How do you TELL your girlfriend she's not your #1 priority? UPDATE: Broken Up

Without essentially ending the relationship, I mean. Idk, this girl is always whining about something, but still wants to be with me. For example:

"I never feel taken care of like I try not to compare relationships but [insert ex bfs name] paid my phone bill on top of his own bills n if he didn't have anything he always made sure I was ok I never had to go out of pocket he'd rather not have anything as long as I had something
I took a risk with you and I want us to work"

Text she just sent me.

I don't know how many ways I can say I have bills of my own, and tuition, and class to study for, and work full time. I'm too young to be getting this stress from a woman.

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the **** DROP THAT USELESS *****
disrespectful as **** tell her go ask her ex then the **** i look like "took a risk" ***** please get the **** out my face :{
i aint paying for her bills unless we have a kid or if it was a 100% serious relationship wife material

man dont let her play you like a sucker nothing is wrong with paying her bills but if shes asking like that comparing you to her ex saying it was a risk and ****? hell no hell ******g no
red flag get out op if you dont you deserve to be used as a beta by her srs
 
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the **** DROP THAT USELESS *****
disrespectful as **** tell her go ask her ex then the **** i look like "took a risk" ***** please get the **** out my face :{
i aint paying for her bills unless we have a kid or if it was a 100% serious relationship wife material

man dont let her play you like a sucker nothing is wrong with paying her bills but if shes asking like that comparing you to her ex saying it was a risk and ****? hell no hell ******g no
red flag get out op if you dont you deserve to be used as a beta by her srs

ALL OF THIS OP. ***** got disrespectful. If you don't take this advice retire your username
 
The way she spoke like it's an obligation is a turn off and a foreshadowing of a negative future. She doesn't sound like any body's "one" till you walk away and teach her a valuable lesson. Maybe she'll learn on the next go round and show something so someone will actually want to take care of her out of love.
 
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Any woman looking for or ok with a handout deserves the fate the rest of my NT brethren have suggested...DEAD HER and do it like yesterday man.
 
Red flags all over the place...
It might hurt but it's time to walk away..
When a girl brings up an ex/another guy up in your presence one or two things is happening:
1) she is pushing your buttons to make you jealous or she is testing your limit
2) she is already talking to said"ex" or is talking to somebody else...
Save your sanity and either put your foot down or just walk away... If a woman can't do for self or she is not bringing anything to the table except for yambs, that relationship will not last....
 
DTB!!!

dump that b!tch

She doesn't respect you bro. Probably too late to earn it at this point.
Put it in the tail pipe, finish, roll over, then tell her "sé lavee, much respect girl, but I'm on wit da next girl".
 
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If anything just downgrade her from gf to yamb option b or c. Smash and treat her like an object. She'll probably like that and stick to you like glue if you do that though.
 
SMH this is a form of emotional abuse.
Why she talking about her exes.

"i took a chance on you"
Why she making you feel as if you aren't worthy of her

If you dont dump her, I am going to make meth ban you.



" he'd rather not have anything as long as I had something
I took a risk with you and I want us to work"



Ask her for the name and number of this duck boi, so he can pay for my whip.










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I can never have a man take care of me other than my father :{
 
She thinks her ***** has your mind gone and is looking at you with a BIG TRICK neon sign glowing above your head.

You're not doing a damn thing wrong by not sponsoring this chick OP. You need to make this a learning experience for her and play the **** out of her for even suggesting you go that route.

Long story short: she doesn't care about you homie. Might as well end it with a bang. Because otherwise she's gonna crush your heart. Def the type...
 
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Unanimous decision op. She's looking pretty undesirable right now coming out her mouth like that. The pain will go away over time. You won't even have to go far to find better than this ***, her immature *** set the bar low.
 
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OP, I stopped at the part where you said her ex paid her phone bill. I'd stop mid sentence and gladly tell her to take her punk *** back to him then. The nerve...
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...........I have a feeling OP was paying for stuff before but now he cant.


No way this type of girl stays with you for two years and she hasn't been hitting up your wallet.


Its always these insecure dudes thinking they have to buy a girlfriend. You don't have too.
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I need to lose my morals and stack some chips off these fools.
 
...........I have a feeling OP was paying for stuff before but now he cant.


No way this type of girl stays with you for two years and she hasn't been hitting up your wallet.


Its always these insecure dudes thinking they have to buy a girlfriend. You don't have too.
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I need to lose my morals and stack some chips off these fools.
I feel you are on the brink, don't do it! 
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Bruh honestly any woman who compares you to her ex directly to you and says things like "I took a chance with you" has already checked out and will just be going through the relationship motions with you until her backup is ready for her. She's faking the relationship with you right now for the sake of having you "there". Please get rid of this girl before she starts to completely stomp on your heart.
 
U obviously can't have this kind of behavior. Check that **** immediately

Simply flip it on her.

Explain to your situation to her & say that she should be supporting u instead of pulling this ****.

If she can't get with that, then yea, I'd dead her.

Edit: I just saw the "I took a risk with u" part. LMAO like you're below her or something. I'd dead her off that.
 
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