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I couldn't reply to these back to backs texts, that's just me though
That's like the women who call men "sassy"
"Kiddo' is a way for them to try and emasculate you on the sly and is crazy disrespectful.
 
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Long story short, the voice notes she would send me were sexy as hell. She had an amazingly sexy voice. I asked her permission to use one of her voice notes on a video project I'm working on and she consented. When I was done with it, I sent her the video of her voice note dubbed over the video and it was crickets.
I asked if it scared her she said "yes". Next message was "I don't think we should see each other anymore"

In hindsight, I think it was too soon sending her a video of a woman allegedly being killed by a man that looks like me with her voice dubbed over it 😅 I explained to her it was a drama series I'm working on and just used the voice note for testing purposes 🤷🏾‍♂️.

I'm kind of tight I didn't get a chance to dress up as M-Bison while holding a leash around her neck. She would of been down for it too 😔
 
I sent her the video of her voice note dubbed over the video and it was crickets.
I asked if it scared her she said "yes". Next message was "I don't think we should see each other anymore"

In hindsight, I think it was too soon sending her a video of a woman allegedly being killed by a man that looks like me with her voice dubbed over it
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Long story short, the voice notes she would send me were sexy as hell. She had an amazingly sexy voice. I asked her permission to use one of her voice notes on a video project I'm working on and she consented. When I was done with it, I sent her the video of her voice note dubbed over the video and it was crickets.
I asked if it scared her she said "yes". Next message was "I don't think we should see each other anymore"

In hindsight, I think it was too soon sending her a video of a woman allegedly being killed by a man that looks like me with her voice dubbed over it 😅 I explained to her it was a drama series I'm working on and just used the voice note for testing purposes 🤷🏾‍♂️.

I'm kind of tight I didn't get a chance to dress up as M-Bison while holding a leash around her neck. She would of been down for it too 😔
*reported*
 
Its realization from all the reflecting I’ve been doing recently lol. Guess a lesson I’ll have to take to the next one.

That’s true. There were things about I was hoping was different anyway.

Since August. Basically was together at least 5 days a week since we met
Breh 5 days a week is crazy. That’s marriage
 
Chill fellas. Why yall coming for my neck 😅
There's way more context to this. For one, the video was done way before I even met shorty, and is a project I'm working on that I've shared with many.

Me and her role played often which was a big part of our dynamic. Her voice note had her leaving subtle threats which gave me an idea for the project. AND as mentioned, she consented to using her voice note. As a movie buff and horror fan, I thought she would appreciate it for what it was and not take it personally. Her anxiety definitely got the best of her but for the sake of taking my own responsibility -- it was too soon.

but sending faux murder videos is more respectful and less defeminizing?
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Come on now bro, you reachin. Ain't no comparing the two! Since when was murder in a show or movie exclusive to women and the defeminization of women? 🤨
And in regard to respect, it would be disrespectful if I didn't ask permission or did it and she not consented.
 
Chill fellas. Why yall coming for my neck 😅
There's way more context to this. For one, the video was done way before I even met shorty, and is a project I'm working on that I've shared with many.

Me and her role played often which was a big part of our dynamic. Her voice note had her leaving subtle threats which gave me an idea for the project. AND as mentioned, she consented to using her voice note. As a movie buff and horror fan, I thought she would appreciate it for what it was and not take it personally. Her anxiety definitely got the best of her but for the sake of taking my own responsibility -- it was too soon.


Come on now bro, you reachin. Ain't no comparing the two! Since when was murder in a show or movie exclusive to women and the defeminization of women? 🤨
And in regard to respect, it would be disrespectful if I didn't ask permission or did it and she not consented.
Did you consent to her voice in an unspecified project? or did you tell her that it would be a project about her getting murdered? If you did not specify what it would be used for then that falls upon you.

I am not choosing sides lol I am just looking at it from both sides. she obviously has trauma and why it was too much for her. You honestly think you are the only one doing these things with her?

The point is you jumped the gun and lesson learned
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These girls choose these dating apps because they are damaged from previous relationships and they use the app as a screening process. i am sure she will carry that on for a while and you kind of ruined it for future suitors and this is the problem. men are able to rationalize trauma more than women in my opinion. therefore, you have further tainted that and most likely she will intensify her blockade.

