest reasoning I've ever heard, plus it's besides the point. The question is whether the individual is born gay or is affected by subsequent external factors. This is a crude comparison, and I in no way intend to offend homosexuality, but are pedophiles, necrophiliacs, and those with other sexually abnormal traits born that way, do they choose that behavior, or is it a result of their upbringing, lifestyle? I don't think anyone knows the exact answers to any of these questions. Debate is fine and all, but don't act like people are idiots because they disagree with your opinion. None of the questions have been resolved, research is still being done to find answers.
You know what I meant. Would you be happier if I listed podophilia and differentiated between those attracted to children and those who actually molest children? I clearly stated sexually abnormal traits, the ones I chose just happen to be well known ones.
And your second sentence doesn't even make sense.
"how is it beside the point to ask members of the population of concern the question? it's like asking white people about the struggles of growing up black"
If members of the population of concern in this post would be homosexuals, then wouldn't that equate to asking a black person about the struggles of growing up black? I'm lost.
You just jumped in the post acting like this is some cut and dry debate that isn't worth having when you weren't even on topic, just adding some random coment that didn't add to the post. And ironically, then in response to my thread you didnt even address my main point.
this. you can choose to live a gay lifestyle...but you can't choose to be gay. you can choose if you want to act on your attraction to thesame sex, but you can't choose who you're attracted to.Originally Posted by Kim1
They don't choose to be gay, you can't help who you're attracted to
Originally Posted by DeadsetAce
this. you can choose to live a gay lifestyle...but you can't choose to be gay. you can choose if you want to act on your attraction to the same sex, but you can't choose who you're attracted to.Originally Posted by Kim1
They don't choose to be gay, you can't help who you're attracted to
i never said to myself, i CHOOSE to be attracted to chicks. i just am attracted to them. its natural. im sure it's the same way for gay people.
Originally Posted by J23Diego
I think it depends on the environment they live in and who they hang out with.I've never believed people are born gay.
Originally Posted by DeadsetAce
this. you can choose to live a gay lifestyle...but you can't choose to be gay. you can choose if you want to act on your attraction to the same sex, but you can't choose who you're attracted to.Originally Posted by Kim1
They don't choose to be gay, you can't help who you're attracted to
i never said to myself, i CHOOSE to be attracted to chicks. i just am attracted to them. its natural. im sure it's the same way for gay people.
Originally Posted by ThrowedInDaGame
No.
Huh?Originally Posted by datprepboivinc3
I Think Being gay Might not having proper parenting I.E: Single Mom, Dad Who Doesnt Not Care or Something Along Those Lines.
Originally Posted by DakMode
i believe its a choice
Originally Posted by 18key
Hopefully that's big enough for people to see.Originally Posted by JohnnyRedStorm
No actually it's a chemical imbalance that leads to people becoming gay, but thanks for furthering the ignorance movement.Originally Posted by JoseBronx
Topic has been brought up a couple of times, but there is no way people are born gay. Its just not part of human nature, penis + vagina makes kids not p+p or v+v.
Its a personal choice.
Say word? How might improper parenting lead to someone being gay? If single parent homes lead to gayness, wouldn't it make sense thatsocieties that have a high prevalence of single parent household would have a higher prevalence of homosexuality?Originally Posted by juggy4805
Originally Posted by datprepboivinc3
I Think Being gay Might not having proper parenting I.E: Single Mom, Dad Who Doesnt Not Care or Something Along Those Lines.
I'm gonna summarize what you said right here by saying sexuality is a continuum. Human sexuality is not black and white.Originally Posted by swyftdahoe
Most people think about homosexuality vs heterosexuality as being on a digital scale.. But the truth is it's probably analog.. So you may be born gay if you're far on the *#%* side.. But you could also "turn" gay thru choice and environment/events if you're somewhere mid-scale. I liken it to the 2 party system you guys have. Some are staunch Dems, some are hardcore Repubs, some can go both ways, and some moderates switch sides midway through.