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On a daily basis, I dress urban/backpacker/b-boy/skater/bmx/insert extreme sport whatever you wanna call it and I'm 22 years old and I'm attracted towomen at least a year older than me and beyond. However, with the way I dress, I guess a lot of younger girls are attracted to it and I look my age, but whenI'm fresh with a clean cut I look about 20. Man I attract TOO MANY HANSENS!!! (referring to "Chris Hansen" a word my friends and I have used todescribe girls that are under 18 or look under 18 even though they might be of age). I've gotten fed up with it. I'm not a club goin type dude, I meanonce in a while is fine (which is like once a month) but I prefer going to a hookah lounge or starbucks and socializing, you know the sophisticated sort. I goout 21+ of course but clubs are just good for dancing and bringing girls home to %$%# nothing more. I'm talking on a daily basis, going to the grocerystore, mall, public library etc. etc...I get approached by these frickin girls that are attracted to those "I'm a jerk" type ninjas and that iscompletely opposite of me. I mean that's not all I attract, there was the 30 year old MILF (whom I smashed) and plenty of females in their mid-late20's but maaaaannnn
. Sadly
this has forced me into changing my dressing patterns
.I mean I already have the clothes I need but I don't want to wear them, it's more of a once in a while thing. Heres some visuals (which I know NTloves)
I'm going from this:
To This:
no hat/ or simple Baseball fitted-can't be too flashy, also hats = young to a lot women
unless it's that Common, Neo type s__t and I'm not f___n withthat
w/
or
I mean don't get me wrong the 2nd style isn't bad at all, I just don't want to dress like this 65-80% of the time, but with the way things havebeen going looks like Ima have to
what are your thoughts? and has anybody been coerced into this situation? I guess I'm just getting oldcorrection: older! (I can't believe I just said that
)
Cliffnotes:
I feel my dressing style combined with the baby face ("when shaved", when I don't shave I look about 26 but its grimey
) are attracting too many teeny boppers
The clothes I've displayed are pretty much a summary of what the clothing I currently dress in are/ and own (I own both sets to clarify)
We've come to the conclusion its the setting/surroundings that is the key factor.
Can some NTer's suggest some venues to meet 23-28 year old women. I'm thinking Borders, Barnes and Noble, Coffee shops, Hookah lounge, Operas. You guysshould get my drift.
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I'm going from this:
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To This:
no hat/ or simple Baseball fitted-can't be too flashy, also hats = young to a lot women
![eyes.gif](/proxy.php?image=http%3A%2F%2Fstatic.yuku.com%2F%2Fdomainskins%2Fbypass%2Fimg%2Fsmileys%2Feyes.gif&hash=72796b6e85047374d4d5d81950268a69)
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![hanest-shirt-plainwhite_1_109191_white_l.jpg](/proxy.php?image=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.8ball.co.uk%2Ftshirts%2Fhanest-shirt-plainwhite_1_109191_white_l.jpg&hash=252d54c0d38a514906b62ef3751dcb5f)
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I mean don't get me wrong the 2nd style isn't bad at all, I just don't want to dress like this 65-80% of the time, but with the way things havebeen going looks like Ima have to
![ohwell.gif](/proxy.php?image=http%3A%2F%2Fstatic.yuku.com%2F%2Fdomainskins%2Fbypass%2Fimg%2Fsmileys%2Fohwell.gif&hash=94e13f709d1ca243bb4b455499aeb201)
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what are your thoughts? and has anybody been coerced into this situation? I guess I'm just getting oldcorrection: older! (I can't believe I just said that
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Cliffnotes:
I feel my dressing style combined with the baby face ("when shaved", when I don't shave I look about 26 but its grimey
![ohwell.gif](/proxy.php?image=http%3A%2F%2Fstatic.yuku.com%2F%2Fdomainskins%2Fbypass%2Fimg%2Fsmileys%2Fohwell.gif&hash=94e13f709d1ca243bb4b455499aeb201)
The clothes I've displayed are pretty much a summary of what the clothing I currently dress in are/ and own (I own both sets to clarify)
We've come to the conclusion its the setting/surroundings that is the key factor.
Can some NTer's suggest some venues to meet 23-28 year old women. I'm thinking Borders, Barnes and Noble, Coffee shops, Hookah lounge, Operas. You guysshould get my drift.