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[kingsin]

dropten had a dom/sub arrangement that was consensual, nothing wrong with that...I'm just laughing at the situation

Of all the wild stuff shorty was probably with, the Dexter murder Pr0nn scenario was the straw that broke the camels back... A real come to Jesus moment, like that was a lil too Dom for her

 

[DripNick]

B saw them Patrick Bateman 2.0 scenes and said to herself "maybe I'll stick to missionary from now on"

 

[DripNick]

"Matter of fact, let me go ahead and download Christian Mingle rq"

 

[Mark Antony]

Yeah she went right ahead and accepted her regular dudes proposal. She's out.

 

[DripNick]

She bout to have the widest flashbacks at the altar
Her loss when my mans flick gets critically acclaimed at Sundance

 

[willypete]

I ask all the time but enough is enough, which one of y’all did this!?

 

[WarriorInTheGarden]

I ask all the time but enough is enough, which one of y’all did this!?

I'm crying, mans looks like Snoop when he was kicking over buildings

 

[tay1]

In reality he gotta be like 5'6

 

[rare]

Give dropten his own dating show, NOW.

 

[willypete]

In reality he gotta be like 5'6

Mans feet didn’t touch the ground getting off the building so you know he had to jump to sit

 

[Mark Antony]

Give dropten his own dating show, NOW.

True Crime Network probably looking for new shows.

 

[ryda421]

She bout to have the widest flashbacks at the altar
Her loss when my mans flick gets critically acclaimed at Sundance

dropten really thought he was the next Wes Craven, ol' I know what you did last summer ahhh

 

[el presidente]

True Crime Network probably looking for new shows.

The show

 

[el presidente]

All jokes aside dropten let me provide a serious response.

Regardless of kinks, I think it's safe to say that whole video situation is absurdly unsettling. Countless incidents of sexual violence begin with "she was ok with x, so I did y". Very slippery slope. Perhaps you could speak to a professional to sort your thoughts and prevent any miscalculations in the future - I would hate for something bad to happen.

Ight sorry for bringing the energy down fellas. Y'all can proceed

 

[cragmatic]

I just want to say…

Girls who Stan Taylor Swift, are a red flag

My ex would be arguing with me and quoting Taylor Swift songs. In fact, the things she used to say to me early on before she showed me her real side, she would say things that were quoting Taylor Swift songs, like the concept of an “invisible string”

I didn’t know about any of these songs or sayings back then I was so naive about the hold T Swift has on these women.

Thank you for coming to my Ted talk.

 

[DripNick]

Was watching The Housemaid last night and couldn't stop thinking about bro (no Frank O).
What did you think about the movie dropten ?

 

[willypete]

All jokes aside dropten let me provide a serious response.

Regardless of kinks, I think it's safe to say that whole video situation is absurdly unsettling. Countless incidents of sexual violence begin with "she was ok with x, so I did y". Very slippery slope. Perhaps you could speak to a professional to sort your thoughts and prevent any miscalculations in the future - I would hate for something bad to happen.

Ight sorry for bringing the energy down fellas. Y'all can proceed

I was going to say something similar last night but lost track of time.

Appreciate you saying it though

 

[Belgium]

If I got sent a video like that, I’d stay far away
Pretty sure 99% of people would find that unsettling regardless of gender dynamics

 

[ryda421]

gentlemen of culture, we meet again

 

[cragmatic]

If I got sent a video like that, I’d stay far away
Pretty sure 99% of people would find that unsettling regardless of gender dynamics

I feel like this comment holds a lot of weight coming from you.

 

[ryda421]

If I got sent a video like that, I’d stay far away
Pretty sure 99% of people would find that unsettling regardless of gender dynamics

what if she asked to borrow your pearl earrings?

 

[tokes99]

y’all abiding by this request?

 

[fluid hips]

Never been cut off like this in my life and it’s been hard to function this whole week cause it’s all I can think about. Just frustrated and anxious over the whole thing.

Been arguing over the past few months over little things, all mostly involving around the same communication issues. She jumps to the wildest conclusions and I often leave things unclear allowing that.

Last week I went solo to Costa Rica, which she was mad cause I didn’t invite her. Last night I’m there she video called me and I didn’t pick up cause I was out with no WiFi. Last convo and we haven’t spoken since, despite me calling and texting her

Rule #1 don't ever let a woman put you off balance

Dudes gotta stop letting women think they're the puppet master pulling the strings

Also, dudes gotta stop explaining themselves to women. Keep that shhh short and brief. "oh. I didn't have WIFI" leave it at that

Going back and forth with women, people in general, is a waste of time. You gotta take control. Not them

Power dynamics

 

[smedroc]

Since August. Basically was together at least 5 days a week since we met

If arguing was a common occurence less then a year in you should be glad it's over with.

 

[Belgium]

I feel like this comment holds a lot of weight coming from you.

The creepiest I’ve had was being asked out to a play that turned out to revolve entirely around a sick necrophilia fantasy.
She had a Bachelors in psychology and was going for her Masters in clinical psychology so I didn’t really look into what the play was about. The title sounded like it was about romance so you know, what could go wrong.

I guess technically it was about romance but I didn’t exactly expect graphically detailed necrophilia.
I don’t know how this managed to sell out a venue.

When it ended, we ended up running into a guy who apparently goes to her class and actually (unsuccessfully) asked her out to this play
I guess maybe she would’ve picked something more normal if he didn’t give her the idea but needless to say that day was the last time I spoke to her

I think it’s a bit difficult/awkward to abandon your date in an unsettling/creepy irl scenario like that but if it’s over text you have a lot more leeway.