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Exactly.stealth humblebrag thread remains in the shadows
Dude is coming through with these inverse bro-problems.
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Exactly.stealth humblebrag thread remains in the shadows
that is not imaginative.am i the only one who thought of a scenario where chick was on a break with her bf and pissed off....
thought she found something new and exciting
got hit up by her bf. deletes all evidence of the past 2 weeks, and try to rekindle that??
im imaginative i guess.
Are you black OP?
You're out of your mind if you're thinking about giving her a hand written letter.
She already thinks you're creeper status because you came on too strong... if you do that she's going to upgrade you to stalker status.
You're smittened that's all... it's happened to me before. Meet someone you connect with more than on a physical level, but that other person's mindframe isn't in the same place as yours is currently... as in you want a relationship and she doesn't.
I think you should keep it moving seeing as she passed you twice already and haven't said anything to you... and she deleted you from FaceBook took... learn to take a hint man... she doesn't want anything to do with you... if she did she wouldn't have ignored you and deleted you from FaceBook. She would be showing interest too if she wanted to have something to do with you.
Hand written letter |I out of your damn mind bro... hand written letter is for **** like your serious girlfriend when you messed up and you're trying to win her back if she was a good decent chick and you want to waste it on some chick you met at bar and boinked on the same night you live and you learn Snake... that's all I can tell you and I hope you take my advice over everyone else's in this thread.
Now...
If you absolutely like this girl a lot like that and want something more seriously then give it some time and then try to strike something back up, but don't be like how you were the first time.
If you see her out and about on campus approach her on some hanging up and hooking back up, but not no relationship steez until she's ready to go to that next level.
Just give it some time before you try to strike something back up though... even a text asking if she wants to hang out and have some drinks and if she accepts don't question her actions about why she cut you off talk about school or other things that might peek her interest... do not linger on the past and what happened just accept it and go from there... don't even mention the fall out... only think you should mention from the past between the two of you is the great sex you guys had after you two are liquored up real good. Then you make yourself less needy and make her be all strung out for you like you are for her now.
But... if she continues to ignore you or doesn't accept your invitation next time then keep it moving from there on out.
You in Grad School man... you should know better.
OP, seriously. Run us through how you scoped her. This is just too funny to me.
You have the one problem everyone else can handle.
Lets learn from each other.
Help me...help you...
Personally, I play the background and keep to myself and it works for me.
This is actually LMR and ASD.. Last minute resistance (even though in your case she didn't resist) and anti-slot defense (That whole I never did this before thing). Things are just as she said, she's a freshman looking to have fun and not lay roots.
If you want an actual plan of action. When you see her say hi/what's up/hey whatever, keep it short, keep it simple. Then a month from now when the holidays are rolling around hit her up on some I was clearing out some of the numbers from my phone steez. That's when you lay the bait to see if she's still interested ... Don't talk about the things you have in common, hell act like you barely remember her. Then call upon whatever game you have to smash. No dates, no hanging out and catching up. Just smashing ..... I'm talking about inviting her to some campus party type of thing.
Also you gotta keep in mind that their is a chance that she has a bf and that's why she shut things down completely
that is not imaginative.
That's what happened.
Despite what folks think, woman stay cuddled up with at least one D...
but on the contrary, woman for the most part aren't giving up yambs to random guys Without reason.
Think about it.is your game really That tight to where you do this on the regular ? You gotta analyze yourself and be honest.
She needed some passive aggressive revenge sex that will make her feel like she's winning when she goes back to her dude.
And she probably threw some awesome yambs cuz we all emotional yambs >>>
You were a pawn famb. It happens to the best of us. Luckily - we are here to let you know the deal.
The best thing you van do is delete everything and I mean EVERYTHING..
OP Where you at in NC? near the boro? I'm down to handle her creeper friend
no worries, famb...
.... ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS let the woman show her emotions before you do... ALWAYS.
stealth humblebrag thread remains in the shadows
he trollin b.Grabbed lunch with a one night stand? Where they do that at?? You creeped her out, PERIOD. Homeboy trying to wine n dine a bopOl cuddle battle boy
he trollin b.
NOBODY smash a chick twice basically the same day they meet her and then take em on a date. OP probably just got her math and started blowing her line up
I believe him, I have friends that have done similar **** and then wonder why the bop goes ghost. Acting desperate, creepy and/or clingy. Slow you roll, keep it cool. Stop taking college bops to Applebees and stop gossiping with girls all day like you their BFF. You'll get your swag back, takes a bit of trial and error after a long relationship.
easy solutions...This is what I need to work on, that is my witness. When I find the one I like that is my demise. I can't just play it cool. I always insist on hitting them up. But for the JO I have no problem ignoring them and putting them in their place.
How do you guys deal with not hitting them back up and waiting the whole 2 days business? I always try to go against conventional wisdom when is the girl I like. I always think it won't happen to me and time and time again it does. I've only had 2 girlfriends and I did it to both of them. I was just good enough to fix the situation and letting them see the light. I think it will happen with this girl too but now I must stay strong and not hit her up for a while.
