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It's not even about smashing. I feel like I can smash whomever I put effort towards but like...I'm not just looking to smash. At this point in my life, it gets repetitive and if it doesn't have any meaning to it whatsoever, it's actually boring to me...for the most past.
So like...I can be talking to someone with looks and brains and all that but my mindset to get past the friend zone has been completely shut off. I'm to the point where I have no idea how to go into boyfriend or potential boyfriend mode...so much so that I frustrate whomever I'm talking to and they eventually decide to move on elsewhere to the next thirsty dude.
I think I've inadvertently been shut off due to my efforts going unappreciated in the past. At this point, I'm pretty nonchalant about any kind of relations...no matter how bad the chick is. I'm buggin'.
Help?
So like...I can be talking to someone with looks and brains and all that but my mindset to get past the friend zone has been completely shut off. I'm to the point where I have no idea how to go into boyfriend or potential boyfriend mode...so much so that I frustrate whomever I'm talking to and they eventually decide to move on elsewhere to the next thirsty dude.
I think I've inadvertently been shut off due to my efforts going unappreciated in the past. At this point, I'm pretty nonchalant about any kind of relations...no matter how bad the chick is. I'm buggin'.
Help?