How do you TELL your girlfriend she's not your #1 priority? UPDATE: Broken Up

[superb]

Without essentially ending the relationship, I mean. Idk, this girl is always whining about something, but still wants to be with me. For example:

"I never feel taken care of like I try not to compare relationships but [insert ex bfs name] paid my phone bill on top of his own bills n if he didn't have anything he always made sure I was ok I never had to go out of pocket he'd rather not have anything as long as I had something
I took a risk with you and I want us to work"

Text she just sent me.

I don't know how many ways I can say I have bills of my own, and tuition, and class to study for, and work full time. I'm too young to be getting this stress from a woman.

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tell her to kick rocks, she thinks your a simp. If you want to get rid of her fast, tell her you will give her money if she let you and your boys run a train on her

If you have deep feelings for her better lose it, because she is using it against you..I never get my self in a relationship that I cant leave in 3 seconds flat

Wish a girl would tell me to pay her bills, truthfully I would go tell her to get on backpage and sell some yambs. you want me to lower my manhood and be a simp but not lower yours to get that $$. Please. girls are a trip these days

 

[luong1209]

, you still with her?

She keeps bringing up the ex, tell her to go back to him then. She cook and clean for you? Does she even work?



She seems to be the type where money impresses her. And money impresses lazy people.

 

[Chiron]

"But Kobe! I pay my own bills. How many bills can a n**** pay?!"
MORE BILLS!

 

[politicsasusual]

Basically what everyone else has said fam. Dead her before you get your feelings hurt, cuz she gonna get that phone bill paid one way or another.......................................

100% this, a relationship isn't worth how much you're willing to 'pay' in order to keep someone content.

 

[halftime]

The fact that she mentioned the ex and a "random" phone bill example is a clear cry for help from her saying "PAY MY BILLS".

You need to explain to her your current situation and the things you have to take care of.

Flip it on her.  Tell her that you're going through a lot, and that she should be there supporting you mentally and not asking you to pay bills for her.

You have enough on your plate as a college student.

Good luck.

 

[6 Rings G.O.A.T.]

Oh man.. It sound like she's talking crap..

 

[Teknoman]

OP. Ignore her comments and find new chick and keep smashing old chick in the mean time. She a straight fool.

 

[Chiron]

this is NT so I gotta do it...

Is she black?

 

[zapatohead408]

this is NT so I gotta do it...


Is she black?

p4l

 

[frraaannnn]

end that **** bruh lol whats the point if shes not youre number one priority? youre just wasting eachothers time and your money.,besidesd she sounds psycho

 

[6 Rings G.O.A.T.]

this is NT so I gotta do it...


Is she black?

p4l

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[PRIME]

Man, **** all that man. Dead that broad. She sounds like a dependent who can't provide for herself, so she needs a man who can give her the things she can't get on her own.

Bringing up her ex? Tell her to run back to his *** then. You got priorities and if she ain't willing to go in half with you, then she shouldn't be expecting anything from you at all.

She sounds like a spoiled brat who wants to sit at home and watch reality tv all day, then hit you up when she wants to go out.

I seen that **** too many times bruh. I got a homie who's girl doesn't want to move in with him because she doesn't have a job. He tells her to get a job, and she says "doing what? If its not dealing with my major then I'm just going to wait."

The ****? But she's all down his back about getting a place for them. That kinda **** pisses me off.

If she wants her phone bill paid, she needs to take her *** to work bruh. ****, I pay my girls phone bill but she still takes her *** to work, why? Cause she got other bills to pay.

You're in a relationship with a child bruh. You're not a baby sitter.

Sounds like her ex was a simp, and she's expecting consistency in you to carry that torch. Find you some new p_ famb.

 

[kspar]

Without essentially ending the relationship, I mean. Idk, this girl is always whining about something, but still wants to be with me. For example:

"I never feel taken care of like I try not to compare relationships but [insert ex bfs name] paid my phone bill on top of his own bills n if he didn't have anything he always made sure I was ok I never had to go out of pocket he'd rather not have anything as long as I had something
I took a risk with you and I want us to work"

bruh just tell her what you told us. you have your own things to worry about. she should pay for her own things.

 

[stickflair]

Gotta tell her to kick rocks, b.  Two years is a long time to be in a relationship, but anymore time with that broad and you'll be broke, heartbroken, and miserable.  

 

[jaypiff]

I had an ex with that princess mentality too OP you need to drop her ASAP. Or things will not end well...

 

[frshstunna]

sounds like she one of them chicks who always want/need something..its only gonna get worse so drop shorty, get new stress free yambs

 

[Final Bosa]

I hope you aren't considering it.. cause if you are, you already lost.

 

[superb]

 
The fact that she mentioned the ex and a "random" phone bill example is a clear cry for help from her saying "PAY MY BILLS".

You need to explain to her your current situation and the things you have to take care of.

Flip it on her.  Tell her that you're going through a lot, and that she should be there supporting you mentally and not asking you to pay bills for her.

You have enough on your plate as a college student.

Good luck.

Never explain yourself to a some chick. A man shoudl never explain himself or why/what he is doing to a chick expect

1. Long term relationship

2. Marriage

Anything outside of that i would never explain myself or my bills

 

[mycoldyourdone]

Ayo guys pay for their girls bills? In what world?

 

[frankl1001]

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[eiddyfouw]

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[jesusshuttlesworth34]

Without essentially ending the relationship, I mean. Idk, this girl is always whining about something, but still wants to be with me. For example:

"I never feel taken care of like I try not to compare relationships but [insert ex bfs name] paid my phone bill on top of his own bills n if he didn't have anything he always made sure I was ok I never had to go out of pocket he'd rather not have anything as long as I had something
I took a risk with you and I want us to work"

Text she just sent me.

I don't know how many ways I can say I have bills of my own, and tuition, and class to study for, and work full time. I'm too young to be getting this stress from a woman.

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Just reading that text...you are not making wise decisions if this is your lady.

Dead it.

Cancel that and focus on you being your own #1 top priority. Any sewer urchin who would fathom such a notion doesn't need a "man," they need a dose of reality and perspective.

 

[spiceman80]

youngins of NT, if you guys arent in a committed relationship {engaged, married, living together} please don't subject yourselves to that nonsense. It makse no sense to be that stressed for no reason.

With that said, even if you are in a committed relationship you don't need to be stressed. So if it isn't worth the fight then let it go.









P.S.
If her ex was so great why she not with him now? Think about that OP.
Whenever people talk my ex this my ex that you have to wonder why they aren't still with that person. He probably dropped her annoying *** like you should

 

[k town trash]

Yea this sounds she just trying to use you. How long were you guys together for? It's mad foul that she compared you to her ex. She would've been deaded on the spot.

 

[miniojw]

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Yup. I think it's time to tell her that her subscription is up and if she wants to renew. She will have to accept the new terms or the newly writing agreement..