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Originally Posted by throwback1718
I am taking all of your opinions.
I understand where both the people who say don't abort and step up to the plate are coming from and I understand where everyone else is coming from.
I really never thought of it as being selfish.
I was so busy thinking of her JUST starting a new job at the beginning of the week, something I'm happy about, I didn't want her to jepordize the job, and she was also in progress to start school... She's always told me from even before this situation that she's not going to work after she has a baby, atleast for a while, because she doesn't want to leave the baby with a sitter or anyone other than family.
That in itself made me feel the pressure automatically.
I WILL admit, I'm not mature enough to have and deal with a seed.
I know an abortion is something that she has to go through herself and its not easy.
I just personally feel that if she REALLY, REALLY didn't want an abortion, why say, anything other than that? Why go on saying (what seemed sincere) "I wouldnt force the baby on you if you arent ready."
If she was going to flip out when I walked through the door she opened?
Why not from the jump say "yo im going to keep it, no ifs ands or buts about it" she KNOWS that I would have manned up to it and did my duty and NOT force her to do anything she didn't want to.
My girl took me through the same hoops dude. I have no explanation for it other than that this is just a situation she never expected to be in and there areabout a billion thoughts going through her head and she wanted to include you in whatever decision is about to be made. If you go through it though, in myexperience, is that you definately change day by day you know. But the emotional roller coaster doesn't stop anytime soon...for the next 9 months.