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Originally Posted by RAWse
Most girls are too insecure to text you first..
THIS, even though i know shes down, im still doing it
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Originally Posted by RAWse
Most girls are too insecure to text you first..
To add to this... If you give her your number, make it easy for her to call you. Give her an excuse or whatever. That way she won't be stressed about it.Originally Posted by toast1985
Originally Posted by whywesteppin
It's an easier way to do things but has 1 major drawback: you don't get the girls you want... you get the girls who want you.
Word. But I can expound on this.
...I honestly hate to feel like I'm always dropping game on here, but I'm only speaking from experience. I met really bad female a few months back, due to extenuating circumstances, I'd figure I'll give her my digits, and if she calls, than it was meant for us to hit it off. She hit me up, and surely the ball was in my court because she called.
...From a guy's perspective, if you're going to expect her to hit you up first, you have to leave something for her to look forward to. It's almost as if there is an insatiable desire she has to have to get to know something about you. Its all based on first interaction, which can be tricky if you meet in a club, or something to the effect....Because you have to stand out more so than anyone else.
...Its a high risk, high reward maneuver.
To add to this... If you give her your number, make it easy for her to call you. Give her an excuse or whatever. That way she won't be stressed about it.Originally Posted by toast1985
Originally Posted by whywesteppin
It's an easier way to do things but has 1 major drawback: you don't get the girls you want... you get the girls who want you.
Word. But I can expound on this.
...I honestly hate to feel like I'm always dropping game on here, but I'm only speaking from experience. I met really bad female a few months back, due to extenuating circumstances, I'd figure I'll give her my digits, and if she calls, than it was meant for us to hit it off. She hit me up, and surely the ball was in my court because she called.
...From a guy's perspective, if you're going to expect her to hit you up first, you have to leave something for her to look forward to. It's almost as if there is an insatiable desire she has to have to get to know something about you. Its all based on first interaction, which can be tricky if you meet in a club, or something to the effect....Because you have to stand out more so than anyone else.
...Its a high risk, high reward maneuver.
Originally Posted by smoke ya later
I texted a girl in the summer first all the time, took the L... fast forward to November, same girl now texts me first.. so basically ignore them and they want you?
Originally Posted by smoke ya later
I texted a girl in the summer first all the time, took the L... fast forward to November, same girl now texts me first.. so basically ignore them and they want you?
agreedOriginally Posted by al3x89
Originally Posted by smoke ya later
I texted a girl in the summer first all the time, took the L... fast forward to November, same girl now texts me first.. so basically ignore them and they want you?
not guaranteed. all you're doing is playing hard to get. if you want her to want you, just delay those responses by a few hours. it might work, might not.
in the summer you prob seemed too needy/desperate by always texting
agreedOriginally Posted by al3x89
Originally Posted by smoke ya later
I texted a girl in the summer first all the time, took the L... fast forward to November, same girl now texts me first.. so basically ignore them and they want you?
not guaranteed. all you're doing is playing hard to get. if you want her to want you, just delay those responses by a few hours. it might work, might not.
in the summer you prob seemed too needy/desperate by always texting
sadly, most females fall for the "hard to get" crap.Originally Posted by smoke ya later
agreedOriginally Posted by al3x89
Originally Posted by smoke ya later
I texted a girl in the summer first all the time, took the L... fast forward to November, same girl now texts me first.. so basically ignore them and they want you?
not guaranteed. all you're doing is playing hard to get. if you want her to want you, just delay those responses by a few hours. it might work, might not.
in the summer you prob seemed too needy/desperate by always texting
sadly, most females fall for the "hard to get" crap.Originally Posted by smoke ya later
agreedOriginally Posted by al3x89
Originally Posted by smoke ya later
I texted a girl in the summer first all the time, took the L... fast forward to November, same girl now texts me first.. so basically ignore them and they want you?
not guaranteed. all you're doing is playing hard to get. if you want her to want you, just delay those responses by a few hours. it might work, might not.
in the summer you prob seemed too needy/desperate by always texting
Originally Posted by bjm5295
all the time. i usually lose.
i'm really bi-polar on the subject. one day ill be like "+%%$ if i want her i gotta make it happen" then the next its like "this +!#** better start putting in some effort or its not worth the time."
Originally Posted by bjm5295
all the time. i usually lose.
i'm really bi-polar on the subject. one day ill be like "+%%$ if i want her i gotta make it happen" then the next its like "this +!#** better start putting in some effort or its not worth the time."