Hinge Takeover >>> Tinder, Bumble Pof

[rare]

Idk whats good with 2025 but this the third female that’s bi/(one WAS a lesbian) that’s told me im the first man in a hot minute they been with The lesbian actually told me about this whole thing within the community how they secretly still want the D but it’s not just any D. Whole lotta yadda yadda that I didn’t pay much mind to. Crazy times this year.

 

[ogbobbyjohnson773]

this dude is too funny
we're watching his descent into madness in real-time, dealing with dating apps



got his first match:




and ghosted right away:




the thumbnails

 

[frshstunna]

I think some dudes forgot that not everybody supposed to get women that easy, you either got it or you don’t and apps won’t help you…just cuz you swipe on a baddie or like her pic don’t mean you got a chance or she supposed to entertain you

If you ugly like yo, gotta put in that work and have patience

 

[tokes99]

I think some dudes forgot that not everybody supposed to get women that easy, you either got it or you don’t and apps won’t help you…just cuz you swipe on a baddie or like her pic don’t mean mean you got a chance or she supposed to entertain you

If you ugly like yo, gotta put in that work and have patience

the whole game is out on front street now, it’s not that guys, regardless of where they are on the chopped-mid-i’m him spectrum, think it will be easy or don’t have patience…i know there are man that are basically willing to wait indefinitely in the friend zone for tiiiiime, i really think that men these times are almost too aware, especially if women have the expectation of anything approaching traditional courtship, man know if a woman is truly interested, that woman is going to remove some friction in the ‘getting familiar’ process…the apps offer efficiency in theory but the cost is frustration via ambiguity in practice for a lot of men & an abundance of unappealing choice for women

the reality has always been most women didn’t like most men initially superficially, ever since free market dating has been a thing it always took man time to gain/grow attraction with women generally; that why most men got with women that were in their social circles, went to school, worked with, or otherwise in enough proximity where they could display other qualities…it is really hard to do this online, especially as most men aren’t that as savvy as women with curating their online image/persona

now that women get much of their attention fix online, they are generally less receptive to advances in the actual meatspace from guys that aren’t attractive/their type initially/display cues of status &/or not on the woman’s terms, these times woman aren’t as willing to entertain that initial approach from guys that may not be their type such that man might be able to win her over with charm & a lot of man now aren’t that eager to shoot shots in person either

 

[ogbobbyjohnson773]

now that women get much of their attention fix online, they are generally less receptive to advances in the actual meatspace from guys that aren’t attractive/their type

funny
women get their fix on the apps
men get their fix watching porn

nobody needs to do anything in real life anymore


has there ever been talk of a movement for guys to collectively boycott/get off dating apps?

 

[tokes99]

funny
women get their fix on the apps
men get their fix watching porn

nobody needs to do anything in real life anymore


has there ever been talk of a movement for guys to collectively boycott/get off dating apps?

i forget what the ratio is but there are significantly more men on apps than women, i’m sure they are also the majority of paying users as well so you’d think the apps would be more attentive to the that majority…but similar to the sentiment here sometimes, i would think guys cycle between on & off the apps for periods due to disappointing options/outcomes, burn out and/or getting into a cool enough situation on or off app but i don’t even know how guys en masse would initiate a ‘boycott’ especially as the data says most people are dating online

 

[tr1ll]

meatspace

Ha! Meat space.

Yea outside, you have to peep who’s peeping you and move accordingly. Sometimes you just have to be friendly, the conversation could turn to something else before you know it. They know why you started talking to them.

 

[NToweG]

has there ever been talk of a movement for guys to collectively boycott/get off dating apps?

Good move.
But men ain't ready to take this kind of action.
But I am.





Probably because I'm already banned

 

[Brownstone]

has there ever been talk of a movement for guys to collectively boycott/get off dating apps?

I am honestly curious as to why there hasn't been. Everything I ever read or hear about is how rigged it is against men? Makes me wonder how true those statements are. Seems to me we should be seeing a decline of male users if this was/is truly the case.

 

[tay1]

Boycotting dating apps? Is it that serious?

You gonna get BS no matter how you try to get em.

I met two real good ones on my first two attempts off Hinge. I messed them both up tho

 

[willypete]

It’s no way the apps will be boycotted. Hell Tinder wasn’t boycotted when they had the “tinder swindler” finessing all those women.

If you feel like you’re too chronically online, get off the phone and go outside. If you can’t get matched online, go outside.

