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ok im going to try to make this as short as possible because I know some of you lazy dudes dont like to read.
Ok new years eve my girl started feeling really sick getting unbearable cramps and stomach pains, we kind of figured it was pregnancy pains because she missedher Period. A few days ago she asked me what I wanted to do if she was, I said I don't know I'm not ready for a baby, I'm barely ready to even takecare of myself
she says
"if you don't want to keep it i'll get an abortion I don't want to force a baby on you"
I don't know if she really meant it at the time. But I said okay
Yesterday she said "IF I am, I'm gonna keep it"
so today I finally get the home pregnancy test. I kind of figured she was prego anyway.
the test comes up as positive. I get back home. and she hits me up on aim. and sends me an email of some "I am pregnant " website, it showed apicture of a embryo that would be 2 months old. (which is approx how far along she is)
The whole time she has been asking me, what do I want to do I have been saying I dont know, because I really can't process the thought of trying to takecare of a baby at 21 years old. I don't want to fight to keep clothes on my child's back. and taking care of her and myself
So she asks me, on AIM
her "did you see the pictures?"
me "yeah, wow thats crazy"
her "yeah after seeing that its hard to imagine the procedure you have to go through to get rid of it"
her "sooo... what's the verdict?"
me "A-word?"
her "wow, still? goodbye"
so we speak on the phone after arguing and yelling, she say's she didnt expect this from me, and I'm the last person that she thought would have saidthat. This means that we're over. and that i'm worse than some dead beat cat that lives down the block. and any REAL dude would have detested it, but Ididn't.
My question is am I really such a bad dude for not wanting to have a baby yet? Because I really dont believe so.
But whats you dudes take on this?
Ok new years eve my girl started feeling really sick getting unbearable cramps and stomach pains, we kind of figured it was pregnancy pains because she missedher Period. A few days ago she asked me what I wanted to do if she was, I said I don't know I'm not ready for a baby, I'm barely ready to even takecare of myself
she says
"if you don't want to keep it i'll get an abortion I don't want to force a baby on you"
I don't know if she really meant it at the time. But I said okay
Yesterday she said "IF I am, I'm gonna keep it"
so today I finally get the home pregnancy test. I kind of figured she was prego anyway.
the test comes up as positive. I get back home. and she hits me up on aim. and sends me an email of some "I am pregnant " website, it showed apicture of a embryo that would be 2 months old. (which is approx how far along she is)
The whole time she has been asking me, what do I want to do I have been saying I dont know, because I really can't process the thought of trying to takecare of a baby at 21 years old. I don't want to fight to keep clothes on my child's back. and taking care of her and myself
So she asks me, on AIM
her "did you see the pictures?"
me "yeah, wow thats crazy"
her "yeah after seeing that its hard to imagine the procedure you have to go through to get rid of it"
her "sooo... what's the verdict?"
me "A-word?"
her "wow, still? goodbye"
so we speak on the phone after arguing and yelling, she say's she didnt expect this from me, and I'm the last person that she thought would have saidthat. This means that we're over. and that i'm worse than some dead beat cat that lives down the block. and any REAL dude would have detested it, but Ididn't.
My question is am I really such a bad dude for not wanting to have a baby yet? Because I really dont believe so.
But whats you dudes take on this?