I just don't understand this 'too soon' realization. when did you think it would be an appropriate time to send this faux murder video to her?
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Did you consent to her voice in an unspecified project? or did you tell her that it would be a project about her getting murdered? If you did not specify what it would be used for then that falls upon you.

I am not choosing sides lol I am just looking at it from both sides. she obviously has trauma and why it was too much for her. You honestly think you are the only one doing these things with her?

The point is you jumped the gun and lesson learned
:lol:

These girls choose these dating apps because they are damaged from previous relationships and they use the app as a screening process. i am sure she will carry that on for a while and you kind of ruined it for future suitors and this is the problem. men are able to rationalize trauma more than women in my opinion. therefore, you have further tainted that and most likely she will intensify her blockade.

I just don't understand this 'too soon' realization. when did you think it would be an appropriate time to send this faux murder video to her?
:lol:

never been in a circumstance where i’d have to prep a lady on a 🔪 murder 🔪 voiceover replete with eerie visuals so i can’t begin to know how one would articulate this such that it isn’t weird 😮‍💨😬 so i imagine most do agree w/your sentiment that more information = better…👀🤔 man made a (albeit wild) miscalculation based on their already freaked ahht dealings together, not sure how you jumped to rationalizing women’s dating app usage & ability to deal w/trauma 😵‍💫🤣 from that 🤷🏿‍♂️
 
Did you consent to her voice in an unspecified project? or did you tell her that it would be a project about her getting murdered? If you did not specify what it would be used for then that falls upon you.

I am not choosing sides lol I am just looking at it from both sides. she obviously has trauma and why it was too much for her. You honestly think you are the only one doing these things with her?

The point is you jumped the gun and lesson learned
:lol:

These girls choose these dating apps because they are damaged from previous relationships and they use the app as a screening process. i am sure she will carry that on for a while and you kind of ruined it for future suitors and this is the problem. men are able to rationalize trauma more than women in my opinion. therefore, you have further tainted that and most likely she will intensify her blockade.

I just don't understand this 'too soon' realization. when did you think it would be an appropriate time to send this faux murder video to her?
:lol:
The project is not of her getting murdered. Where are you getting this from? I even mentioned I did it way before me and her met.
I just don't understand this 'too soon' realization
The point is you jumped the gun and lesson learned
You answered your own concern!

But to answer myself, "too soon" referse to waiting until a certain level of trust and understanding is established. As two individuals getting to know one another, a person's intentions can be misinterpreted.

And you wild for diagnosing people with trauma, like every person that likes kinky **** has some deep trauma they're dealing with. Big no no in the kink community bro.
 
never been in a circumstance where i’d have to prep a lady on a 🔪 murder 🔪 voiceover replete with eerie visuals so i can’t begin to know how one would articulate this such that it isn’t weird 😮‍💨😬 so i imagine most do agree w/your sentiment that more information = better…👀🤔 man made a (albeit wild) miscalculation based on their already freaked ahht dealings together, not sure how you jumped to rationalizing women’s dating app usage & ability to deal w/trauma 😵‍💫🤣 from that 🤷🏿‍♂️
Definitely a miscalculation bro.
 
Chill fellas. Why yall coming for my neck 😅
There's way more context to this. For one, the video was done way before I even met shorty, and is a project I'm working on that I've shared with many.

Me and her role played often which was a big part of our dynamic. Her voice note had her leaving subtle threats which gave me an idea for the project. AND as mentioned, she consented to using her voice note. As a movie buff and horror fan, I thought she would appreciate it for what it was and not take it personally. Her anxiety definitely got the best of her but for the sake of taking my own responsibility -- it was too soon.


Come on now bro, you reachin. Ain't no comparing the two! Since when was murder in a show or movie exclusive to women and the defeminization of women? 🤨
And in regard to respect, it would be disrespectful if I didn't ask permission or did it and she not consented.
Y'all weirdos just stay doing too much 😂 ain't enough context in the world
 
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