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If youre confident, theres no such thing as not having game... You arent being honest with yourself. You may be confident in general but get insecure about getting blown off by a girl in a public situation.
If so, drop it. Stop thinking about all that and just go for it. Worst case, the nameless random girl at the gym (one of many, I assure you) will stay the nameless random girl. Best case, youll get a number and see where it goes. If you detach yourself from the self conscious part of your thought process thats making you irrationally fear what might go wrong, youll realize you have nothing to lose. Approach her with the same personality and confidence you exude when youre doing anything else youd normally do - ball, working out, anything, its no different.
If so, drop it. Stop thinking about all that and just go for it. Worst case, the nameless random girl at the gym (one of many, I assure you) will stay the nameless random girl. Best case, youll get a number and see where it goes. If you detach yourself from the self conscious part of your thought process thats making you irrationally fear what might go wrong, youll realize you have nothing to lose. Approach her with the same personality and confidence you exude when youre doing anything else youd normally do - ball, working out, anything, its no different.