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BRUH, you just killed me^ maybe the no connection is the connection....
You have to look deeper at the situation then oh me and my father don't speak a lot
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BRUH, you just killed me^ maybe the no connection is the connection....
You have to look deeper at the situation then oh me and my father don't speak a lot
NT funny
I'm almost 30 and still don't want kids
This might be the dumbest post I've seen on here in awhile.As I mentioned earlier, you dudes over complicate things.
Kids need time, money, effort, and patience. All of those things are inconveniences. You can sugar coat it if you want, but children are an inconveince. That is not saying they can't bring you joy or they aren't an investment, but their existence alone is an inconvenience.
For anyone to NOT understand why a human doesn't want to be inconvenienced is lacking common sense.
I am not supporting it at all, I am just offering a reason why people don't man up to be a father.
Really simple math.
If she's determined to tell her husband it's his and doesn't want me around then yeah he can raise it. Hopefully he'll do a good job.So let me ask y'all a question right..
This is a scenario I recently heard of from someone but I want your opinion: Say you have sex with a married woman and she gets pregnant. Between you two there was no real relationship; just sex. She decides to keep it, but tells her husband that it's his. Would you(the dude outside the marriage) be in the wrong for letting another man raise the child and bouncing saying it has nothing to do with you?
This would be hilarious cuz in my scenario she's a white girlSo let me ask y'all a question right..
This is a scenario I recently heard of from someone but I want your opinion: Say you have sex with a married woman and she gets pregnant. Between you two there was no real relationship; just sex. She decides to keep it, but tells her husband that it's his. Would you(the dude outside the marriage) be in the wrong for letting another man raise the child and bouncing saying it has nothing to do with you?
your already in the wrong, so does it matter if your wallowing in your wronggedness?So let me ask y'all a question right..
This is a scenario I recently heard of from someone but I want your opinion: Say you have sex with a married woman and she gets pregnant. Between you two there was no real relationship; just sex. She decides to keep it, but tells her husband that it's his. Would you(the dude outside the marriage) be in the wrong for letting another man raise the child and bouncing saying it has nothing to do with you?
I wouldn't let the next dude raise my child.
However, given this scenario and to answer the question, yes I'd be all the way in the wrong to let the next man raise my child and just bouncing like it's nothing.
It'd be a different matter if ol girl didn't tell me she was preggo with my kid.
your already in the wrong, so does it matter if your wallowing in your wronggedness?
She was a middle aged white woman in my scenarioQuote:This would be hilarious cuz in my scenario she's a white girlSo let me ask y'all a question right..
This is a scenario I recently heard of from someone but I want your opinion: Say you have sex with a married woman and she gets pregnant. Between you two there was no real relationship; just sex. She decides to keep it, but tells her husband that it's his. Would you(the dude outside the marriage) be in the wrong for letting another man raise the child and bouncing saying it has nothing to do with you?
I wouldn't let the next dude raise my child.
However, given this scenario and to answer the question, yes I'd be all the way in the wrong to let the next man raise my child and just bouncing like it's nothing.
It'd be a different matter if ol girl didn't tell me she was preggo with my kid.
OP, I agree. This is exactly why I won't have children till' 39 the earliest. I may not even have children. Once you have children, they'll be the focus of your life. I don't know if I am ready to give another life 100% of my attention and not mine when I don't even have a career yet and not a multi millionaire/thousandaire yet.
Its your life Dip not going to tell you how to live it but.
I'd advice against waiting that long to have kids.
With the rising cost of living more 20 year olds are living with their family to offset the costs of college.
A lot of grads even go back to their fam so they can start stacking and knocking down them loans instead of trying to pay rent and feed themselves.
I too wanted to wait but having kids in my 20s I realize now that if they were to need my help in their 20s I would still be able to help seeing as I'll be in my 40s/50s.
You wait until your almost 40 you'll be in retirement age by the time they're college aged. Bad idea unless you got long money fam.
Maybe I'm seeing things in a loving dad perspective, I apologize on my behalf for calling your post stupid, I guess it just depends on how you view things.What exactly is the dumb part?
Help me understand
It's not really how you view things so to speak.Maybe I'm seeing things in a loving dad perspective, I apologize on my behalf for calling your post stupid, I guess it just depends on how you view things.What exactly is the dumb part?
Help me understand
It's the exact opposite for me. I grew up having to take care of someone else and I still do take care of her.It's not really how you view things so to speak.Maybe I'm seeing things in a loving dad perspective, I apologize on my behalf for calling your post stupid, I guess it just depends on how you view things.What exactly is the dumb part?
Help me understand
It's just a common sense approach. I'd say almost everybody at some point growing up didn't have to worry about taking care of someone else. If you can recall that feeling, you can have an understanding of why a person who is still immature would want to continue living that way even when they have responsibilities. You don't have to like it or agree but I mean you can sort of look at it as a sort of child's view on things if that helps.
Right. It is very mature of someone to KNOW they don't feel like being bothered with kids and not getting someone pregnant and putting themselves in that unwanted situation.That's a bit condescending. You don't have to be immature to not want the responsibilities that come with having children.
Right. It is very mature of someone to KNOW they don't feel like being bothered with kids and not getting someone pregnant and putting themselves in that unwanted situation.That's a bit condescending. You don't have to be immature to not want the responsibilities that come with having children.
I don't want kids. Well right now I don't. I want to enjoy my life without having to worry about anyone else.
You can be a loving father and be real with yourself man. The definition of CHILD is inconvenience. Calling them that doesn't mean you can't love them as well. But that is what they are man. You know it. I know it. Your wife knows it. It is what it is man. No need to sugar coat it.Maybe I'm seeing things in a loving dad perspective, I apologize on my behalf for calling your post stupid, I guess it just depends on how you view things.