Grabbed lunch with a one night stand? Where they do that at?? You creeped her out, PERIOD. Homeboy trying to wine n dine a bop Ol cuddle battle boy.
There's ALWAYS another guy in the picture. Pipe her proper and stop blowing up these chicks' phones like a needy herb and you'll be the go-to. Like Drake says, "She could have a Grammy, I still treat her *** like a nominee" Don't sweat these chicks and it makes them go bonkers.i just think there is another guy in the picture
but she gave up the box twice the first night...How is that not a girl problem bro? lol
See thats the thing man, I have gotten with plenty of jump offs that I know from day one I could never see my self with them. But this girl is different man, really smart, great family that all went to college not your typical JO. And like I said earlier she was just blown away by how charming and a gentleman I was.
easy solutions...
1. find something to do... your idle time is spent thinking about her.. you gotta get into something when you're bored. You're in grad school? read over some notes, or get on the COD...
2. stop being a slave to your phone... one night, just leave it in the car... ALL night... get back to it in the morning. you have to tune out the world sometimes.
3. delete / dont save the number... you start saving numbers and scrolling past the name will give you ideas.... w/ the JOs, keep them as that ten digit line so they wont have as much value. this may seem immature and petty, but this is a psychological game you have to play on yourself, famb...
4. understand the power of not saying anything.... silence will wear someone out emotionally. the weakest person in the room is the loudest. keep it cool, and dont worry about her cuz when she's not worrying about you. if she did, she'd hit you. plain and simple.
but she gave up the box twice the first night...
Keep it moving.
See this is what conventional wisdom tells me to do. But after being around many girls in school I feel as if this one is different.
You smashed on the first night but you think this one is different, how so, I'd like to know.......?
ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS let the woman show her emotions before you do... ALWAYS
all of this is wrong.half of yall nt'ers are extra corny.
Let boy do him.
If he's feeling the chick, then go ahead and hang out the next day from smashing.
If you feel like calling after bagging the digits, ******gc all the next day not 3 days in advance, do you.
Why do people have to play a game and not be themselves to impress others.
Personally I think dude is far from clingy, he was just feeling a chick, who gave him the give and go.... and that **** is gone. It happens.
You wouldn't.yea, you would know.
I have no reason to troll. I have been a member here since 07 with thousands of post that got erased with the move to the new board. I don't post much here since being in Grad school does not give me a lot of free time specially the program I am in. Check my track record here never once have I trolld. We didn't go on a date that Sunday morning we casually got some food. I also did not blow up her phone I know the do's and don't, I just talked to her too much and took the mystery out of me.
We broke up 3 months ago but then we were on and off for 2 months after that, and just this last month is where I have been going P crazy and just slaying girls left and right.
half of yall nt'ers are extra corny. :x
Let boy do him.
If he's feeling the chick, then go ahead and hang out the next day from smashing.
If you feel like calling after bagging the digits, ******gc all the next day not 3 days in advance, do you.
Why do people have to play a game and not be themselves to impress others.
Personally I think dude is far from clingy, he was just feeling a chick, who gave him the give and go.... and that **** is gone. It happens.
all of this is wrong.
if you wanna bag broads you gotta appeal to them. and thirsty/desperate is NOT the look b.
if you really wanna impress a chick. invite one of the baddest **** you know to come over. and then without her knowing invite her over at the same damn time. and be like. "oh this just my friend monica..she cool peoples" your value goes thru the roof! trust me
geez who's that in your avy?
You're out of your mind if you're thinking about giving her a hand written letter.
She already thinks you're creeper status because you came on too strong... if you do that she's going to upgrade you to stalker status.
You're smittened that's all... it's happened to me before. Meet someone you connect with more than on a physical level, but that other person's mindframe isn't in the same place as yours is currently... as in you want a relationship and she doesn't.
I think you should keep it moving seeing as she passed you twice already and haven't said anything to you... and she deleted you from FaceBook took... learn to take a hint man... she doesn't want anything to do with you... if she did she wouldn't have ignored you and deleted you from FaceBook. She would be showing interest too if she wanted to have something to do with you.
Hand written letter |I out of your damn mind bro... hand written letter is for **** like your serious girlfriend when you messed up and you're trying to win her back if she was a good decent chick and you want to waste it on some chick you met at bar and boinked on the same night you live and you learn Snake... that's all I can tell you and I hope you take my advice over everyone else's in this thread.
Now...
If you absolutely like this girl a lot like that and want something more seriously then give it some time and then try to strike something back up, but don't be like how you were the first time.
If you see her out and about on campus approach her on some hanging up and hooking back up, but not no relationship steez until she's ready to go to that next level.
Just give it some time before you try to strike something back up though... even a text asking if she wants to hang out and have some drinks and if she accepts don't question her actions about why she cut you off talk about school or other things that might peek her interest... do not linger on the past and what happened just accept it and go from there... don't even mention the fall out... only think you should mention from the past between the two of you is the great sex you guys had after you two are liquored up real good. Then you make yourself less needy and make her be all strung out for you like you are for her now.
But... if she continues to ignore you or doesn't accept your invitation next time then keep it moving from there on out.
You in Grad School man... you should know better.