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The idea of Bumble is trash and sexist
It sounds "woman" friendly but it just ends up as woman sending a "hey" or emoji and then the man still starting the conversation.
It's dumb and performative
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The idea of Bumble is trash and sexist
Yes.
Ton of girls on dating apps are just looking for an ego boost.
There's also a ton of girls that are inundated with hundreds of messages, so you'll either have to wait your turn or move on.
Not gonna lie, I thought I would have been the best approach just playing it cool. I guess I messed up by not staying firm when she said she was busy.
The fact you're asking about her so much shows you dont have other options and that's the problem. Fix that. Have other options
Well….this is a first
Dont bet all your marbles. A lot of fake accounts on these app's.I figured, what's more baffling is when someone I'm actually interested in likes me first on Hinge (doesn't add a comment on the prompt) then I match with them and start a convo and nothing. Not sure what some of these women are expecting when they can't even come remotely close to matching the effort being put out.
Women are so damn horny and act like we're worse.Well….this is a first
I figured, what's more baffling is when someone I'm actually interested in likes me first on Hinge (doesn't add a comment on the prompt) then I match with them and start a convo and nothing. Not sure what some of these women are expecting when they can't even come remotely close to matching the effort being put out.
The idea of Bumble is trash and sexist
I agree... But nothing stops a guy from being an animal simply because a woman says "Hi" firstLet’s be real... The only reason bumble exists is cause dudes are animals
I agree... But nothing stops a guy from being an animal simply because a woman says "Hi" first
It sounds "woman" friendly but it just ends up as woman sending a "hey" or emoji and then the man still starting the conversation.
It's dumb and performative
Dont bet all your marbles. A lot of fake accounts on these app's.
What's your conversation game like though? If something on your profile doesn't illicit a message from her or the message you send doesn't get their attention it's a crapshoot.
Some chicks are just are just bored/going through the motions and most don't have the app notifications on so they aren't on the apps like we are.
That’s what’s starting to have me wondering. Maybe I’m doing something wrong? This is my first go around at the apps so I really don’t know what to expect. I’ve followed some advice in here and some from friends as well that is very similar. The asking out early has been bad for me. Had a couple just unmatch me upon asking them out, when it seemed like the convo was going well. Other than that I’ll typically ask about something on their profile and take it from there.
Reminder, if you’re not Asian & you’re single it’s pretty much over for you. Women of all races are dating only Asian men now.
You have to include something in your profile/message that will illicit a response.
Purpose of your prompts and bio is to make it easy for her to talk to you. Make her laugh, or curious and want to know more about you. This is 1 of the prompts I use.
All layups that make it easy for her to message me first, and that only happens 1-10 matches or so. Exhibit A when I logged in after work
Crocs are terrible and I will never own a pair but they’re useful.
Most of the time I message first and when I do I focus on either
1. Something in her profile if it’s unique. Shorty is in dental school so I used it.
2. I talk sh*t. Woman love claiming eccentric personality traits. She said she was “feisty”.
3. And when she has nothing of note in her profile or looks like a easy bust down. I shoot something like this at her.
Rinse and repeat.
Well I have the date set up now at least.