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[fluid hips]

really hate getting asked "what are we?"

Im like uhh

any guys ever ask this to a female though?

feel like if you have to ask, its not gonna be the answer you want

Dynamics of power.

She gotta ask.

Shorty is ready to explore her options the minute you ask that

 

[willypete]

How TF does a phone glitch? Unless it's water damaged

Backup your stuff and factory reset

The amount of adults I see that aren't basic tech savvy is insane

If you ask most adults how to power cycle their device, you wouldn’t get an answer.

But idk how a phone glitches without any damage to it. Could just be another tactic to get bread/materialistic ish outta someone. Again I stopped caring after everyday it’s something new

 

[WASHED KING]

These be the same dudes that watch streamers

Dudes gotta go outside and practice convo skills

I think that’s a little overrated at this point. If a woman is attracted to you she won’t make dating her difficult.

Cats keep pursuing woman who aren’t feeling them or are just lukewarm on them.

You could be the best conversationalist in the world but if she not feeling you it won’t matter.

 

[WASHED KING]

Then on top of that men gotta be realistic with what they can pull and what that woman is looking for.

If she lives in a major city, in her 20’s and in the clubs in private sections each weekend. Have that money ready.

Best places for dating are mid major cities with none or only a few professional sports teams and a good job market for young professionals. Think Raleigh, Scottsdale, Austin, Seattle, Nashville.

 

[willypete]

Cats keep pursuing woman who aren’t feeling them or are just lukewarm on them.

Real live this in a nutshell.

If she lives in a major city, in her 20’s and in the clubs in private sections each weekend. Have that money ready.

Social media made it so even if they aren’t in major cities, it’s still very possible you’ll end up with a bird. And you midas whale say 30’s as well

But agreed

 

[tokes99]

I think that’s a little overrated at this point. If a woman is attracted to you she won’t make dating her difficult.

Cats keep pursuing woman who aren’t feeling them or are just lukewarm on them.

You could be the best conversationalist in the world but if she not feeling you it won’t matter.

very true, but that doesn't mean gyal won't unnecessarily complicate things

Then on top of that men gotta be realistic with what they can pull and what that woman is looking for.

If she lives in a major city, in her 20’s and in the clubs in private sections each weekend. Have that money ready.

Best places for dating are mid major cities with none or only a few professional sports teams and a good job market for young professionals. Think Raleigh, Scottsdale, Austin, Seattle, Nashville.

once heard someone describe fitness/working out as one of the few things in life that have direct negative consequences the more ambitious one starts out & tries put in more work to match...it definitely takes some experience or seen the play with someone else enough times to grasp this can be true with some women, especially these times when women are ahhtchea running exploits to the advice that old heads & women alike give to men...

 

[frshstunna]

Then on top of that men gotta be realistic with what they can pull and what that woman is looking for.

If she lives in a major city, in her 20’s and in the clubs in private sections each weekend. Have that money ready.

Best places for dating are mid major cities with none or only a few professional sports teams and a good job market for young professionals. Think Raleigh, Scottsdale, Austin, Seattle, Nashville.

Solid advice but it depends on the demographics and level of lady you looking for…If you looking for color, it’s only a few places that’s really poppin and only Raleigh on that list would cut it..Then if you want a top tier joint they all flock to the major cities so that cuts it down even more

The mid cities are cool tho, way more chill with lower expectations and they show more luv if you got any type of motion…Just doesn’t have as deep of a talent pool and it’s easier for your spot to get hot if you sticking and moving like that

 

[moe200069]

really hate getting asked "what are we?"

Im like uhh

any guys ever ask this to a female though?

feel like if you have to ask, its not gonna be the answer you want

did it for the first time back in 2019. was dating a woman for 4-5 months and she started letting me hit it raw so i figured she wanted to be monogamous. she wasn't seeing anyone else so i asked her "what are we?" she said "i'm just having fun." maaan she immediately cut me off after that conversation. what sucked was the pandemic started soon after and it was a dry spell for almost a year

experience taught me don't ask "what are we?" and instead, just say what I want and expect. if that person's not with it then I can move how i want to.

 

[Mark Antony]

Might be old fashioned, but I feel "what are we" is her thing, not yours.

 

[steebie j]

I don’t think I’ve ever asked “what are we”

Depending on the lady, I usually dip when I’m asked that. Hell I use to dip when they asked me “what’s your last name”

 

[TSCQ]

I don’t think I’ve ever asked “what are we”

Depending on the lady, I usually dip when I’m asked that. Hell I use to dip when they asked me “what’s your last name”

gotta give them the agent last name.

 

[tomdiginson]

Might be old fashioned, but I feel "what are we" is her thing, not yours.

Agreed.

 

[frshstunna]

Might be old fashioned, but I feel "what are we" is her thing, not yours.

Yea back in my day that’s something that you hoped to not hear for as long as possible, and def never thought of asking yourself

I feel like you can already tell if it’s heading towards a relationship, no need to ask most times or that convo just comes up naturally

 

[TURBO UNO]

I got hit on by some young dude I was handing some spare change to, lol. **** was so outrageous I couldn't even get mad.

Him:"Thank you bro. Hey, can I come home with you?"

Me: Took off one of my air pods "Say what?"

Him: Cheese smile "I'm being serious"

Me: Laughed it off and walked away

 

[tay1]

I got hit on by some young dude I was handing some spare change to, lol. **** was so outrageous I couldn't even get mad.

Him:"Thank you bro. Hey, can I come home with you?"

Me: Took off one of my air pods "Say what?"

Him: Cheese smile "I'm being serious"

Me: Laughed it off and walked away

He was tryna laugh you out the drawls? Crazy!!

 

[TURBO UNO]

He was tryna laugh you out the drawls? Crazy!!

I swear man, I hate having to deal with people in real life. Handed him $2+ change and he does me like that

 

[tokes99]

 

[willypete]

He was tryna laugh you out the drawls? Crazy!!

 

[fluid hips]

Whole story for engagement
What grown ahh man is ordering salads for lunch. TF

 

[paulwest1985]

Smh, some people love the sound of their own voice.

 

[ogbobbyjohnson773]

I don’t think I’ve ever asked “what are we”

Depending on the lady, I usually dip when I’m asked that. Hell I use to dip when they asked me “what’s your last name”

female: "what are we?"

steebie j:

 

[tay1]

Back on Hinge.

This **** trash now. I feel like they want me to pay. .

I also have my filter set strictly to black women and there are no dark skin women on my algorithm.

 

[Grine]

Better hit that BLK app

 

[tay1]

Better hit that BLK app

I remember I matched with a chick on blk and she messaged me her rates . I was appalled.

 

[willypete]

I remember I matched with a chick on blk and she messaged me her rates . I was appalled.

Rates too high?