Had seats next to a girl at a sporting event and since she was third-wheeling a married couple we casually chopped it up a bit, mainly about sports. The thought crossed my mind to get her number, but she seemed a little older so I wasn't sure. Of course the friends I'm with pressure me into asking so I do.
We met up over the weekend and it was one of the best first dates I'd been on. Her married friends/siblings come up in conversation and when I mention very few of mine are she asks how I old I am. Turns out she's 29 (4 years older) and close to 30. Because I didn't want to potentially waste her time, I tried to gauge where she's at by asking if she feels any pressure from her younger siblings being married and she said no...at the same time though who would admit that meeting up with a guy for the first time?
I've never dated a girl older than me and with a lot on my plate right now I really don't want to be seriously dating right now anyways. Because of that I tried to frame meeting up as casually as possible, it was super lowkey on the date spectrum and I think she picked up on that as well, but not sure.
I can tell she's the kind of person I want to be around whether as a friend or to causally date. At the same time, I don't want to be too quick to label it so that we're exclusively one of those things...plus if things keep going in the (slim) chance that whenever I feel is right for me to pursue a relationship again, I think dating a girl 4 years older than me is worth it. She's been texting me a lot and we both want to meet up again, so how should I proceed from here?