yeah I know that exact situation as well but it was in about 2 months and wanted me to have thanksgiving dinner with her fam. I did it because I had already committed to it and her folks were cool, but I wasn’t seeing what she was seeing and the chemistry just wasn’t there.
Right move ultimately. "Love bombing" is just another form of control.
while i do think stuff like this can be instructive or illustrative of how folk might be moving ahhtchea…i dont believe any of it to be true, i think most are for engagement/outrage/or low key advertising but maybe i being cynical 
You'd be surprised.
Unless there’s a special circumstance like yall got a kid or she’s 2011 bitcoin, that’s an easy block
I remember how women complain about men being bums or always looking for a place to stay. What about the women who always have something wrong every single day. I helped her out a few times (my mistake ultimately) and to compare how she acts to a stray animal that once you feed them once they’ll keep coming back for more, wouldn’t be crazy or surprising. As messed up as it might be, I just ignore these type of messages now and text back at a later date.
Dating pool has gotten worse dating above or below your age
My whole face turned sour when I seen that ish come up on my phone
I remember how women complain about men being bums or always looking for a place to stay. What about the women who always have something wrong every single day. I helped her out a few times (my mistake ultimately) and to compare how she acts to a stray animal that once you feed them once they’ll keep coming back for more, wouldn’t be crazy or surprising. As messed up as it might be, I just ignore these type of messages now and text back at a later date.
Dating pool has gotten worse dating above or below your age
to some extent it comes with the territory #itiswhatitis...men/society doesn't not judge men & women equitably, too many women have the mindset that dealing with men is supposed to come with benefits outside of companionship & fortunately for them most men are willing to oblige them in that regard, some men even wear this as a badge.
Agree with everything you said. Big bum behavior (both genders)
the 'woe is me/always has/in problems' personality type is definitely not for the weary, that said because in general women tend to be more forthcoming & often comisserate about their problems, they aren't always looking for solutions but a lot times men want be problem solvers and put themselves in that trick bag
it really be that simple for some women...
Wildest part is that she told me yesterday her body was sore from walking around the circus the day before and that she might need a massage.
thing is it can be easy to fall into that behavior when it is rewarded...most men will be disabused of this pretty quickly by men & women alike, which is ultimately why a lot of dudes can live 'quiet lives of desperation' or feel like no one cares
fishing for a particular/specific solution, or just venting which a lot of women (people in general too) are waayyy too comfortable doing & unfortunately language of popular culture today tells women that men should be compassionate & have to listen to all manner of unimportant nonsense
How TF does a phone glitch? Unless it's water damaged
I remember how women complain about men being bums or always looking for a place to stay. What about the women who always have something wrong every single day. I helped her out a few times (my mistake ultimately) and to compare how she acts to a stray animal that once you feed them once they’ll keep coming back for more, wouldn’t be crazy or surprising. As messed up as it might be, I just ignore these type of messages now and text back at a later date.
Dating pool has gotten worse dating above or below your age
These be the same dudes that watch streamers
