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Me and a couple of my buddies i knew from hs joined one during our spring quarter of first year...It really doesnt matter which one you join..just try and scope one that you feel comfortable with, and think you can mesh the best with. whatever you put into it, youll get out of it...ya know? if you grind and get your @@% done, you can def benefit from connections that your fraternity might offer. but you gotta LOOK.
theres such a stereotype that you pay for your friends, and blahblahblah, but i didnt see it like that. you pay for things as a group, so you can do big things, like cruises and roadtrips, and of course... your normal house/venue parties. Its like you and all your homies throw down to do something dope.
There are so many resources within a fraternity...like we had test/note banks from previous years, books that we didnt have to pay hige amounts for...tutoring, career guidance. everything. Also, if you wanna play sports, and you cant play at the college level, intramural sports are more competitive than you think. there are some damn good athletes that just didnt have enough to play college ball, but def school most people on the field.
it honestly doesnt matter which fraternity you join...but you may wanna do some research on how certain frats act/are portrayed on your campus. dont wanna join a frat with a bunch a meatheads just for the title...
this is getting long, but one last word of advice, get your studies together for a year or so before joining a fraternity. its always a lot easier on the parents.....haha
theres such a stereotype that you pay for your friends, and blahblahblah, but i didnt see it like that. you pay for things as a group, so you can do big things, like cruises and roadtrips, and of course... your normal house/venue parties. Its like you and all your homies throw down to do something dope.
There are so many resources within a fraternity...like we had test/note banks from previous years, books that we didnt have to pay hige amounts for...tutoring, career guidance. everything. Also, if you wanna play sports, and you cant play at the college level, intramural sports are more competitive than you think. there are some damn good athletes that just didnt have enough to play college ball, but def school most people on the field.
it honestly doesnt matter which fraternity you join...but you may wanna do some research on how certain frats act/are portrayed on your campus. dont wanna join a frat with a bunch a meatheads just for the title...
this is getting long, but one last word of advice, get your studies together for a year or so before joining a fraternity. its always a lot easier on the parents.....haha