 

[tokes99]

I am honestly curious as to why there hasn't been. Everything I ever read or hear about is how rigged it is against men? Makes me wonder how true those statements are. Seems to me we should be seeing a decline of male users if this was/is truly the case.

depends the definition of 'rigged' is tho? there just are way more men on these apps than women...so i can imagine there are fluctuations (who knows how transparent their data on users is actually) in users but the possibility of less up front rejection is alluring, and lot of dudes do well enough that it is worth the amount of frustration; plus it is more or less understood:

You gonna get BS no matter how you try to get em.

you gotta 'love the game' word to Mitch

 

[tr1ll]

Too many F-Boys in the world. Its going to be some that get on dating apps BECAUSE we're boycotting.

 

[dakingii]

I been off dating apps for a couple years now and I dont miss it. Got back on early this month and already lost interest. Meeting in person is much better for me. But i keep the app in the pocket for the times i dont want to hit the streets.

 

[tay1]

Too many F-Boys in the world. Its going to be some that get on dating apps BECAUSE we're boycotting.

And will feast.

Actually, gon head and boycott

 

[tr1ll]

And will feast.

Actually, gon head and boycott

**** would last 5 hours.

Tbh if we did boycott, that would be the end of dating apps. Women don't particularly like them either. Its been that way since day 1. Actually, maybe we should boycott. Not for the ladies but so the apps can quit trying to coax us into paying for the opportunity to MAYBE meet someone.

 

[206to813]

Yall acting like men and women are equal and men are not fairly treated on apps lol.

Conveniently ignoring that men are biologically wired to want yams way more than women and we have more instincts to reproduce with multiple partners. We have high testosterone and are horned up. Society and cultural norms are to sexualize women, online and outside. We celebrate their beauty and their booty. Men are visual creatures and we love those curves. Women don’t have these struggles .

 

[ogbobbyjohnson773]

men are biologically wired to want yams way more than women and we have more instincts to reproduce with multiple partners. We have high testosterone and are horned up.

 

[Brownstone]

Need some coaching boys

Met up with my boys this weekend and was running a two man with my hommie. My boys had this old fling that he ran into and she was with a baddie, We were vibing and I think she sfeeling me. Another girl was throwing it at me so I had to giver her the digits. Og girl peeped me and made a comment, I saw that- blah blah blah . Still pulled og number.

Fast forward to the next day, I was choppign it up with og and mentioned seeing her again, she said yeah for sure and that she had already planted the seed with her friend to hit me and my boy up when they go out again. I wrote her off because I aint about that lets all go out steeze, but I didn't press. Said yeah for sure. I never intended to talk to her again.

Today she hits me up with "hope you had a great start to your week happy monday smiley face ect"..... I know this sounds ridiculous but what's my play? I am legit confused lol.

 

[2163O1baller90]

Lol just talk to her. You're overthinking my man

Try to set something up again if she tries to pull the same 2 man steeze just move on

 

[willypete]

Lol just talk to her. You're overthinking my man

Try to set something up again if she tries to pull the same 2 man steeze just move on

This

And you can tell your boy to do his own thing with his joint after y’all all link. No need to move on yet but if the 2 man is the move every time then yeah deuces

 

[lovehateself]

set up the two man and then have your boy pull out
if girl still bout it, she'll still want to link

 

[tr1ll]

Need some coaching boys

Met up with my boys this weekend and was running a two man with my hommie. My boys had this old fling that he ran into and she was with a baddie, We were vibing and I think she sfeeling me. Another girl was throwing it at me so I had to giver her the digits. Og girl peeped me and made a comment, I saw that- blah blah blah . Still pulled og number.

Fast forward to the next day, I was choppign it up with og and mentioned seeing her again, she said yeah for sure and that she had already planted the seed with her friend to hit me and my boy up when they go out again. I wrote her off because I aint about that lets all go out steeze, but I didn't press. Said yeah for sure. I never intended to talk to her again.

Today she hits me up with "hope you had a great start to your week happy monday smiley face ect"..... I know this sounds ridiculous but what's my play? I am legit confused lol.

Yea just talk because the bolded^ moved you to the front of the line.

 

[willypete]

I had to come back to this…..just realized it says “want kids” as well, how many dam kids you gonna have??

And it’s funny generosity is what she’s looking for, not loyalty or faithfulness. The profiles that include “generous” scream broke, because it usually means spending/giving absurd amounts of money to them.

If a dude really mess with a chick, he’ll spend money on her.

 

[frshstunna]

If a dude really mess with a chick, he’ll spend money on her.

Alotta joints don’t be getting this part…Just play it cool, and let the dude bring up money…But nope they follow the hookers on social media and music which leads them to feeling entitled to bread and asking/begging off top …Most fellaz don’t wanna feel like they being used (even if they really are), and that’s what it ends up looking like when they carry it that